Originally posted by: grumpydwarf
My parents got married in 1984. They didn't even get to see each other. Again all worked out and they have had a happy married life but my point is times were different back then. DDLJ was even considered progressive to some. Again my parents would never force me to marry someone. I would just have to say "NO" without even giving a valid reason. It would end the story right then and there. I guess it just a reflection of changing times.
I remember the conversation Simran and her mom had about sacrifices women made in those times. I guess they were trying to say something about the central theme there and changing mindsets. It was one of the best scenes of the film.
Ya that scene was significant. Amrish Puri's character was so set in his ways...that all the girls in the house lived differently around him. There was a scene where the ladies were dancing & cooking & llistening to western music but as soon as daddy walked in they switched to some bhajan type song & the sisters took to reading lol! It's like you don't have the right to dream & live your life because of male in the family's ideals. The movie was trying to say that women have the right to live their life in their own way. Except they forgot to give Simran some spine & she waited till daddy agreed and gave in to Raj's stubbornness! Lol!
Compare this to EK Ladki...Sonam's character tells her dad after he says i am ashamed of you that she is not proud of him either! Ouch! Lol!
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