Anand and I have both changed our names; it's a personal choice: Sonam - Page 6

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guguminti

Whose surname are you using or FOR A FACT every Indian is ? The FATHER not the Mother because the mother herself changes it to the father's😆 She married to Ahuja n everyone from.their is Ahuja so yeah this comment was more of what u called sonam's 😲🥱
If she wants Kapoor and Ahuja in her name its her wish, her life, can we just stop ghusaofaing FEMINISM everywhere.


Watch your tone man. If you can't understand what I've written then it isn't my problem and I refuse to engage.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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It's her name, her husband, her marriage, and most importantly her LIFE. Pppl need 2 back off.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChoclateLover

I have seen people keeping both their father and mother's maiden names 😛

And I think what Astha tried to say is that if Anand chose Sonam's name and not Kapoor, then Sonam could have chosen Anand's name and not Ahuja .i.e. Sonam Anand Kapoor 😉
And this whole arguement was because the person she quoted justified that Anand chose Sonam's name in stead because Anand is married to Sonam and not to Kapoors 😕


That was another comment CL. Actually my point after reading this IV was that Sonam is saying that she took Anand's name out of respect. That she respected her father so took his name earlier and now respects her husband so is taking his name too. I just wanted to say that this justification is illogical and stupid. She should have just said that it is her choice and it is fine. I don't question her choice. I am questioning her stupid justification. She's obviously trying hard to not look narrow-minded and so is giving dumb reasons. THAT is what I am questioning/ criticising.


It is so obvious that she's just following the norm of the society by changing her surname(adding whatever). But she doesn't want to look any less modern because of it and that is why is talking all stupid things. That's what I'm calling her out for. If she doesn't have any sensible reason to give and doesn't want to look like she's just doing it because she can't go against the tide then why even give any explanations? Just say it is my choice and that's it. After all, it definitely IS a personal choice.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: astha36


Sonam changes her name to Sonam Kapoor Ahuja.
Anand changes to Anand S Ahuja.

Both supposedly respect their fathers and are taking their spouse's name. But is the addition of 'Ahuja' the same as the addition of 'S' ? Those who are stupid enough to give illogical justifications for Sonam's statement, need to be told so.

So you expect to be respected but will abuse others : how predictable ...

You can give your opinion but it isn't more valid than any of ours : at the end of the day, no one knows what's on their mind !
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: F.I.T.B

TOPIC :

EXCLUSIVE: Sonam Kapoor Ahuja after getting married to Anand Ahuja: Life doesn't change much post marriage'



FITB POV : That's democracy you have but P L E A S E change your profession also and leave BW 😆


I'd say her maturity level hasn't changed either. 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ek name change par itni debate 😲 rai ka pahaad bana daala 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kaoridz

So you expect to be respected but will abuse others : how predictable ...

You can give your opinion but it isn't more valid than any of ours : at the end of the day, no one knows what's on their mind !


Tit for tat is always predictable. What is also predictable is that instead of the one who started calling other members stupid, you quoted me to say all this. And Sonam has already spoken what's on her mind and I just commented about that. But of course some people have to make it personal and then others will come and give ME a lecture over my reply. Why not ask the other person whom I have quoted if her opinion is more valid than us?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: astha36



That was another comment CL. Actually my point after reading this IV was that Sonam is saying that she took Anand's name out of respect. That she respected her father so took his name earlier and now respects her husband so is taking his name too. I just wanted to say that this justification is illogical and stupid. She should have just said that it is her choice and it is fine. I don't question her choice. I am questioning her stupid justification. She's obviously trying hard to not look narrow-minded and so is giving dumb reasons. THAT is what I am questioning/ criticising.


It is so obvious that she's just following the norm of the society by changing her surname(adding whatever). But she doesn't want to look any less modern because of it and that is why is talking all stupid things. That's what I'm calling her out for. If she doesn't have any sensible reason to give and doesn't want to look like she's just doing it because she can't go against the tide then why even give any explanations? Just say it is my choice and that's it. After all, it definitely IS a personal choice.

sonam and her senseless mindless W*F statements. Anand has not changed shut, adding his birth give S for his own father social media and that after this interviews doesn't negate her stupidity or lies.
Sonam u r not giving respect to ur father by taking his name it is ur birth name. The man created in the literal and actual sense, not only were u born out of his u know what, but thank ur stars every day because he effing made u the big dumbo u r had u been born to the likes of Govinda u would be struggling like daughter despite being 30.

U changed it bc u felled compelled bc u always feel that way. Bc u have never been what u claim to be
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Posted: 7 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: astha36


Sonam changes her name to Sonam Kapoor Ahuja.
Anand changes to Anand S Ahuja.

Both supposedly respect their fathers and are taking their spouse's name. But is the addition of 'Ahuja' the same as the addition of 'S' ? Those who are stupid enough to give illogical justifications for Sonam's statement, need to be told so.


While you already think its illogical then why bother about her name change in the first place?

Her choice. Even Kapoor is not her dad's name as per say but a family name so she is true to her own words of respecting their families but oh no, u guys would only appreciate it if DP does it. Oh wait, u guys claim crap for her RK tattoo, name change toh small hai
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Posted: 7 years ago
#60
Symbolic Pseudo Feminism has been reduced to name change like seriously ...itna hai equality to dont even use yr fathers name he is also a man after all and u r using his identity really!

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