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Posted: 7 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

😃 Vanraj-Sameer. They were both very sincere in their relationship. Tried their best to cope up with the situation despite the fancy whims of Ms. I am the Queen.

I'd have preferred to see a separation of all 3 leads of around 2 yrs where Nandini could sort out her non-existent relationship problems and have clarity in what she wanted. After that, whatever she'd have chosen, would be fine. The current ending looked to me a compromise for the sake of marriage, although the compromise started with good hope, positives and with a good man, but who knows if she'd ever end up loving Vanraj or not. 😛



I said the same thing some time ago in another thread about HDDCS ending

If the movie was made now Vanraj-Sameer would get together 😊

Bold - I think the ending implies that she is falling for Vanraj
And nothing is certain... That can happen with Sameer too... She can fall out of love, after living together for awhile


Edited by -Betty- - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

^^No, I did too. They had nice subtly intense chemistry in Raincoat too! One of her very very few co-actors Ash had good chemistry with! Salman & her chemistry is damn over-rated, like RK-DP/RS-DP's.


Exactly. Also as a kid i enjoyed the Sameer-Nandini scenes, but as i grew up i swear by god i started thinking that they were loud and OTT, yes the characters had attraction for each other but I do not feel bad for them when they part ways 😆
I loved Vanraj, everything, starting with his anger, till his break down after being drunk, the character is intense and Ajay gives a terrific performance too.
Salman-Aish chemistry is hyped only because these two had a scandalous off-screen break up, otherwise they were a good looking couple but nothing to boast at.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Oh yes and in a perfect ending that horrible Baba should have been sent to isolation too. If one character of that movie annoys the hell out of me, is that useless sanskaari Baba. When I see it now, I cant believe they had the audacity to pass his sanskaar as some good will which destroyed so many lives like his niece who was clearly a prey of domestic violence or his own daughter who could have lived happily with her first love. Nonsense.
Edited by Pehchaan.Kaun - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#64
I just loved how she didn't put out Ajay on her wedding night and trolled him big time. 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam: From Real Life to Reel Life

Written By Mila_in_NY Mumbai Updated: May 5, 2012 10:42 PM 1511929 reads 68 comments

Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam came out in 1999. Wow that was 13 years ago, seems unreal. It was such a massive hit. The whole nation fell head over hills in love with Aish. She looked out of this world. Although I am not a fan of her acting skills, she did act surprisingly well in that movie. The second half when her husband takes her back to her BF was kind of unreal and Salman over acted big time at the ending, but all in all a great movie. I never gave it a thought if it was a story SLB came out with all by himself or he had some creative writers. Turns out neither.

Few days ago I was watching an appallingly bad movie on Netflix called 'The Bengali Night' or 'La Nuit Bengali' starring a young, lanky, fresh Hugh Grant (it was his first starring role) and a sweet and chirpy Supriya Pathak. The movie came out in 1988. Half way through I started to feel like I have heard this story before, the big palatial mansion the girl's family had, though much less ostentatious than SLB's sets, and the split level library...I instantly thought about Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam. A quick search later it all fell into place. SLB borrowed freely and heavily from one of the most under rated yet greatest love stories of the 20th century, a true life event and never gave credit to anyone.

The love story happened in early 1930's in Bengal between a remarkably smart and sweet 16 year old girl named 'Maitreyi Devi' and a young Romanian writer and philosopher named Mircea Eliade. He came to study Philosophy with Maitreiyi's dad Surendranath Dasgupta, a renowned philosopher himself. These two young people fell deeply in love and carried on their secret affair behind the back of everyone. When found out, Eliade was thrown out of Devi's home. He went back to Europe and wrote a gut wrenching, semi-erotic love story named 'Maitreyi' or 'La Nuit Bengali' in French, a very thinly veiled account of their romance in 1933.

What happened next was much more interesting than the movie Hum Dil..., in the movie Ajay Devgan's character tries to return his bride to her lover. In reality, after her heartbreak, Maitreyi picked herself up, grew up, got top notch education and became one of the most respected writer in Bengali literature. She also got married, no, not to Eliade. In fact they did not meet for more than 40 years. All this time, Devi was not aware of the existence of the book 'Maitreyi' or 'La Nuit Bengali'. It had not been translated to English yet. When she found out, she was kind of hurt by all the description of sexual intimacy between the lead characters in the book. So, she went ahead and wrote her own version of the book called 'Na Hanyate' or 'It does not Die' in the early 70's. In 1974, she went to University of Chicago as a visiting scholar where Eliade was a professor at that time. She went to his office and confronted him on this matter. He promised not to release his book in English in her life time, a promise which he kept.

Now University of Chicago press offers these two books as a bundle, kind of a 'He said, she said' story so one gets the full picture. Both books are fascinating, available on amazon.com, or if you live in NYC, walk into Strand and get an english copy of 'La Nuit Bengali'. Shame on you SLB for borrowing and butchering a great love story with your cheesy ending and never giving credit where credit was definitely due.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I watched this movie once and vowed to NEVER watch it again. I think I was more heartbroken then Sameer when Nandini chose Vanraj over him. I was rooting for Sameer and Nandini through and through. I could never fathom how Nandini's father could actually force her daughter to marry despite the fact that she even slit her wrist at the end of the Tadap Tadap song. Like HELLO, your daughter just attempted suicide mate, don't ya think she's not exactly ready for a forced marriage at the moment?

I am a hopeless crappy romantic at heart that likes it when first true love finds a way to live happily ever after. I also wanted to see a change. Instead of being compelled to accept your husband and to sacrifice your love for the sake of upholding societies expectations, I wished that Nandini and Sameer would stand up and fight against the rules. AND this is where everything about the movie pisses me off. Why can't a female character be shown as strong enough to CHOOSE love over responsibilities for a change! It's always that same stupid mentality being shoved down our throats that THE HUSBAND is 'Pati Parmeshwar' or some shit. If you marry him than SCREW your dreams and learn to adapt to being a good traditional wife that compromises and finds LURVE in her marriage.

My eye is twitching from repressed rage again.
Edited by FingerFetish - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Oh yes and in a perfect ending that horrible Baba should have been sent to isolation too. If one character of that movie annoys the hell out of me, is that useless sanskaari Baba. When I see it now, I cant believe they had the audacity to pass his sanskaar as some good will which destroyed so many lives like his niece who was clearly a prey of domestic violence or his own daughter who could have lived happily with her first love. Nonsense.



And he is way more evil in the book...they toned him down (and everything else related to him) a lot in the movie 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Having watched this first as a younger girl, everything in this movie was repugnant to me aside from Sameer/Nandini's love story in the first half and the awesome songs. Otherwise, this movie made me feel like I was being suffocated, that stifling feeling was present throughout the movie. The way the elder men in the house treated their daughters was absolutely disgusting! 😡 Her cousin was forced to marry some stranger for the sake of the family by leaving her lover and then she was mentally, physically, and sexually abused by her so called pati permashwar husband. What did the so called "elders," do afterwards? They sent her back again to live in that hell of a life. They had no mercy for their own blood. How heinous and barbaric! and then Nandini was forced to marry some random stranger again, though, that was her good luck that her husband didn't turn out to be some abuser, though it was still unfair that she had to be separated from Sameer because of the know-it-all attitude of her dad.

What was the movie telling us? That so called elders out of their foolish and false pride and inflated self important chose to ruin their kids' life? And even when they have the proof of how horribly miserable their kids are, they still do not change anything instead push them again in that pitfire though everything was their fault. The entire side plot of Nandini's cousin just disturbed so much. If I had lived in that type of world, I would have long run away rather than have my life become so hellish. Ever since then I have sort of hated SLB movies, I just can not watch that restrictive, rigid, and regressive treatment of females in any such films as a status quo. It makes me feel helpless. It makes me really angry. This was an off topic rant, though on topic, I definitely understood after growing older, why she chose to go back to Vanraj and supported her decision as she herself had changed by the time she met Sameer again and she wasn't the old Nandini anymore and her needs were different.
Edited by springkissed - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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If the movie released now, no one would have liked it cos Nandini was FORCED to marry Vanraj and the pati parmeshwar crap . U should be with the person u love , not with someone cos of guilt or admiration
Edited by 2RsFan - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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[DIV]If anything, Sameer and Nandini's relationship looks doomed.. That guy left her over a freaking promise.. Today its a promise, tomorrow it can be anything.. You don't leave a woman you supposedly love truly for a promise.. Thats where Vanraj has an edge.. His priority was Nandini's happiness... Nothing beyond that mattered to him


Well this was no action movie where Salman can beat 100 guys and elope with the heroine but he did try and sent letters to her which were hidden
Edited by 2RsFan - 7 years ago

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