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cory

@cory

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Can't understand stalking there's nothing wrong in pursuing but stalking is just cheap and stupid like the guy has nothing more important to do than to waste his time.

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Hibernated

Posted: 7 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Cookies..

Where did you hear that from? Little teenagers?

Women DO NOT like bad boys. At Most, if someone says they like bad boys, it's mostly for timepass. Not a life partner or companion. We seek respect and stability in life. Not some teenage drama.

women liking bad boys notion is usually perpetuated by "nice guys" to justify why they're single...

you know those "nice guys" who think by them showing basic decency towards women think they are entitled to those women's affection

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Male-Chauvinist-Pig

@Ur-Miserable

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 7 years ago

#13

Personally for me stalking is not having any respect for self.

Best way is to ask a gal out, if she goes good. If she does not, well always remember Baba Aamir's golden words from Ishq.

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SASSZS

@SASSZS

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: 2RsFan
It just shows one side of the problem . Women like bad guys too

Life is not a GK or EK drama to have bad guys being glorified and having girls falling for them. In reality, women do prefer men who can respect them and be understanding. They definitely do not endorse stalking and hate people who do it.

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return_to_hades

@return_to_hades

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 7 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: cory
Can't understand stalking there's nothing wrong in pursuing but stalking is just cheap and stupid like the guy has nothing more important to do than to waste his time.

IMO pursuing is also problematic. The person said no for a reason. It is disrespectful to not accept that and try to make someone change their mind.

I understand where it comes from. From childhood, we are told never to give up and keep trying. Movies show us that pursuit is romantic. It is an unhealthy message. sometimes you have to accept that you cannot have some things and move on.

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643898

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Posted: 7 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Women like bad guys is also a myth perpetuated by problematic tropes. Most women in the real world will say that they want a partner who respects them. It is usually naive teenagers and young women who think the bad boy stereotype is cool

The popularity of Indian shows like IPKKND, fifty shades, twilight etc show otherwise

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643898

Hibernated

Posted: 7 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: willina
no, women like good guys.

let women speak for themselves.

its like saying women get physically abused by husbands because they like the physical domination of manly mens. no we don't.

we love guys who respects women
who has manners
who is well read
who is adventurous
who is kind
who is understanding
who is compassionate

yet its ppl like Trump who gets all the girls😆

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springkissed

@springkissed

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: 2RsFan

yet its ppl like Trump who gets all the girls😆

You kidding me? Nobody would look twice at that orange orangutan if not for his money. I'm sure his current wife malenia wouldn't have married him or given him a second look if he wasn't filthy rich. A woman would seriously have to be messed up to actually desire and like that guy.

Edited by springkissed - 7 years ago