Are Saif and Kareena being insensitive? - Page 23

Originally posted by: anjs

@bold : same implies to you, dear

Your comment is equally negative... Nobody burdened KK with Sridevi's death... People are just expecting common courtesy, where a colleague died and she couldve easily flown in for a few hours, but didnt do so...

Originally posted by: desigal90

So if anyone in your work space passes away, and you're out of city, you'll actually FLY IN to attend?

I guess you folks are closer to your office work colleagues than I am. The hospital I work in has over thousands employees; some I know of, I've interacted with here and there. Mainly residents in other specialties. While I talk to them here and there, its unrealistic that I'll actually FLY IN to attend a funeral if something where to happen. Depends on how close I am to them

oh please .
KAreena and Saif can afford to FlY in. Deepika FLEW IN despite not having much to do with Sridevi. So yes KAreena could have done the same considering she had No obligations at all and was just an hour away. Regular people do not have the means to fly in and still make an efforts to pay their respects. Accept the fact that KAreena is a Maha -obnoxious and self obsessed individual and move on. Going around in circles fighting tooth and nails online for days for something that Kareena doesn't give a shit about. As self obsessed and attention seeking as KAreena is she was probably jealous of all the media coverage Sridevis demise received. Nobody cared about KAreena and her daily paparazzi shenanigans with her child and husband.

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Originally posted by: desigal90

Hug time 🤗

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Originally posted by: ManwaLagge

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Originally posted by: Enycedoll

y'all need to stop being keyboard warriors and get out more. Some of you are so negative its shocking. It's like, the burden of Sridevis death falls on the shoulders of Kareena and Saif.

Originally posted by: desigal90

So if anyone in your work space passes away, and you're out of city, you'll actually FLY IN to attend?

I guess you folks are closer to your office work colleagues than I am. The hospital I work in has over thousands employees; some I know of, I've interacted with here and there. Mainly residents in other specialties. While I talk to them here and there, its unrealistic that I'll actually FLY IN to attend a funeral if something where to happen. Depends on how close I am to them

I guess nobody can change Kareenas sensitivities. She will just be her conceited self no matter what.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Maybe I am a heartless soulless beast, but I honestly do not think any human being is obliged to attend funerals or express emotions that may not be inherent to them.

In my opinion, marriage, birth, death, and these major life events have become a social farce. Strangers converging to express best wishes and condolences to do what society thinks is the right thing to do. There is no honesty around sentiments anymore. You're expected to invite people to a wedding because they are "industry" or "colleagues" even if you barely know each other. You're expected to shed tears and be devastated even though you were just "co-workers".

There is absolutely nothing wrong with not being devastated when a colleague passes away. There is absolutely nothing wrong with not attending the funeral of a colleague. There is absolutely nothing wrong with continung your everyday life as it were when a colleague passes away.

Personally, I feel deep emotions only for close friends and family. There are plenty of acquaintances and colleagues whom I do feel joy/pity/sorry for depending on the life events, but I will never feel obliged to go out of my way to express it.

Insensitive would be scheduling a conflicting event during the funeral. Insensitive would be clicking selfies at a funeral. Insensitive would be going to a funeral and sharing your vacation pics with mourners.

Going about your daily routine that was planned ahead of time is not insensitive in my world. Saif and Kareena are quite pretentious, selfish and self-absorbed. There are many times they are full of themselves. But they have not gone out of their way to intentionally hurt Boney Kapoor and family.

This is the best reply.
And i hate to attend funerals. I have intentionally avoided few of my relatives funerals. But i prayed for their souls. if that makes me a bad and insensitive person. Then let it be. cause i feel depressed visiting funerals.

There have been other deaths in the industry. Heard Shammi Kapoor passed away. Some time back Om Puri had passed away. Just because they aren't as famous as Sri, there should be different behaviours from the industry people? Nobody's life is more valuable than the other. They don't have to fake mourn to be socially acceptable. Not everybody is affected as much by someone's death as the other. So, if their family has attended the funeral, they have given their condolences, they can live life as they want without the fear of being labelled insensitive.