Are Saif and Kareena being insensitive? - Page 21

Originally posted by: CocoChanel

In truest sense Kareena is a carbon copy of her mother Babita. Selfish, spineless and zilch emotions for anyone. Karisma at least has some of her dad's qualities like showing some empathy towards ppl. Only Randhir and Karisma attended the funeral from the family. I m scared for Taimur. Hope he gets a good upbringing and some etiquettes. Just wishful thinking.

Originally posted by: --Ariana--

@bold: Exactly my point. A woman whose husband's kids lost their mother, who were left orphaned even when their father was alive, didn't bother to console or take care of them. Heck, she didn't even ask Boney to go to his children and support them. Their relationship was much closer than what Kareena and Sri had. Working with someone 10years back doesn't qualify as having close relations.

And just like you are asking me who am I, I wanna ask who are you to know or judge someone's relationship? Just because a popular celeb is not there any more, doesn't mean she becomes a devi. Her past mistakes will still be there. Common courtesy sirf apne biasedness pe nahi apply hoti!

Originally posted by: pakeezah

Are you purposely being dense?

Do you think Arjun and Anshula even had a relationship with Sridevi that she will go and speak' to them when their mom has died? WHAT WILL SHE SPEAK TO THEM AND SAY.. PLS ANSWER. I'm interested to know.

Waiting.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Maybe I am a heartless soulless beast, but I honestly do not think any human being is obliged to attend funerals or express emotions that may not be inherent to them.

In my opinion, marriage, birth, death, and these major life events have become a social farce. Strangers converging to express best wishes and condolences to do what society thinks is the right thing to do. There is no honesty around sentiments anymore. You're expected to invite people to a wedding because they are "industry" or "colleagues" even if you barely know each other. You're expected to shed tears and be devastated even though you were just "co-workers".

There is absolutely nothing wrong with not being devastated when a colleague passes away. There is absolutely nothing wrong with not attending the funeral of a colleague. There is absolutely nothing wrong with continung your everyday life as it were when a colleague passes away.

Personally, I feel deep emotions only for close friends and family. There are plenty of acquaintances and colleagues whom I do feel joy/pity/sorry for depending on the life events, but I will never feel obliged to go out of my way to express it.

Insensitive would be scheduling a conflicting event during the funeral. Insensitive would be clicking selfies at a funeral. Insensitive would be going to a funeral and sharing your vacation pics with mourners.

Going about your daily routine that was planned ahead of time is not insensitive in my world. Saif and Kareena are quite pretentious, selfish and self-absorbed. There are many times they are full of themselves. But they have not gone out of their way to intentionally hurt Boney Kapoor and family.