Does abuse or violence define true & passionate love? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Angry_Birdie

Abuse is abuse. Period.
Just because a person "loves" you and shows his anger by abusing you mentally /physically /sexually, then it is not passion, but an indication that this person can go way beyond this in future and harm you even more.
Shouting on you just because you smiled at a male friend or went for coffee with them, and then coming to you with that sorry face saying i am protecting you or i am possessive about you, then it is not cute or something go go 'aww' about, it is a dangerous sign.

I read this theory on dimestic abuse cycle and it totally makes a valid point

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cycle_of_abuse

Originally posted by: NadanParindey

You nailed it Anjali. I really find it amusing how some people still ask for proofs if Salman really used to abuse Aishwarya physically or harass & torture her. 🥱

Anyways, hope you're doing well. 😳

Originally posted by: Angry_Birdie

I am doing good NP, thanks. How have you been?

Ot: it is so effed up. I mean if someone calls Salman a passionate lover, i tend to judge that person so much. no one should ever confuse love and passion with abuse and violence.
I might not know what love is but, i definitely know what is not love and that includes abuse under the guise of passion.

Originally posted by: NadanParindey

I'm find too. Not coming online these days!

If Salman is the role model for passionate lovers then lord should save girls from such men. 😆

Originally posted by: Angry_Birdie

The topic is about love v abuse, not about Kangu using her victim card. So, please save the sarcasm for some other thread.

Originally posted by: Angry_Birdie

Yeah, i noticed you haven't been active here and i saw yiu mentioned about college pressure. I hope you do well.i miss college so much, it is the best phase of life. Make the most of it NP 😆

Honestly speaking, most girls today are in abusive relationships which is emotional if not physical. I have a bunch of friends in such relationships and only God knows how much we have tried to shake them out of their illusion that the guy is just torturing them. Once, a guy blatantly told my friend that your parents deserve whatever is happening with them when she told him about them being sick. 🤢 after alot of pursuing was done, she broke uo but then viola, back with him in a day. 🤢 so, girls act like fools.

Originally posted by: NadanParindey

Was has Kangana gotta do with this topic? Am I missing something? o.O

Yea! I do enjoy my college life a lot but there's too much pressure too.

Such girls should be equally responsible for all the sufferings & miseries that takes place in their lives, for tolerating their good for nothing abusive partners. I don't feel bad for those girls either. I can't tolerate doormats. One of the major reasons why I could never respect or feel sympathetic towards Draupadi because she stayed like a doormat throughout the epic despite of all the mistreatments, insults and humiliation because of her so-called Dharmik (read Adharmi) husbands. A woman with genuine self-respect would've walked out & shunned her husband. So no empathy or sympathy for Draupadi

Do you know the reason why I respect Ash? I'm not even a fan of her acting or beauty by a long distance, but only because that woman had enough self-respect and dignity & guts to stand alone against that bully abuser and not even once she looked back at him in future or talks about him publicly to get attention or publicity, neither acts pally with him or how he's & will always be special to her. Respect! 👏