Why do some actors/actresses show their spouse more than others?

When an actress or actor get married most of them have their wedding day published in the media. They do an interview, magazine cover, and all that jazz.

But after that they fall into two groups.

One where from that day onwards you know they are married. The spouse is with them on holidays, events, award ceremonies, and on social media at home with selfies.

Than the other group they get married and the spouse disappears. Missing when the actor/actress is on holiday, never at events with them or awards shows. No selfies on their social media account. If they did not publicise their wedding you would not know they are married.

Now I understand some people are more comfortable in the limelight than others but if you are going to publicise your wedding than after completely disappear.

Is that indicative of them not being close. Even when the actor or actress go on holidays they are never there.

From what I've seen if somebody is trying too hard to make it sound like they are just perfect you better believe they are not. Seen this with few relatives and friends too. Their Facebook is carefully orchestrated with picture perfect families and happy faces you see them and are awestruck. But the reality is something else.

seems like you are hinting at john and bipasha

U mean john never publicize and bipasha is all over . And even shilpa shetty is also all over.

Originally posted by: TheBoss

From what I've seen if somebody is trying too hard to make it sound like they are just perfect you better believe they are not. Seen this with few relatives and friends too. Their Facebook is carefully orchestrated with picture perfect families and happy faces you see them and are awestruck. But the reality is something else.

Yeah I thought that aswell.

Originally posted by: Atomicbomb

Yeah I thought that aswell.

I am not hinting at Bipasha and John though they fit in the two groups.

I saw Shahid Kapoors IG account. His wife is present there a lot.

I follow Kunal Kapoor. This guy has gotten pretty big at the gym now. For his new role.

Anyway he married Bachans neice and she is hardly there. No pictures and he goes abroad quite a lot.

He posted from Bali right now at beach, getting messages and no wife in site

Originally posted by: Atomicbomb

I am not hinting at Bipasha and John though they fit in the two groups.

I saw Shahid Kapoors IG account. His wife is present there a lot.

I follow Kunal Kapoor. This guy has gotten pretty big at the gym now. For his new role.

Anyway he married Bachans neice and she is hardly there. No pictures and he goes abroad quite a lot.

He posted from Bali right now at beach, getting messages and no wife in site

Wedding is the kind of event that should be publicized - nothing wrong with. But I think, afterwards it falls under if you're comfortable to be seen or not. Not everyone is comfy with world viewing their pics. Each to their own.

If you are a celebrity there is a certain amount of things that are public. In all likelihood you will see their spouse, kids pictures as they are out and about taken by papps or fans most likely. That is normal as part of their lives to me. Some of them choose to use SM to control exposure with releasing of first pictures of their babies especially and that is ok with me too.