Any woman who spends time with her children 24/7 is a 'bai'

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_shadesnature_

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Posted: 9 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: Chameli_billi

This is her exact quote on world AIDS day when talking about HIV:

"It's just a little more worrisome than a common cold and it's curable, so just go out there and get it done,"

Link: http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/hindi/bollywood/news/What-went-wrong-Kajol/articleshow/2592143.cms

I don't call her the biggest dumbass in BW for nothing. Poor Alia gets all the flak for nothing. 😆

Well I don't know that HIV is easily curable as common cold ...thanks for telling me ...kajol

That's why people call actress dumb

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Pappu.Pager

@Pappu.Pager

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Posted: 9 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: Chameli_billi
Kajol is an idiot. This is what you get when you read nothing but romance novels all your life. 😆 Kajol also said common cold is the same as HIV or something along those lines few years ago. 😆

WOW. just. WOW.

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ChipChipiBhaalu

@OriginalJuhi_04

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Posted: 9 years ago

#53

Sumthn is really wrong wid dis woman. 1st she don't agree wid SRK of his joke of Abram-Aaradhya as couple as Abram is younger to Aaradhya. SRK shut her up wittily. She can have no problem wid her baby sis dating a oldie Armaan Mallik but a girl even 2 years older is wrong to her. Does she means dat only men sud be older in marriage? And now wid dis article, she is too much now. Why don't her kids miss their dad? Why only mom? Hope she does not turns Yug into MCP n Nysa into a bai🥱. She really insulted d children n even mothers wid her statement.

Edited by angel_juhi04 - 9 years ago

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NeemKaP

@NeemKaP

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Posted: 9 years ago

#54

Wow!! Karol missed growing up train terribly. Someone slap some sense into her at least. What sort of comment is this? It is natural for children crave attention from parents...that does not make a parent bai. It simply makes them parents!!

Rude, obnoxious, snooty! She lost all my respect with this ongoing stupidity, this is last straw.

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desigal90

@desigal90

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Posted: 9 years ago

#55

Can we please post her ACTUAL quote instead of TM's interpretation as the title? *SMH*

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Sonal99

@Sonal99

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Posted: 9 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: return_to_hades
Misinterpreted. Misconstrued. Misunderstood.

Exactly! The title of this post is misleading.

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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 9 years ago

#57

TM completely jumbled up Kajol's words to get her bashed. 😆 And of course everyone jumped into the fray at once. Whenever this forum gets a chance to bash an actress, be it Ash or Kajol or Deepika, they jump in at once to add their 2 cents. I have noticed people are not so eager to bash certain notorious actors though they deserve it much more. Typical! 🥱

Kajol left her successful career after having kids, she stayed out of the limelight for 6-7 yrs after Yug was born. Boys are certainly more clingy and demanding of their moms than girls are.

Even some grown up kids expect their mom to do their laundry, do all the cooking, cleaning, while they spend hours chatting with friends. That is akin to treating ur mom as a Bai, isnt it?

Anyway what Kajol meant is that most kids want their mommy around and do every little thing for them. They want mommy to look after them, even if shes a working woman. Working dads are not expected to do anything at all.

Working mothers have the most difficult job in the world, balancing work and home.

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1017676

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Posted: 9 years ago

#58

"They always complain. If they had their way, I would be sitting at home 24/7. My son tells me 'Mama I like it when I enter the house and see you waiting for me'. I think every child wants their mother to be their bai (maid)" she added.

Story of every mother.My mom used to complain about that a lot.

If you are not being appreciated for what you do at home then resentment starts to grow.everything is valued in terms of money so if you aren't earning money then you aren't given much respect. But then there is working woman who are bashed or made guilty for neglecting their family.

So there is no winning for woman.

Poor choice of words in Kajol's part.

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Aditi

@Infinite_Flame

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Posted: 9 years ago

#59

TM just picked out words and put it in a bitter context. Several times when mothers get frustrated coz of the mounting piles of responsibility , they tend to speak out in frustration "naukar/bai banna rakha hai ye sab ne, every work just falls up on me" kinda stuff..Have heard this rants from several mother.

Esp in India, where life, wishes and dreams of children take every precedence over mothers dreams and priorities, this could happen ,that doesnt mean they lack motherhood qualities or a bad mother. That just shows they r humans too.

No doubt Kajol could have worded it properly in public domain.

Edited by -Aditi - 9 years ago

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desigal90

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Posted: 9 years ago

#60

I think its kinda ridiculous how much IF members criticize people. This is probably one of the most common statements I've heard all around, and yes, even from my OWN mother. She's a home maker and a proud one at that, but she has her complaints.

Don't we all complain about work at some point in our life? Hell I'm in school and I still complain about the amount of work given, I know people in the work field also complain from time to time, that we're being worked like dogs.

GOD FORBID a stay at home mom complains about her kids treating her like she's a house help...BLASPHEMY. Are you honestly trying to tell me you've NEVER heard anyone say that before?

Geez folks, give people a break. Stop being so critical ALL the time. It gets so annoying after a while.