'I spoke out of turn.' - Tanisha - Page 4

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Posted: 11 years ago
#31
its her game plan to remain in this game
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: poorvab


she is definitely more affable and a much much better person than him . in fact there is no comparison because she is or was a sensible and smart woman! she bonded so well with so many people she met for the first time she has been a very nice person too! but having attached herself to armaan, she's even feeding on his thoughts and hating the people he hates and getting so negative. when she came she was such a sweet positive person.

That's true...
We don't know how she conducts herself in the real world. Maybe she is more assertive outside - but just like every snow-flake, every person is different. We will never be able to understand why she behaves the way she does - maybe she was raised to believe that she needs a strong male presence around her, or maybe she just loves him all that hopelessly (I doubt this)...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Wisian

She is showing signs of co-dependence, and it is pitiable how she conducts herself.

By all accounts, she is probably more accomplished than him - and most certainly, she is a more affable person. She is however unable to assert herself - probably because she is afraid of becoming lonely, or vulnerable. This can also be seen from her eagerness to label every woman in the house as "being in need of men" (specifically the one man that is "her protector").

I don't dislike/hate her -- I just feel sorry for her. ☯️

Very well written post! And it attemptd to answer my question directly, for a change 😆

Afraid of being lonely, vulnerable and signs of co dependence - Valid enough.

People, please give me reasons like this instead of saying you hate her and she is this and that
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: empusa

she is really gone bonkers🤪

Come on.. You can do better than that, dear.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: empusa

she looks obsessed with armaan..its not love for ure

Obsession. Okay. Another possible reason.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

A masochist. Could be possible. So you are saying that maybe Tanisha is attractive to men that are bossy and abusive cuz she doubts her self worth?


Entirely possible. Body image issues, forming co-dependent unstable relationships, fear of being perceived as someone with very low self-esteem in the eyes of someone they value - all these are hallmarks of borderline personality disorder. Obviously, I may be going out on a limb here, but I do know sort of what I'm talking about. I'm a medical student, so I do have some, measly, knowledge about this lol.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: poorvab

great post!

you know they say that "one should not fall in love, but one should rise in love"
here, tanisha was a sensible smart confident woman in the inital weeks of BB and then she fell in love with armaan and she defends each and every action of his.
this recent incident of believing he was protecting her from the water and then crying and apologizing for questioning him and today, saying i spoke out of turn and im sorry. this was the peak of her tolerating his abusive and dominant behavior. being an independent educated girl myself and also being in a relationship i feel disgusted when i see tanisha's behavior. for once, i can understand u r in love with that person and you dont want to hurt them and at every mistake you try to understand their POV. BUT when that person is wrong you have to point it out, meekly saying ur right at every point is not loyalty its an insult to loyalty,
she should speak out against him and tell him where he is wrong and that she doesnt like how he treats her. speak out or this will never end! he will continue treating you like this and it will never stop so you have to speak out tanisha!

Your post is valid. One should indeed rise in love, not fall. So why do you think a well educated smart woman is tolerating this from Armaan? Is it cuz she does not want to lose him?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

So you are saying Armaan is a very good manipulator of women and he found a soft target in her? Possible.


i think armaan has the habit of dominating people. and needs someone who he can dominate all the time. or maybe its his personality that whoever becomes his friend gets that attitude of serving him.
For example, Rajat - armaan as far as i remember did have a fight with him once when he called him stupid or idiot or something and also when rajat was sick armaan did some drama i dont remember. even despite this rajat remained loyal to armaan as they had become friends in the first few days.
same with anita jee. she chose to believe him blindly over the vote thing until she came out and saw with her own eyes how armaan had lied.
also, kamya and pratyusha got seperated from armaan due to tanisha and were pissed off at armaan for quite some time but they have still never been wholly disloyal to him and even today they wouldsay they think of armaan as their friend!
rest u know with tanisha!
just my POV!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Your post is valid. One should indeed rise in love, not fall. So why do you think a well educated smart woman is tolerating this from Armaan? Is it cuz she does not want to lose him?


maybe because when she was alone he was by her side and now she has grown to be dependent on him.or she thinks armaan truly loves her? and maybe she doesnt see her own worth that she can be a much better person as well as a much better BB player without him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: Charcoal-WM

Why can't I bash?😭

Cuz I have a serious question and I am sick of fights 😆 Also, I wanna see the other side of the coin from Tanisha lovers who will stay away if people bash here.

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