'I spoke out of turn.' - Tanisha

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.Iconoclast.

@.Iconoclast.

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted
😆 Enlightening visual. Doesn't answer my question but the humour is appreciated.

I've no clue, my friend. I really don't know why Tanisha behaves like a doormat. She has no self respect. That's all.

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naisal

@naisal

Explorer

Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted
What the hell, woman? You need Kohli's permission to speak now? All you said was "aapne aise *shows action* kiya and bas touch hua." That too so softly and he asked you to learn from Gauhar! Then you murmured in the car "meri galti thi." WTH?? Then you sit there and tell Salman that Armaan treats you very well and the rest isn't shown!

Why does this woman do this? I dislike her to the core and I find myself cringing on her behalf seeing this subservient behaviour. He has pushed her, pulled her stool, given her virtually no importance and she still chases him! I don't get this behaviour at all. This is NOT loyalty. The word "loyalty" is considered a very noble trait to have. Loyal people are held in high regard. THIS is dependence and insecurity on an abusive male to the exclusion of everything else. And this happens to a person who is not psychologically sound (NOT to be confused with being mentally retarded/unsound or in plain words - mad) cuz these people depend on someone else for their self esteem and spend their time trying to win the approval of the object of their affection. They feel threatened by any female whom they find MIGHT invade their territory. They tolerate abusive behaviour thinking they deserve it and compensate for their low self esteem by portraying the complete opposite to others. Such problems are found associated with their home environment, peer group or traumatic incidences of abuse.

Question is - why is Tanisha exhibiting these classic traits? As far as the public knows, she comes from a well respected affluent family background. Typically, if anything, she should be snobbish, not subservient towards her partner. What is the opinion of the debate loving people here?

THIS IS NOT A TANISHA BASHING THREAD. DO NOT COMMENT IF SUCH IS YOUR INTENTION.

THIS THREAD IS ABOUT TANISHA MUKHERJEE AND ARMAAN KOHLI ONLY. DO NOT BRING DIFFERENT CONTESTANTS AND INSTIGATE A FIGHT HERE.

PEOPLE FOUND VIOLATING RULES AND STARTING FIGHTS WILL BE PERSONALLY REPORTED TO THE MODERATORS.

BLIND FANS NOT INTERESTED IN DISCUSSION ARE REQUESTED TO NOT COMMENT

Oh hun, she's too far gone. As I've mentioned previously, this is what happens to majority of the women in abusive relationships. And it is abusive, emotionally and psychologically. Maybe she's a masochist? Certainly looks that way. I'm pretty sure that obnoxious douchebag isn't going to give two hoots about her once they're out of the show. Or maybe once he's had his 'fill'. As disgusting as that sounds, it's clear you can't expect anything else out of that sorry excuse for a person, Armaan.

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PD_forums

@PD_forums

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: NigelMolesworth
She's in high school. Armaan is her naughty professor.

🤢 OMG i cannot even imagine 🤣

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JungFrau

@JungFrau

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#14

I detest such doormats. Armaan has made her believe that she's nothing without him. She's much better off without that abuser.

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fast trak

@fast trak

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#15

How isn't this a bashing thread? I don't read anything appreciative here. After reading the bold print I at least expected something neutral if not positive but that's not the case either.

Well the poster has just put her own opinions and leaves no scope to debate.

Thanks

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Wisian

@Wisian

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#16

She is showing signs of co-dependence, and it is pitiable how she conducts herself.

By all accounts, she is probably more accomplished than him - and most certainly, she is a more affable person. She is however unable to assert herself - probably because she is afraid of becoming lonely, or vulnerable. This can also be seen from her eagerness to label every woman in the house as "being in need of men" (specifically the one man that is "her protector").

I don't dislike/hate her -- I just feel sorry for her. ☯️

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empusa

@empusa

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#17

she is really gone bonkers🤪

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BlackWitch

@BlackWitch

Rocker

+ 12

Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: blue-ice
Not only this but the most insulting thing that Arman said to her was...that u talk to me for footage...so basically he showed his doubts of Tanisha's love and loyalty...even after listening to that this doormat went back to him...This woman doesn't have an ounce of self respect...Salman ne theek bola...ki if Gauhar would have been in Tanisha's place she would have beaten him up black and blue...

See, its crystal clear that her self respect is in tatters as far as Armaan is concerned. My question is why? She is quite dominating with others and becomes all subservient with Armaan. That is so baffling! What does she see in him??

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poorva

@poorvab

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#19

great post!

you know they say that "one should not fall in love, but one should rise in love"

here, tanisha was a sensible smart confident woman in the inital weeks of BB and then she fell in love with armaan and she defends each and every action of his.

this recent incident of believing he was protecting her from the water and then crying and apologizing for questioning him and today, saying i spoke out of turn and im sorry. this was the peak of her tolerating his abusive and dominant behavior. being an independent educated girl myself and also being in a relationship i feel disgusted when i see tanisha's behavior. for once, i can understand u r in love with that person and you dont want to hurt them and at every mistake you try to understand their POV. BUT when that person is wrong you have to point it out, meekly saying ur right at every point is not loyalty its an insult to loyalty,

she should speak out against him and tell him where he is wrong and that she doesnt like how he treats her. speak out or this will never end! he will continue treating you like this and it will never stop so you have to speak out tanisha!

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empusa

@empusa

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#20

she looks obsessed with armaan..its not love for ure

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