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Posted: 11 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: ---Sonia---

Hello everyone!


This will be my first post on this forum but I do watch Bigg Boss every day and I want to ask you everyone who read this...


If a person says sorry and truly is sorry from his heart then will you forgive that person or not? Because here I think sometimes people forget that saying sorry and realize your mistakes is really hard thing to do and if a person is sorry why don't forgive and move on?



Yes, Andy did take his joke over line and later he realize it. Andy make Gauhar his sister and today he cried seeing how Gauhar has talking about him. But since everyone is talking about Andy was wrong and all that, remember this also...


Gauhar did also wrong on her part, she should have taken Andy side and told to her that I did not like this and how could you have done to your sister? Kushal should not even been part on the fight on first place.


No matter what you guys says Kushal did try to hit Andy and he would have done that if the other would not have come between. No matter how angry you are...you should never tried to hit someone, never. Instead of saying that yes, I did mistake and I should not have tried to hit Andy and says sorry, Kushal is giving a interview there he says well, I should have slapped Andy, that is ego.


No matter what you guys says but always Andy realize his mistakes and says sorry, something which Kushal needs to learn.


I am not a Tanisha fan because she takes Armaans part even when he is wrong but take a note when Tanisha did push Kushal, Armaan did tell to her that you push him and this was wrong but when later Kushal said very personal things about Tanisha which was wrong. That was Salman Khan point since he is getting blash and I feel bad when I heard that this is last season as a host for Salman Khan. He was trying to help Kushal and his image and he did tell to Tanisha that you were wrong on pushing and Kushal could have pushed you back but he did not.


When I first watched the episode I also got angry at Salman and thought only because she comes from a well known family, he is saying this but later when I watched again, I saw that no, what he was trying to tell was dont go personal and it was not for Kushal but also to everyone one.



This is what I feel and I feel really bad because I was on Kushal and Guahar support but right now seeing how Guahar who always says to be fair is right now being unfair and dont trying to understand anything else and saying to Kushal that no you should not have try to hit Andy and this was a matter about me and Andy. Kushal should have stay away from the fight...


Thank you...

BS Total BS I'm guessing you're quotting Andy's and saying he was joking and not you thinking it was a 'joke'.
Who the in their right mind calls showing off lingerie a joke, l don't care how thick of friends you are no one has the right to show it off in front of all housemates and comment of one's size on NATIONAL TV what kinda joke is that?
Plus he dint consider Gauhar his 'friend' after he was nominated to leave so he wasn't playing a 'joke' with his 'sister'/'friend'
When somone who she whole heartidly considered her bro insults and humiliates her on NATIONAL TV which person can be calm and deal with in that quiet manner. When he was busy insulting her he didn't even think twice about it, like why did it even occur to him to do that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ Muskaan.. High five grl, I said the same thing wen the same lingerie flashing thing was shown in DDLJ, everyone laughed and now they are cribbing about the same thing in BB. @ Sonia.. I gav the reference of DDLJ in this context only which Muskaan very nicely explained in her post, which you hav already read it seems.

Armaan called Gauhar much worst names on second saturday of BB, wen Kushal for the first tym stood up for Gauhar against Armaan after the Tabadlaa of Gauhar and Armaan from heaven to hell and vice-versa. Not only Gauhar forgave Armaan but was seen taking out twig from his hand, helping him in chores of sweeping and cleaning and also fought for Armaan's breakfast and all.. But she refuses to forgive Andy and potraying him as the "Villian of the centuary."
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Posted: 11 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: ---Sonia---




He will...I know he will because he is that type of person who will say sorry

Well then even she will forgive him.. even gauhar is not the grudges holding types 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sallu_Miyan

Everybody is only blaming andy...if you can't forgive andy for trying to irritate gauhar by using her panties...then why are you forgiving kushal & guahar herself for not stopping Andy right then and there?
For them the task was more important than a woman's dignity...should they be forgiven?

Gauhar & Kushal are as guilty as Andy...infact Gauhar wanted to cash in on the opportunity and use it to play victim and create drama later


I agree to everything u have said... but I REALLY REALLY need to say this:

I LOVE YOUR DP!!!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said Sonia.
I believe too, that if a person is really regretful and apologizes for his wrong doing, you should give that person another chance and if he/she proves you wrong again, then it is your call how you want to handle it.

I personally believe that a true sorry, straight from the heart, makes a whole world of difference.

It is very easy to fight, cut-off relationships and it takes lot of courage to say sorry.

Every individual is different. Gauhar may choose not to forgive Andy and it is upto her. As a viewer, I am glad that Andy understood his mistake and is sorry for it. Am glad for him. Andy and Gauhar can sort this out between themselves sooner or later.

I have hated Tanisha since when she got associated with Armaan and has been behaving badly. I hated her on the first day of the task when Armaan misbehaved with Kamya and she was still siding him. Inspite of that, when Kushal behaved the way he did with her last week, I could immediately empathize and sympathize with her. It was so wrong...what Kushal did!!

Kushal in his interview has been saying that he stood for the women in the house. If he really meant it, he wouldnt have done what he did with Tanisha. He was not apologetic then, he is not apologetic now.

Gauhar too taunted Andy during the task sitting with Sangram, Kushal, Kamya, Prats saying "Oh...no matter what happens, that guy used to get beaten up...his name must have been Andy, right?" She ditched him during the nominations this week. She was not a true friend to him, but she points a finger at him.

All this while, I am not justifying Andy's doing. I too would have been angry and terribly humiliated if someone does the same to me. So no...what is wrong, is definitely wrong! No taking away from that.

But the last 2 wks has kinda opened my eyes to the true characters of everyone in the house. I have no respect for Gauhar and I hate Kushal. This is my opinion, I will not force it on anyone since everyone is entitled to their own

To conclude, maybe I will forgive, but it may be a while for me to forget what happened and be myself with a person who has hurt me a lot. But forgive, I will. I will never forget though

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Posted: 11 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: ankitamishra201


he did d same wid asif undergarments too n audience n salman loved it ...made a joke of it n said u r very funny ...
he also said how tiny n tight it is
everyone should hav reacted at dat tym too

then it's the mistake of those people. i never find such stupid things as entertainment. those who think it is, should try that with others in real life.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: ---Sonia---



sorry, but most people dont even say sorry for their mistakes...at least Andy did...

yeah, no matter what the mistake, if the person says sorry, forgive. let's apply that in real life too and not just in a so called reality show.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: mihali7

BS Total BS I'm guessing you're quotting Andy's and saying he was joking and not you thinking it was a 'joke'.
Who the in their right mind calls showing off lingerie a joke, l don't care how thick of friends you are no one has the right to show it off in front of all housemates and comment of one's size on NATIONAL TV what kinda joke is that?
Plus he dint consider Gauhar his 'friend' after he was nominated to leave so he wasn't playing a 'joke' with his 'sister'/'friend'
When somone who she whole heartidly considered her bro insults and humiliates her on NATIONAL TV which person can be calm and deal with in that quiet manner. When he was busy insulting her he didn't even think twice about it, like why did it even occur to him to do that.



did Guahar think Andy as her bro? No, she did not and by the way it was not shown and I have only one thing to say about Gauhar right now Karma will come for her...
Andy was really feeling bad and now he has seen the true face of Gauhar...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tia.Saigal2002

@ Muskaan.. High five grl, I said the same thing wen the same lingerie flashing thing was shown in DDLJ, everyone laughed and now they are cribbing about the same thing in BB. @ Sonia.. I gav the reference of DDLJ in this context only which Muskaan very nicely explained in her post, which you hav already read it seems.

Armaan called Gauhar much worst names on second saturday of BB, wen Kushal for the first tym stood up for Gauhar against Armaan after the Tabadlaa of Gauhar and Armaan from heaven to hell and vice-versa. Not only Gauhar forgave Armaan but was seen taking out twig from his hand, helping him in chores of sweeping and cleaning and also fought for Armaan's breakfast and all.. But she refuses to forgive Andy and potraying him as the "Villian of the centuary."




I know and it was I am shock to why she is not forgiving Andy...but like Andy said people on bigg boss change every 2 mins...so there will be time when Gauhar will herself come to Andy said dude let move on
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -PS-

Well then even she will forgive him.. even gauhar is not the grudges holding types 😛




I dont think so seeing today epiode maybe after she gets her Kushal back😆

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