forgive that person or not? - Page 9

Originally posted by: aditi.g

Very well said Sonia.

I believe too, that if a person is really regretful and apologizes for his wrong doing, you should give that person another chance and if he/she proves you wrong again, then it is your call how you want to handle it.

I personally believe that a true sorry, straight from the heart, makes a whole world of difference.

It is very easy to fight, cut-off relationships and it takes lot of courage to say sorry.

Every individual is different. Gauhar may choose not to forgive Andy and it is upto her. As a viewer, I am glad that Andy understood his mistake and is sorry for it. Am glad for him. Andy and Gauhar can sort this out between themselves sooner or later.

I have hated Tanisha since when she got associated with Armaan and has been behaving badly. I hated her on the first day of the task when Armaan misbehaved with Kamya and she was still siding him. Inspite of that, when Kushal behaved the way he did with her last week, I could immediately empathize and sympathize with her. It was so wrong...what Kushal did!!

Kushal in his interview has been saying that he stood for the women in the house. If he really meant it, he wouldnt have done what he did with Tanisha. He was not apologetic then, he is not apologetic now.

Gauhar too taunted Andy during the task sitting with Sangram, Kushal, Kamya, Prats saying "Oh...no matter what happens, that guy used to get beaten up...his name must have been Andy, right?" She ditched him during the nominations this week. She was not a true friend to him, but she points a finger at him.

All this while, I am not justifying Andy's doing. I too would have been angry and terribly humiliated if someone does the same to me. So no...what is wrong, is definitely wrong! No taking away from that.

But the last 2 wks has kinda opened my eyes to the true characters of everyone in the house. I have no respect for Gauhar and I hate Kushal. This is my opinion, I will not force it on anyone since everyone is entitled to their own

To conclude, maybe I will forgive, but it may be a while for me to forget what happened and be myself with a person who has hurt me a lot. But forgive, I will. I will never forget though

Originally posted by: SoPunk

Y blame ,even before the nomination episode to eject andy out,there were rifts between andy and gauhar..andy was constantly bitching with Tanisha..andy asked kushal to exit house bcoz der were womens group against kushal,he even helped kushal with chairs to climb wall,, if andy considered gauhar as sister ,he wudnt b ditching his sister and buterring Tanisha...andy is a drama queen..he wil go to any extent to prove he is right or to win task..