forgive that person or not? - Page 7

what Andy did was so disgusting that I feel very put off with this show .I saw the very first show of Big Boss and now this one . What happened the last 2 days was just pathetic ...

Originally posted by: napster

oh please, as if andy doesn't know how wrong he is and that now the camera will focus on him. if he was so sorry, he should have said it long back.

he is not a kid to play with someone's lingerie and claim it to be a joke.

Like I said Andy was wrong on that part but I have also said that Guahar should have taken Andy side and told to Andy I did not like and all...

even bigg boss called Andy to tell him that he was wrong

Originally posted by: ---Sonia---

Originally posted by: napster

it is like

1. do something nasty

2. say sorry

3. repeat step 1

such people don't deserve forgiveness.

sorry, but most people dont even say sorry for their mistakes...at least Andy did...

Originally posted by: napster

it is like

1. do something nasty

2. say sorry

3. repeat step 1

such people don't deserve forgiveness.

Andy has not yet apologized to gauhar.. He did it say sorry to pratyusha and kamya.. But not to gauhar.. so how do expect her to forgive him when she hasnt got that chance

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

what Andy did was so disgusting that I feel very put off with this show .I saw the very first show of Big Boss and now this one . What happened the last 2 days was just pathetic ...

I used to like Salman Khan but feeling so put off with him as well now ..

All in all, this Big Boss is a disaster ..🤢

Even if Andy says sorry or whatever , it just won't make it better ( not right now for sure ) . It feels more bad because Andy used to treat Gauhar like a sister

see, one thing I dont understand is this...the only thing Salman Khan did was trying to tell Kushal that dont go personal and says thing like that...about how you feel the show is something you feel and you have that right...

and he also told to everyone that why do you all go personal when a task begins and always have a fight...

that is why I feel sorry for Andy because Andy really did think Guahar as his sister and that is why I feel bad for him

Originally posted by: muskaan23

THANK YOU Sonia FOR THIS POST!!!! 👏

I absolutely agree with every point of urs!!! - oh but i havent seen todays epi yet, so i am not referring to tht...though i can guess the drama gauhar is creating!!

forgiveness?! - y do ppl make things abt their egos n get stubborn??? It is not important WHAT a person does to you it is always important WHAT THEIR INTENTION is!! ... if a person has the intention to hurt, abuse and humiliate u, even the smallest act is difficult forgive, but if a person has no intention to hurt u and does something in an other manner than u understand, that person should b forgiven for sure!!!

It is always the INTENTION tht counts... ppl r bashing Andy for what he did... but honestly... ppl r over reacting... first of all i have to say tht there is always a difference of ppl who grow up in the west than ppl in the east abt such things... see i have grown up in the west.. and seeing a bra, is nothing big for me or the ppl here... (i dont mean when u wear it) ... it's like if my bra falls out of the cupboard and my bro (or any guy) see's it, this would b no big deal and we wouldnt even react to this situation... thts got nothing to do with izzat... Andy has grown up in the west, so he doesnt see things like tht in the same manner... tht doesnt make him right, but tht puts him in a "innocent" situation, by not knowing his crime... i think gauhar could have explained to him, what tht means to hear n said tht she felt exposed, so he would apologize and thts it...

on top of tht Andy is a (gay) stylist and in modeling world he is used to see a lot of girl models wearing nothing than lingerie, sometimes not even tht... so for him this is no highlight and gauhar knows tht coming from the same bg...

Gauhar is creating a drama out of nothing... it is ok for her to do bikini pics, but not tht Andy picks up her lingerie??? huh?? ...

also i am sorry to say tht... but if a girl is REALLY tht much offended in her IZZAT, she will not keep quiet just for some luxury points... i mean for god's sake... If i feel publicly humiliates, exposed and attacked on my IZZAT... toh bharr mein jayein 25.000 points!!!! ... but she can keep calm in tht situation n even after tht for hours, but then attacks him much much later with out even giving him a chance to explain his point!!?

n honestly? what is tht abt?? ... when in DDLG Kajol's bag opens n her bra falls out..SRK grabs it and makes fun of it... at tht scene everyone (even a Gauhar) laughs, as it had no bad intention ... but same situation in BB with Gauhar, becomes wrong???!! y these double standards?????

I am not saying tht Andy did right.. i am saying tht he had no bad intentions and tht for does not deserve to b treated like this... Gauhar is just creating a drama to b in the news..

Most definitely did Andy not deserve to b HIT for tht... Kushal was wrong in tht, period. All the ppl who thing tht Kushal did defend women's honor with tht?

emmm... if u have seen the orignal sneak peak vid with the whole fight.. kushal is repeating one thing all the time, whilst he is attacking Andy... "Apni BEHEN ki Bra dikha na duniya ko, apni SAGGI BEHEN ki... Teri BEHEN ******... BEHEN *****" ... so my question is? ... Do u guys really think tht defending one woman's honor by offending another womans' of justified???? really??? ...

Salman - oh i am sick of hearing tht Salman did wrong to Kushal n Gauhar... even IF he was biased towards Tanisha... the only person he was PROTECTING was Kushal... Kushal has offended a lot of Biggies of B'town... n Salman was trying to make him understand tht 'we all do mistakes, say stuff we dont mean in rage, go OTT in the moment, but we should recognize tht and accept tht" ... Salman knows tht Tanisha will b the one who will not at all b effected by anything happening to her in the house, actually she will get more fame with every controversy... but at the end of the day she has a lot of ppl behind her who do protect n support her in the long term... but if Kushal gets on the black list on B'town this will end his career, before it has started already... he was trying to make Kushal understand tht...

...but of course gauhar ko wo gawara nahi tha!!! ...

thank you for understanding my point:) this is what I was trying to tell...like here where I live it is really not a big deal and Andy is from London and people should understand that where Andy comes from it is ok because peope there are okey.
really love your comment and enjoyed reading it:)

Originally posted by: -PS-

Andy has not yet apologized to gauhar.. He did it say sorry to pratyusha and kamya.. But not to gauhar.. so how do expect her to forgive him when she hasnt got that chance

He will...I know he will because he is that type of person who will say sorry

Originally posted by: chudail11

Ok, as far as flaunting lengerie is concerned, have we never seen clothes including langerie lieing around in BB house before? have we not seen them showing off there bodies before? I agree Andy went over board, but showing your skin out to public all the time & then fighting on a bra being rotated in air?????? This could have been handled well between Andy & Gauhar, there was no need of drama and all.

Also, I am kind of person who forgives anyone, I have never turned back on anyone no matter how bad he/she has been to me. and this is a "no matter" for me given the history gegrahy of all these ladies. We are not flaunting langerie of Sita, these girls have all always hsowed off skin, what's the value of a panty & a bra????? stop this nonsense

thank you, we should stop and move on...if Kushal have not try to run and hit Andy and the fight will have ended on the same night...

Andy would have make gauhar understand why he did and said sorry...