Why This Double Standards & Hatred?Mod note pg10 - Page 8

Originally posted by: digitalcamera

What would have some select members here have said, if Armaan had said same thing to Elli? Why self declared feminists here have ignored Andy & made over the top (OTT) reaction and started Misandry using the Arman issue as their pretense? Or they just need a pretense to abuse all men to vent frustrations of their private lives?

Aren't we judgmental?! What is this supposed to mean? Anyone who had a problem with Armaan's choice of words and the way he said is venting frustration about their private life? Okaaay.

I'm sure the posters who have done these things in some of the previous threads, know that. So they didn't appear here. If you haven't done it, you may relax. When someone talks on evidence, that's logical, not judgmental

Should we all bear that brunt of their personal mess?

WHO is bearing the brunt of whose "personal mess"?! On this forum?

Surely the women who aren't hateful and most men. Because they are being subjected to personal attacks, due to their opinion. Some haters don't leave the attack confined to that thread, they even go around the forum and keep attacking those posters, such passionate some haters are. If you haven't been attacked, means your opinion didn't hurt them.

The guy has just been named the best contestant by two (100%) ousted contestants.

Mmm.

I'm not a Fan of him at all, I'm sure your stalking experience will bear the witness.

Okay.

Please stop misguiding people on the forum by preaching hatred against men in general terms, that's more harmful for the society.

It does appear as though I missed out on a whole bunch of people that seem to hate men.

Yes, I guess so. Can have a look at the closed threads, trashed ones you can't find anyway.

There are better ways for preaching equality and respect for both sexes to live in harmony; than to live with hatred. OTT reactions don't bring better results, it has it's backlashes to bite the society.

How do we judge OTT reactions? You said that members were misguiding others and were preaching hatred of men and also lets not forget their "personal mess". Everyone has their own opinion and their entitled to one. Respect your opinion, but labeling others "preaching hatred against men" and "pretense to abuse all men due to personal frustration". It is a little too much, no?

From a girl's point of view I imagine what they find "wrong" is wrong. It has nothing to do with men. There are so many different men in the house. Armaan. Sangram. Andy. Apoorva. Kushal. They all are different. Why are some disliked while others are liked?! It all comes down what each person finds acceptable. Everyone's tolerance level is different.

When it comes to a girl approaching a boy or a boy approaching a girl, it's the prerogative of the person being approached to decide if the person has the right approach or not. It's not a matter of girls decision. Lets not hijack expressions and principal of communications.

Yes agree that everyone will not have the same level of tolerance, here in this topic, we have the same girl in both incident, so that's why these two events are comparable. Yes I also take the point, that liking or not liking someone is too individualistic so is the behavior and approach of different individuals. So I don't agree to the notion of expecting some stereo typed behavior even from men.

P.S - I don't hate all men. I like them okay? Just sayin'

That's felt clearly from your post. It's so easy to identify a hateful person, specially in such topics 😊

Originally posted by: .awesomeness.

what happens in bigg boss and happens in real world both are far different but i don't get why are people hell bent on relating both incidents ?

Originally posted by: SoPunk

Using the opportunity to vent own frustrations, taking cover of some crimes, committed by criminals.

Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy

i hope galti se bhi tumne mujhe nahi kaha

Originally posted by: .awesomeness.

.. most of the times members keep saying show is scripted , but when bad thing happens , show seems real to them and whatever bad happens there they take personally .. why double standard.😆

Originally posted by: ramjaane

Indeed it is strange and hypocricy that few who abuse, tag, mock other in every possible manner just becz few express their opinion-view are now teaching double standard manner etc. Indeed online platform is funny place. The story continue asusual :)

Originally posted by: ramjaane

This thread is reflection of this how few desperate attention seekers like the TM tag other, feminist blah blah, abuse other, in the name of debate hardly he understand any logic but only do blabbering. Hardly i replied in one or two instances in this thread , still his desperation we can witness, the thread itself is the reflection of TM level of discussion .

Originally posted by: Mrs.ZSK

I find it funny that NOW you choose to come call the women in this forum pseudo feminists and misandristis...where were you when these so called pseudo feminists were expressing their outrage? Why wait and attack when the fire is not as hot? Why this kolaveri kolaveri kolaveri di😆

Why do I have a feelings that you are laughing at yourself??😆 Ohh..That awkward moment, when you are angry, keep shouting and searching for your spectacles & make the entire house together, until someone points you out, that it's right above your forehead😆

I was right there and that's how I know about them. You seem to be a good guy or lazy !!! that you didn't bother to do your homework/stalking 😉before making this statement.😆

This Andy Ellie Gauhar incident has happened a day before, and this post is drawing a parallel to the Aarman Ellie event. Please read the OP for more details. It's still hot 😆

You mentioned, "One issue, well condemn him for these distasteful words, but considering the context, how far should we push it?? "

Same goes for Elli then! She didn't mean it in the context Andy took it, and Andy knew to, and you can notice he was teasing by his tone but it wasn't out of line like someone!

Agreed. Point was, it was the same with Arman's bikini joke too. What made her react differently, or did she just learn from that incident that she shouldn't over react.

Anyways, don't you point fingers. I could care less about what your opinion is regarding who you think is right amongst guahar and armaan, but you have no right to call people names just because they have different views from yours.

Obviously not, you didn't agree to me, did I call you names? I never called names. But if your attack screams something, I will definitely say that. I don't know what you are specifically referring to, then I could tell you better, why that term has been used.

At least don't be a hypocrite. If you wanted people to have a moderate take of this issue, then you shouldn't of attacked by calling certain women on this forum what you did. I am sure you have heard of the saying, "You reap what you sow ."

At least, I'm surely not a hypocrite. I absolutely believe in that saying and that's what they are reaping what they have sown in other relevant threads on the issue...😉