Why This Double Standards & Hatred?Mod note pg10

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Video of Andy-Gauhar-Andy's Joke:





Andy- Ellie-Gauhar:

Yesterday, Elli was seen trying to squeeze through the bars between hell and heaven. She said she needs to oil her body to squeeze through. Andy commented for that you have to take off your clothes and then oil your body and try. She said dirty mind and idiot to Andy. Andy said you yourself said tel lagaungi aur is main se nikal jaungi. Kapdon ke ooppar kaun oil lagata hai?

Ellie: Ye logical Hain

Gauhar: Andy is right. Kapdon ke ooppar kaun oil lagata hai? ( Laughing)

Ellie: Aise real life main aise kone karega, pass it through with oil

Andy: toh bola kyun

Ellie: Kabhi kabhi main thoda pagal hoon.

Arman-Ellie-Pratyusha:

Now if we draw a parallel to the joke Aarman did with Ellie. Initially, That was way decent than this one. "Aarman said, BigBoss Chahte hain ke, Ellie does yoga with orange Bikini" if Ellie didn't take the joke to "I'll Slap you" that joke would also end there in a similar way, that this one ended.

Looks like, the misandrists, consider slapping a man as their birth right. If it's a case of equal rights for both sexes, telling anyone men/woman that I'll slap you, is objectionable, unless it's said in a friendly joking manner or the incident deserved a serious retribution. We could see, she even takes, bare body jokes, so we can safely deduce that Ellie's comment was not a serious one (That the visuals show too), as such the joke continued and Aarman went on with the joke.

However, because Ellie cried, Aarman was gentle enough to walk up and apologize if she felt bad. That's what people do when a friendly joke hurts a friend, even if their is no valid reason to get hurt in a joke. It happens everyday between friends and those gets sorted out too, a joke cannot be subjected to serious analysis, because it's a joke. Even Arman apologized on TV. So what's the big fuss that people are still blabbering about it?


Why double standards?:


The guy has just been named the best contestant by two (100%) ousted contestants. Don't think anyone in the house will be more honest than them. I'm not a Fan of him at all, I'm sure your stalking experience will bear the witness. Please stop misguiding people on the forum by preaching hatred against men in general terms, that's more harmful for the society. There are better ways for preaching equality and respect for both sexes to live in harmony; than to live with hatred. OTT reactions don't bring better results, it has it's backlashes to bite the society.




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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think either you forgot or goofed up 'rip your clothes and kiss' sentence by Armaan.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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My take on this. When Elli said tel lagake she will cross through the bars, I was also like 'eh? She will take off her clothes. oil herself and cross?' . It is not a matter of male vs female thinking. She herself must not have thought so far when she said it. So Andy's reaction seems more like teasing

When Armaan said that orange bikini thing and that clothes tearing, it seemed to come out of the blue and so seemed to be in bad taste.
Edited by BullsEye777 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What is your point? Do you think that Armaan is right?

I know its personal but what if someones talk this kind of language to your sister? Please don't get me wrong and I am just using this as an example..

Rip your clothes and all on a national television.. do you support this TM ?

Andy is right.. Kapre nikal kar hi tou oil lagaya jaata he because Elli herself wanted to put oil on her body. Did armaan said this?


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Once again brilliant post! 👍🏼

I agree the Elii-armaan issue had been sensationalized a lot. Actually I dont u/stand Elli much.Sometimes she is fine with the toughest of hindi words but others she cant even speak up the easiest of words.Seems as if shes using the language thing to her advantage. And as I said earlier for these tv/film ppl dirty or adult jokes rly dont mean a big deal.Sometimes dey might go over board. When armaan and elli were joking in case she hadn't cried and rather slapped him playfully or cross remarked this wud hv been taken as a joke.

As for pratyusha...she will be bashed even if she sneezes.Bcoz the fans of many leading ladies of TV have grudges against her. She had been a part of a trp ruler show and all dose fangurls whose actresses were slewed in the wrath of 8pm dominance of Anandi are always in arms against P. So I take Ps bashing as an honor...after all u hate somebody only when they rly have potential😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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When armaan and elli have moved on , why are we still stuck in the same place with the same issues ??
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Originally posted by: BullsEye777

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My take on this. When Elli said tel lagake she will cross through the bars, I was also like 'eh? She will take off her clothes. oil herself and cross?' . It is not a matter of male vs female thinking. She herself must not have thought so far when she said it. So Andy's reaction seems more like teasing

When Armaan said that orange bikini thing and that clothes tearing, it seemed to come out of the blue and so seemed to be in bad taste.



@red - EXACTLY!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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double standard has been integral part and showing it has been knack of most of the members in this forum. members who criticize others favorite for their inane things , can not criticize their own for same ..😆..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: boredsoul

When armaan and elli have moved on , why are we still stuck in the same place with the same issues ??



this is what i have been saying after this incident happened ..when they both no longer have any kind of grudges against each other why should we have any objection? but some members in this forum bring this issue when they have nothing special about Arman to criticize him.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Only one point we are the moral judges and would always want everyone to react and act according to what we think is correct. We want a lot of drama and everyone to be real yet we want everyone to be politically correct and morally upright every time.

But then on the other side of the road there are fans who would try to justify each and every action of their favorite.

My only point for both parties is inside everyone is a human they have every right to goof up. They would be wrong and right at times just accept it and move on. What we should be looking for is overall conduct and character and not judge based on just a single incident.
Edited by kaushikbasu - 11 years ago

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