Arman vs. Ellie - Page 5

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

*sigh* This to me seems to be a repeat of some of the Rajeev/Sana issues we had last year.

Flirting between people is natural and normal. Even if there is an age gap, I don't think friendly flirting is wrong. But there are lines depending on how well you know a person. Saying "bikini pehenke yoga dikhao" can be friendly teasing. But that level is usually for someone who is a very close friend and you have a long time rapport with. I don't think Ellie and Armaan are really that close. It is kind of creepy for him to say something like that.

Ellie naturally reacted "thappad maroongi". Of course she made a mistake of appearing giggly and joking instead of dead serious. Nervousness makes people do that though. Sometimes when someone hits on you hard when you don't expect it, you really don't know what to say. You don't want to come off as bitchy or cold, so wrong signals happen. It's her fault though, a girl needs to be aware of what signals she's sending.

Armaan's comeback line after that was cheap and disgusting. "pappi deta hoon" is fine. If he thought she's being flirty that's normal to say. But "kapde phaad deta hoon" that is absolutely lecherous and wrong on many levels. Even if he was joking, considering the problem India has with rape and sexual assault "kapde phaad dena" is definitely not something to be joked about. Saying something like this on public television sends a wrong message, that it's ok to tease a woman on a sexual level like this. Sickening!

Irrespective of whether you blame Ellie or not. She's on BB and we can accuse her of being drameebaaz. But Armaan crossed a line and everyone should be calling him out on it. His flirting can be forgiven, but some of the lines are not excusable.

About Gauhar, see this is why I like her. I know she can be a mean bitch and egoistic, but I think she's still a principled and reasonable person. She's consistent, and I respect that - better than sweet people who flip flop.

Originally posted by: ups1

How do I unpoll...I mean by mistake I voted for Armann...I wanted to support Elli?

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