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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: BossB

In few years from now, you will see Elli in some movie wearing a bikini and doing all types of yoga including tantra yoga..and you will laugh at yourself for feeling outraged over such a trivial incident..😆



Ellie can do anything what she want to do in today or in coming years with her own will

but a man telling her to do yoga wearing bikini
cant be taken
and his look and way of telling was disgusting
Edited by palak - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52
I'm with Ellie just b/c what he said made me uncomfortable and I have a pretty crass, crude humor.

I think as a man, 1) not say such things b/c the person hearing might not like it, 2) know your audience, 3) have a limit to what you say. Freakin' filter your thoughts.

And Ellie sort of over-reacted. She should have said something right then instead of crying. She needs to take a stand and be clear even when joking that a line was crossed that shouldn't have been.

I can't believe Kamya thought it was ok b/c they were joking. It's never ok, especially if someone's feelings are hurt.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53
A gal wearing skimpy clothes is her choice. Just because she can choose to wear a swimsuit in her future doesn't mean it gives men the right to leer at her. To sexually degrade or insult her. It was not just the yoga comment. He said other disgusting things too like "puppy le loonga ya KAPDE PHAAD DOONGA". This brings out the attitude of the guy - misogynist, Male chauvinist n one who sees women as only sex objects.. its not a TRIVIAL issue. Its an attitude which has become a plague in India. This underlying attitude is the one which leads to men becoming beasts.

I am shocked at your thinking. Its the same as putting the blame on a rape victim, saying her clothes must have 'led' to the rape. Gross.

Originally posted by: palak



Ellie can do anything what she want to do in today or in coming years with her own will

but a man telling her to do yoga wearing bikini
cant be taken
and his look and way of telling wad disgusting

Edited by mansimat - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: palak



Ellie can do anything what she want to do in today or in coming years with her own will

but a man telling her to do yoga wearing bikini
cant be taken
and his look and way of telling was disgusting


What was the remark made by Elli preceding the biking comment by Armaan? I missed that and am feeling too lazy to search for the videos..
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Posted: 12 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: D3_4life

i think both were wrong , Armaan was just joking around when Elli said Thappad marungi & after that Armaan should've behaved in a polite manner & end this argument , but then he got a little agressive & said Kapde phaad dunga , kiss kr dunga

I will say, comments like 'kapde phaad doonga', 'kiss kar doonga' does not fall under the category of 'little aggressive'. The context in which it is said suggests that there is only one possible meaning to what he said - sexual harassment. He is wielding sexual harassment as a weapon to humiliate her and therefore subjugate her. And that - is not 'little aggressive; that - is criminal offence.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: mansimat

A gal wearing skimpy clothes is her choice. Just because she can choose to wear a swimsuit in her future doesn't mean it gives men the right to leer at her. To sexually degrade or insult her. It was not just the yoga comment. He said other disgusting things too like "puppy le loonga ya KAPDE PHAAD DOONGA". This brings out the attitude of the guy - misogynist, Male chauvinist n one who sees women as only sex objects.. its not a TRIVIAL issue. Its an attitude which has become a plague in India. This underlying attitude is the one which leads to men becoming beasts.


I am shocked at your thinking. Its the same as putting the blame on a rape victim, saying her clothes must have 'led' to the rape. Gross.


So now you know how I think just because I told you guys to relax and not feel so outraged...😆

I've seen all seasons of Bigg Boss, and have seen some outrageous flirting by some of the women..Veena Malik was a class act..and then there was Rakhi Sawant who used to jump on beds of guys and sit on top of them.

Most of these celebrities are different from us and they are used to bawdy humor, which is why most of the women didn't feel offended by Arman's remarks. Elli is new and doesn't know the ways of the industry..






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Posted: 12 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: BossB

In few years from now, you will see Elli in some movie wearing a bikini and doing all types of yoga including tantra yoga..and you will laugh at yourself for feeling outraged over such a trivial incident..😆



*FACEPALM*

Other people have already explained why the facepalm. So I should not bother.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: BossB


So now you know how I think just because I told you guys to relax and not feel so outraged...😆

I've seen all seasons of Bigg Boss, and have seen some outrageous flirting by some of the women..Veena Malik was a class act..and then there was Rakhi Sawant who used to jump on beds of guys and sit on top of them.

Most of these celebrities are different from us and they are used to bawdy humor, which is why most of the women didn't feel offended by Arman's remarks. Elli is new and doesn't know the ways of the industry..










@ bold, that is why Armaan is teaching her the ways of the industry right? 🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
#59
Well didn't think your comment meant what you have written now.
Thanks for explaining anyways.

I request ALL of you to please watch this small video. If at all you want to share with other people, you can.




Originally posted by: BossB


So now you know how I think just because I told you guys to relax and not feel so outraged...😆

I've seen all seasons of Bigg Boss, and have seen some outrageous flirting by some of the women..Veena Malik was a class act..and then there was Rakhi Sawant who used to jump on beds of guys and sit on top of them.

Most of these celebrities are different from us and they are used to bawdy humor, which is why most of the women didn't feel offended by Arman's remarks. Elli is new and doesn't know the ways of the industry..



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Posted: 12 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: ..Eclipse..


*FACEPALM*

Other people have already explained why the facepalm. So I should not bother.



As I mentioned in the thread, if people can't understand the gravity of the situation, it's better to bang on your head to wall than try to drill sense where there is zero chance of penetration 😆

Edited by Diva-In-Armor - 12 years ago

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