I support Teja-Devo in the Bichukle topic! - Page 4

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mahisa_22


Wow. This is victim blaming at its finest. You're doing the same thing which Salman, Shamita and Rashmi were doing.


Not everyone can react strongly the first time. It's not possible all the time. Also, she clearly looked uncomfortable and refused him THREE times. Shouldn't that be enough to condemn Bichukale?


Please don't support Shamita blindly. This issue is much bigger than Shamita or Devo.

I'm not saying this for Shamita or anyone. And the guy had many times said crap things to Devo which she took lightly and casually wen it clearly showed the guy's intention. She supported him for his crap even gave deaf ears wen others told her to maintain distance from Bichkule. He said 3 times pappi not once she reacted sternly. She looked uncomfortable still she played the task. The way she bashed him wen he told her name for jail infact she herself didn't have his name for jail. Bichkule was wrong so was Devo. The issue became big bcoz Teja made it big by shouting and doing her drama of selective nari shakti
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Posted: 3 years ago
#32

The weird thing was Salman passing his behaviour off as a joke? From which angle did it look like Thukle was joking? Then saying its an SRK line?

People do realise what men can do as a joke? They can v jokingly molest you too a little hand here a little hand there with a smile, with the victim realising way later what just happened to her.

Will be seeing now the measures Devo takes now after the weekend.

Edited by cory - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#33

You are absolutely right. With personal experience I can say sometimes it takes time to react and speak about how yuck you felt at that time immediately. Salman was so wrong to try and give gyaan on how a woman must react at the time of being harassed. 15 years ago my colleague started suggesting what he wanted when I was on a sales call and in the car. I was stunned and I take time to process such behavior. I didn’t immediately react and kept quiet while continued discussing work hoping all of it will go away. He repeated and I told him to shut up as it’s not funny and kept talking about the meeting. Only once I was back at work and alone in the office I called my friend and started discussing the incident and felt furious.


So I saw Deboleena felt very uneasy and kept on doing work. She was shamed for not reacting immediately. Her lack of response became her own fault. This episode was so cringy and sick, whatever respect I had for Salman is gone.





Originally posted by: I_Have_A_Spine

Being a Shamita fan & Teja-Devo hater, I cannot ignore my conscience. In yesterday's WKW Salman Khan, Shamita, Karan Kundra made no sense, rather their points were offensive.


Devo was in a hurry to get artifacts & being in a patriarchic society women do take time to react to sexual violence. It happens to each & every one. She took some time to realize what Bichukle actually did. But it's shameful how BB edited the video & Salman tried his best to justify his immoral behavior. This is JUST WRONG. They made a mockery of #METOO & should be apologetic to each girl in society.


And kudos to Teja for being firm & not being threatened by Salman Khan's illogical opinion.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mahisa_22


Are you for real? Making repeated sexual advances on someone even when they are clearly uncomfortable, IS sexual harassment. Like I said before, you cannot always react bang on time. It's just not possible.


Please stop with the victim-blaming. Saying 'Devo was also wrong' in the context of sexual harassment is straight-up victim blaming. We can't all react immediately to harassment, sometimes it's very difficult. Yes, Devo was wrong earlier when she supported Bichukale, but two wrongs don't make a right.


Also, Shamita also gave numerous gaalis to others. Gaaliyan dena aur sexual harassment mein farak hai.

Okay, she couldn't react at that time but why did she keep asking him to get more artifacts? She should have just ignored him straight away. She could have taken bichukle's name for jail but did she? Her animosity for rashmi was bigger than her discomfort for her harasser? For me, she was also wrong in this whole matter✌️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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No matter how wrong Debo was there was absolutely no justification for Bichukles actions. Bichukles actions should not have been allowed even as a joke.


It can take months and years for rape and harassment victims to come forward and we should never discourage that.


I am not a Teja fan but she was right in her stand. Salman portrays himself to be the saint that he is we all know what kind of a person he really is. I wasn't surprised to hear the justification that a victim is responsible for allowing the abuser to continue with his actions.


Typical misogynist mentality.

Edited by cyberoid - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: PiaT

This issue was about Devo and how uncomfortable she was which was evident on the video. Women react differently under such circumstances specially if they think of the person as close or like a brother. Devo called it out multiple times . Twisting it by saying why she made an issue after the task was radd was very bad justification by Salman. Bichukle looked like a creep on the video and her reaction was justified - better late than never is what matters.

Shams and Teju had their point of view which differed and there can be multiple perspectives but to make the serious issue more about Teja against Shams was stupid.


I wouldn't have minded if he told Devo and others to react immediately and bashed Bichukle the way he bashed Ritesh but here he justified his action as a joke which went wrong. 🤢

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Posted: 3 years ago
#37

Kudos to teja for standing firmly against BB , sal bs , criminal sal go to jail 🤢

Tejaswi deserving winner.


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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hahaahha

Women empowerment ke naam pr apna ullu sidha kr rhi hai aur kuch nai😪


Women empowerment is standing up for every woman in every situation irrespective of how big or small that incident was. If you have not done it then please find a better issue to hype yourself.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: theBoyWonder


Women empowerment is standing up for every woman in every situation irrespective of how big or small that incident was. If you have not done it then please find a better issue to hype yourself.

Exactly! It's sad that people can't see teja's reality and calls her feminist. She is just a fake feminist for me.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Exactly. Haven’t seen Teja telling Ritesh not to speak so rudely (emotional abise) with Rakhi neither did Devo. Instead Devo said patti pattni (arguing with Rashmi) let them be. When Rakhi was having 1 to 1 with Teja all she said was Ritesh will be busy at work outside what will you do? What!!! A woman is talking about emotional abuse, where was Teja’s stand? Shamita raised this issue with Ritesh directly calmly politely, this is taking stand! Not making a hoohah for footage. And those saying only Teja took stand in Devo matter, wrong, all HMs said bichukle was wrong, only difference is noone tried hard as Teja trying to portrait that only she is the one against Bichukle.

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