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Oh god Maya the women who was a owner of a fashion company now turned as a house wife to her in-laws... How stupidly they are showing Maya turning into a ideal bahu who cooks, keeps calm when sas hating etc and left her Ill mother alone... So after marriage women should be a house wife and cook, clean, do foot massage to her in-laws ... To all girls my suggestion is if you want to be a house wife then please don't study at least your fathers hard earned money will be saved in their old age cuz as per our culture daughter don't have responsibilities towards parents so at least save ur parents money on ur education so that it will be helpful in their old age

Dont you think your words are very harsh criticism of every housewife. Its nothing cheap in being a housewife. Education doesnot only means getting job. Education is also important for bettet way of thinking, good living standards, developed approach, a reasonable person..
You cant just demean evry single housewife just bcoz thy dont earn..
Getting educated is not wasteage of father money. A educated woman may not earn but can sure teach thier children and enforce better values in her childrens..

Yes i agree about maya being shown leaving work and becoming housewife is wrong. If a girl is already having job and to leave it just bcoz thy are married is wrong. Its highly injustice to that girl.
But u r wrong in saying that evry daughters who dont get job and become housewife are wasting fathers money. And why do u think married woman who dont earn thmselves cant look after her parents after marriage.
Education has nothing to do with earning and looking after parents..
In small towns like mine, usually girls dont evn hav any aim to work. Thy look forward get married. That doesnot mean thy have no right to education.
You are enforcing the belief that daughter is only useful if she gives something back. If she cant give any financial support she is a waste??

you r right to criticise mayas approach in the show, but please dont generalise it to every girls..

Originally posted by: sellysona

Dont you think your words are very harsh criticism of every housewife. Its nothing cheap in being a housewife. Education doesnot only means getting job. Education is also important for bettet way of thinking, good living standards, developed approach, a reasonable person..
You cant just demean evry single housewife just bcoz thy dont earn..
Getting educated is not wasteage of father money. A educated woman may not earn but can sure teach thier children and enforce better values in her childrens..

Yes i agree about maya being shown leaving work and becoming housewife is wrong. If a girl is already having job and to leave it just bcoz thy are married is wrong. Its highly injustice to that girl.
But u r wrong in saying that evry daughters who dont get job and become housewife are wasting fathers money. And why do u think married woman who dont earn thmselves cant look after her parents after marriage.
Education has nothing to do with earning and looking after parents..
In small towns like mine, usually girls dont evn hav any aim to work. Thy look forward get married. That doesnot mean thy have no right to education.
You are enforcing the belief that daughter is only useful if she gives something back. If she cant give any financial support she is a waste??

you r right to criticise mayas approach in the show, but please dont generalise it to every girls..

hello first understand what I said, I didn't said we should not give birth to girl child, or i didn't said girl child should not educate ( I love women empowerment) but I said parents will invest lot of money on their children education for their higher studies if daughter don't want to do job then please don't waste your fathers hard earned money for higher studies ... And you said parents should not expect anything from daughters why tell me why Common like son parents daughter parents also become old so they need their child care but if daughter simply enjoy her parents money and property and don't have any responsibility then definitely i hate that... If we say truth many will get angry but it is true... In my opinion both son and daughter should have responsibilities towards parents ...i didn't said girl child is waste but I will say to daughter's please don't neglect ur parents ...

Well I can tell you are very into women empowerment and may be a feminist
I agree women should be independent, should be allowed to work and shouldn't be ideal Bahus because they should be the same how they are. Maya did say she will go back to work but not now.

But saying like girls don't go to school and waste parents money if you are gonna be housewives. Well firstly education is free in my country so if I did Wanaa be a housewife it would be fine 😆 even though I'm NOT because i believe that girls should work, get same pay as men and be independent. But if someone does want to be a housewife it doesn't mean they are wasting their parents money

Education is a need for all. Whether you want to work or not work 😊

Originally posted by: xsumi

Well I can tell you are very into women empowerment and may be a feminist
I agree women should be independent, should be allowed to work and shouldn't be ideal Bahus because they should be the same how they are. Maya did say she will go back to work but not now.

But saying like girls don't go to school and waste parents money if you are gonna be housewives. Well firstly education is free in my country so if I did Wanaa be a housewife it would be fine 😆 even though I'm NOT because i believe that girls should work, get same pay as men and be independent. But if someone does want to be a housewife it doesn't mean they are wasting their parents money

Education is a need for all. Whether you want to work or not work 😊

is education free in ur country... But in private school education is not free for both girls and boys... I already said we should educate girl child but if girl child just ignore her parents then it is wrong

Originally posted by: ktiluvu

is education free in ur country... But in private school education is not free for both girls and boys... I already said we should educate girl child but if girl child just ignore her parents then it is wrong

the thing is its maya's CHOSE to leave her job and work in arjuns house, this is a decision maya has made, she hasn't been told by arjun or vandana to do this, so i see nothing wrong with it, plus its her choice to be educated and open her busniess and she can leave it if she wants, at the end of the day everything was her decision

It's not like Maya is going to sit at home only! She is deinfitely going to go back to her but she has every right to take a break from all the stress! Staying at home for a while can be a stress buster for everyone, especially for someone like Maya who has faced so much mental stress! She has said that she doesn't want to go back to work right after her wedding and I think that's very normal... not every girl wants to go back to work right after her marriage especially when she has been working for so many years non stop... I don't see anything wrong is taking a break :) plus Maya is at the top of the fashion industry lmfao she isn't wasting anyone's money. That's her own hard earned money and she can decide what she wants to do with it :)
Maya has become so successful that it's an achievement in itself. She has ignored her own desires and made the company what it is. That's proof that she didn't "waste" any money. In fact she multiplied the money that she started with :)

First of all I don't want to see Maya as another dutiful Bahu.

I am all for women empowerment, I think women empowerment means empowering women to make their own decisions. If a women's happiness is in staying home why should society question that. I have come across many men who have chosen to be stay at home dads, similarly many women who chose to be stay at home moms too. As long as no body is forcing a women to make that choice I think it is perfectly fine. Maya made her own decision and that in itself is women empowerment to me.

Originally posted by: Poorni555

Girls need as much education as they can get whether they do house chores without pay or work for pay. Intelligence, knowledge, good manners, reading books all go to improving an individual's quality of life. This elevates their families' lives. So giving education to children is no waste of money.

Parents aren't " investing" money in their children expecting returns. If the girl/boy earns and is helping parents in times of need, good for them but money is not everything. Housewives inadvertently save the money spent on nannies and daycare. As far as I have seen , families where both spouses work, grandparents are doing the cooking and caring for children in Indian households. So they are only punished in their old age for helping you amass money for what? To take to you grave?

Maya is not an employee. She is at the top. She can take a break when she wants to. She has probably earned 20 times the money spent on her education. So to you calculative brain, that should justify her education? She need not be forced to earn more by you or her parents.

so if wife works husband parents have to cook so she should be a house wife.. Then girl parents cook until their lifelong no matter how old are they then what about that...daughter should only think about her in-laws that's why I said if she can't work at least stop her higher studies... And I'm not calculative brain if i written this to a son like sons should not study if he is not interested to work then many definitily said ur correct, true yes etc but I just said to a daughter so you all getting angry... But it's true as you said many married girls can't work cuz of her in-laws or may reasons so at least she should save her parents money in her higher education...