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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#41

Only today I saw this post ani. Beautiful one. Actually I loved Saanjh in the episode. Not just for what she did, but for what she said. She put her feelings honestly today that she cannot watch Arjun's wedding. Actually it is a fact. She loved him and it is next to impossible for her to watch him becoming someone else.

For me Arjun should have understood her, than forcing her. Because if you look from any woman's POV leave Maya who is sitting as Arjun's bride that hug will create an insecurity. They may not act like Maya devi but then the insecurity will be there.

Saanjh is actually the medium. Darkness can become light or light can come through darkness if there is a medium. I guess I have mentioned in my earlier posts also, without Saanjh the medium Maya cannot reach Arjun. And CVs showed it beautifully. We do not see the medium, but medium exists and if we dont understand the medium the connection never happens in real terms.

Coming to marriage, if it survives it can survive only the way Saanjh made Arjun tell the vow. If Maya accepts that vow in true sense. Because in that vow her love its extreme fundas is taken for Arjun's protection kind of nullifying what Pandit told about Maya's obsessive love. Because the way it was told it is about life and not death.

Marriage will never survive the way it happened. That's why fire was there. Maya walking in front all 7 rounds. Marriage doesnt happen like that first 4 rounds guy, then 3 rounds girl. So both partners take charge as well as follow. Shakhi cannot take charge, she can only manifest in her husband post marriage for a healthy relation. And the husband needs to acknowledge his power, strength comes from his better half .

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K.S.

@K.S.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#42

@shruthi But don't u think maya changed the vow in her own twisted way? 😕

It's like jab tum dhoor jaoge, gale ki phasa( ignore my bad hindi)When he leave her, she will destroy him..along d lines..

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#43

@KS that is what anni told if some one can destroy Maya, that is Maya herself. Yes if he goes way, but what if she goes away. What if she decides to let go. When she let go she will realize a lot of things.

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annihilation

@annihilation

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Posted: 8 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
Only today I saw this post ani. Beautiful one. Actually I loved Saanjh in the episode. Not just for what she did, but for what she said. She put her feelings honestly today that she cannot watch Arjun's wedding. Actually it is a fact. She loved him and it is next to impossible for her to watch him becoming someone else.
For me Arjun should have understood her, than forcing her. Because if you look from any woman's POV leave Maya who is sitting as Arjun's bride that hug will create an insecurity. They may not act like Maya devi but then the insecurity will be there.

Saanjh is actually the medium. Darkness can become light or light can come through darkness if there is a medium. I guess I have mentioned in my earlier posts also, without Saanjh the medium Maya cannot reach Arjun. And CVs showed it beautifully. We do not see the medium, but medium exists and if we dont understand the medium the connection never happens in real terms.

Coming to marriage, if it survives it can survive only the way Saanjh made Arjun tell the vow. If Maya accepts that vow in true sense. Because in that vow her love its extreme fundas is taken for Arjun's protection kind of nullifying what Pandit told about Maya's obsessive love. Because the way it was told it is about life and not death.

Marriage will never survive the way it happened. That's why fire was there. Maya walking in front all 7 rounds. Marriage doesnt happen like that first 4 rounds guy, then 3 rounds girl. So both partners take charge as well as follow. Shakhi cannot take charge, she can only manifest in her husband post marriage for a healthy relation. And the husband needs to acknowledge his power, strength comes from his better half .

Thank you, Shruthi! For having the patience to read it all out, be able to see through my perspective and for not see all that I have written in negative light. :) I have nothing more to add since you and I basically said the same things. The only way their relationship/marriage can survive is if it is led by Arjun because as of now, Maya is incapable of understanding real love where its about both partners working towards and leading a good life together.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@KS that is what anni told if some one can destroy Maya, that is Maya herself. Yes if he goes way, but what if she goes away. What if she decides to let go. When she let go she will realize a lot of things.

In return of Arjun's vow, she didn't promise him what he actually asked for. She twisted it all to suit her own way. Although, if things that are bound to happen down the line causes Maya to realize all that she needs to and if she decides to change herself to an extent that lies in her own power, then we can expect a positive outcome. Otherwise, its all bad news.

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annihilation

@annihilation

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Posted: 8 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: K.S.
@shruthi But don't u think maya changed the vow in her own twisted way? 😕
It's like jab tum dhoor jaoge, gale ki phasa( ignore my bad hindi)When he leave her, she will destroy him..along d lines..

Yes, she did, totally. Although, how it all plays out is what we'll have to see.

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annihilation

@annihilation

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Posted: 8 years ago

#46

Just a heads up for people who like to read my topics or look forward to them. There'll be no posts for a couple of days/episodes to come. If I happen to change my mind, I'll be back. Thank you to each and everyone of you. <3

Edited by .annihilation. - 8 years ago

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is tht important??

@xme_mishrian

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Posted: 8 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: .annihilation.
Just a heads up for people who like to read my topics or look forward them. There'll be no posts for a couple of days/episodes to come.If I happen to change my mind, I'll be back. Thank you to each and everyone of you. <3

If I happen to change my mind,I'll be back
This line is giving me negative feelings 😕 😆 I always look forward to ur posts @anni though i don't respond much.Will wait for sure anni.But yeah don't quite writing. 😃

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Does it matter? !!!

@aekiel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: xme_mishrian

If I happen to change my mind,I'll be back
This line is giving me negative feelings 😕 😆 I always look forward to ur posts @anni though i don't respond much.Will wait for sure anni.But yeah don't quite writing. 😃

Don't think she's the type to get affected by negative stuff. 😊

While this forum is an important part of our lives, it's certainly not the be end or end it all that some make it out to be.

Being involved too much only causes heartache and unnecessary toxicity, especially on the internet. It's natural to get a little affected by what people say, but the key bit is to not let it linger too long.

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annihilation

@annihilation

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Posted: 8 years ago

#49

Since I'm not technically back yet and I don't want to open a new topic altogether. Don't want to comment on main forum's topics even if there are relevant ones out there on one specific bit as I'd like to be extra cautious as to where I comment from now on. So, I'll thought I'll continue about that bit in this thread only.

Vandana, what in name of God has gotten into you? 😳

Be it any show or any character, whatever happens and whatever each character is doing is because the writers are making them do so. That's something I always keep in mind and then once I'm mentally done questioning them (and sometimes out loud vocally) do I proceed to discuss/talk/debate about it.

I could always make some sense (to say the least) in what she's said, done or how she's reacted until the last two episodes. Ever since Ashwin died, she's seeming as if she's seen a ghost every time someone opens their mouths to say something. 😳

Hyperventilating jaise usne koi bhoot dekh liya ho aur wahi bhoot usse baar baar dekh raha ho. I thought it must be for one episode and I'm like ok, chalo, granted. Sab jaise chahe react karlo 'cause you don't get to see murders every other day. 😆

But that continued even today and woh most frames mein sirf aankhein phaad rahi hai dare ke marre. Vandana, I get you're scared for your son's future. Okay, understood. But please, tone down the aankhein phaad phaad dekho, ek nahi hazaar baar dekho, upar neeche, aage peeche, dayein bayein, taad taad dekho. Aapko dekh kar mujhe chakkar aa rahein hain.

My free fund ki advice : Rest a little. Calm down. Drink lots of water. Check your BP because I think you might need medications for it soon. Save the cardiac arrest like reactions for later because yeh toh bas shurwaat hai, yeh toh bas shurwaat, abhi toh drama shuru hua hai...tain tain tain... 😆

Edited by .annihilation. - 8 years ago