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Originally posted by: .annihilation.

Truth to be told, I did not find what TM wrote or the way she wrote it disrespectful or nasty. Neither did I find her attitude to be snobbish. May be, you and I have a very different definition of what classifies as 'bashing'. The original post (as in the TM's) is not bashing, imo. Going by that logic that this thread and TM's views are biased, then that makes each and every post out here biased too. You (you in general terms of speaking) can't wash your hands off this clearly when you have been a participant of it all too, no?

This forum does have mods but they aren't too active here for reasons known best to them.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Well, I have not personally created any threads n forum except for the survey and the OS. Not only me, all the Arya supporters find it that way. We saw Vandana's attitude snobbish and TM is justifying her. Even if I don't take it as bashing, it seems that some of the Saajun supporters have become so blind that they don't see the genuine efforts Maya makes to fit the bill.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Well, I have not personally created any threads n forum except for the survey and the OS. Not only me, all the Arya supporters find it that way. We saw Vandana's attitude snobbish and TM is justifying her. Even if I don't take it as bashing, it seems that some of the Saajun supporters have become so blind that they don't see the genuine efforts Maya makes to fit the bill.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

@katrinasalman I'm supporting the TM, not defending her. There is a difference. Defending her would mean trying to project whatever she said wrong as right. What I felt was rude I voiced out in a respectful manner. But I support all the other points she said.

Regarding ur previous reply, u urself said u don't care. And ur again comparing Maya and Saanjh and their respective fans. My question is WHY??? Why does this have to be a maya vs saanjh war? Can't both the characters and their fans co exist? And now please, let's drop this argument. For everyone else's and more importantly each other's sake. It is leading to nothing.

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

Please speak for yourself, fellow member. By saying 'all ArYa members find that it way', you're generalising the lot. Who knows there might folks out there who don't think as the same you and some of the people here do? Whether or not have you created threads is not the point here, you comment on threads, don't you?

So, if a person finds a character's view a certain way, you'll put him/her down just because that view doesn't match yours? If you're entitled to appreciate or criticise a character as you deem fit, so is everyone else. I personally did not find Vandana's attitude snobbish for reasons I don't feel the need to explain it over in this thread. You might as well proceed to call me snobbish now. 😆

Again, I repeat myself, the forum is not divided into ArYa and SaJun supporters. There are people out there who understand the show in a much broader perspective and terms than just the ships-perspective.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

@katrinasalman I did not start anything to stop. In all my replies I have tried to keep things short and to the point. You are the one getting unnecessary points and stretching the argument. I'm not finding faults in maya. Im only analysing her character. And that is not bashing. I'm not really interested in arguing with u over such a petty issue but if u accuse for no reason, then do not expect me to listen to u and shut up. Will not reply again, I expect the same maturity from u as well.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Forget about what I'm saying. All the Arya fans support me and vice versa. Yes, the forum is not divided but when our views don't match, the forum automatically gets divided. As a technical person, I see everything in terms of logic. If someone is seeking blessings from the elders, they do bless them, keeping all their ill-feelings aside. That is called courtesy. I don't tell Vandana to accept Maya as her DIL but what will she lose if she blesses Maya?