To balance relationships - Page 9

Originally posted by: lumos_31

Also, Arjun has always been insensitive towards Saanjh and has insulted her calling her middle class/jealous of his success, and also now the countless incidences happening since maya has entered his life. Do u remember the time Saanjh waited the whole night for Arjun, the day that junoon project was launched? She waited for him too right..And that time Saanjh was genuinely happy for her best friend's success. Saanjh cries, gets hurt and fights with him and all that is very much human of her. What happens after that? Saanjh understands and goes back to being his best friend. So no, you cannot compare Saanjh and Maya at all.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Having a successful doesn't mean you aren't mentally ill.No sane person would wait there whole night .Her body language said it all

1.She dint make him come to lonavala for work but to get on hot air balloon.

3.Saanjh Coming to office is too meet her friend which is wrong but it doesn't justify Maya s actions to stop him so they can't meet during lunch time.

Nobody has problem with efforts which are genuine but not manipulative efforts .

Originally posted by: lumos_31

That's exactly what I am trying to explain. Thank u for articulating it so perfectly.

As for ur point about criminally insane people being in jail, if im not mistaken they do have therapy sessions with psychiatrists. But a criminal act and the impact it has on others cannot be justified at any cost right.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

@katrinasalman I think it's best we just agree to disagree.

1. You can be mentally ill and be a professionally successful person. It is not related.

2. Arjun was just an intern at the time. Where was the shoot, even if there was supposed to be one in lonavla. Maya herself put him on holiday and then took that away from him and used it to her benefit

3. Saanjh coming to Arjun's office doesn't justify maya playing mind games to keep Arjun away from Saanjh. If Maya had so much of a problem with Arjun going for lunch with Saanjh,she could've directly told him not to go, but she wanted to be in the good books of Arjun, hence pretended she was okay with Arjun going out with Saanjh and then played this game.

When did I not accept Maya's flaws being a result of her past? I empathize with her as much as u do. But that doesn't mean I would turn a blind eye n try to justify every wrong act of hers. The same is true for Saanjh. I agree she nags, she irritates and she is as flawed as Maya is. But her flaws are much more human than Maya's flaws. Also, what good work has Maya done? Saving Ayaan? Okay, agreed. But after that she did not even ask Ayaan whether he committed the crime. It didn't matter to her and the kid that Ayaan is, he could take it in any way.

She sure can make an effort to win his heart, when did I say no. But there is a difference in this case. If u love somebody, u should be honest with that person, which, until yesterday's episode, maya has never been. She says she is okay with Arjun not loving her, and then once she reaches home, she tells God that Arjun is hers. Again, there is a difference between wanting somebody to love u and making somebody fall in love with u.

And before u bring up Saanjh into this, I'm not even trying to justify her actions through this point.

My point about Maya playing the friendship card was that ultimately it made Arjun do what she wanted, ie hug her back. A normal person would break the hug and wait for the day when Arjun would hug her willingly but Maya wanted Arjun to hug her back and she'd make it happen at any cost. It wasn't harmful to anybody, when did I say it was. It was an example of manipulation.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

Also, Arjun has always been insensitive towards Saanjh and has insulted her calling her middle class/jealous of his success, and also now the countless incidences happening since maya has entered his life. Do u remember the time Saanjh waited the whole night for Arjun, the day that junoon project was launched? She waited for him too right..And that time Saanjh was genuinely happy for her best friend's success. Saanjh cries, gets hurt and fights with him and all that is very much human of her. What happens after that? Saanjh understands and goes back to being his best friend. So no, you cannot compare Saanjh and Maya at all.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

I think the theme of show I exciting and they should stick to the theme .After Mauritius sequence I m waiting for Maya to get in the avatar which she was shown in promo.The main story will start after Mauritius sequence.
If Maya turns positive and saanjh negative then that would biggest cliche of Indian Television. Plus it would ruin the unique concept of behadh.
Maya s past has to layered and there are lots of questions which make us stick to this show .We are unable to predict them while saanjh being negative the fact that we are able predict itself proves that its one of the most used concept .

Originally posted by: tanvismile

@katrinasalman Time and again you bring flaws of characters of saanjh and arjun to justify maya s actions. How is that correct?

We have accepted all the flaws of saanjh and arjun too

But looks like you are refusing to accept one major point that

Maya has used Manipulation to make Arjun love her back

Like she gets completely disturbed about saanjh arjun friendship. Does arjun knows that? She hacked his account and made him a fool by telling him that they share same taste which is false... Does arjun know that?

She intentionally gave promotion to his friends to stop him from going out for lunch with saanjh...

Does arjun know that?

Maya was eating ice cream and enjoying saanjh and arjun fight..

Does arjun know that?

So once he knows these things because one can't forever lie will he accept maya.. Won't he feel betrayed and hurt?

This is exactly we are pointing out...

We all even saanjh and arjun has flaws but their flaws are open. They don't project an image which they are not.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

@katrinasalman Time and again you bring flaws of characters of saanjh and arjun to justify maya s actions. How is that correct?

We have accepted all the flaws of saanjh and arjun too

But looks like you are refusing to accept one major point that

Maya has used Manipulation to make Arjun love her back

Like she gets completely disturbed about saanjh arjun friendship. Does arjun knows that? She hacked his account and made him a fool by telling him that they share same taste which is false... Does arjun know that?

She intentionally gave promotion to his friends to stop him from going out for lunch with saanjh...

Does arjun know that?

Maya was eating ice cream and enjoying saanjh and arjun fight..

Does arjun know that?

So once he knows these things because one can't forever lie will he accept maya.. Won't he feel betrayed and hurt?

This is exactly we are pointing out...

We all even saanjh and arjun has flaws but their flaws are open. They don't project an image which they are not.