Originally posted by: tanvismile
I beg to differ you in respect of saanjh arjun ...you know I always wondered what's a big deal if saanjh and arjun be end game.The format of show is such that its Maya s obsession ...Arjun innitially is bound to fall for Maya and its reason would be he always gets attracted to outer beauty .But later he realizes the truth and till now he was just being immature .The end game would be Saajun.
There have been so many best friends who have turned into lovers.So what is so different with saanjh arjun ?Why people do as if we are talking weird ?
Reading your post I realised the mind set ...
What is love ?I think for most of people love is intense looks ,eye locks ,staring ,trpinig and falling ,these are various ways of thinking about love which becomes a barrier for them to think of Saajun ..
When we people who think on the same thing ...we don't understand best friends turning into lovers ...what a big deal ...
The way we visualize it as the way Saajun are ...we see how they need each other ...how arjun gives justifications to her like boyfriend ..he could easily say whom I meet what I do is my look out .Their are not perfect but still their relationship is perfect .Tomorrow it's like arjun will compare the life with Maya to that with saanjh...Their bond as strong as mother son or wife hubby .He rightfully tells her.
So we don't look them romantically .Friends turning lovers ...their chemistry will different from other couples ...They woudnt never like the usual romantic couple ...
Dear , I think you did not read my post. I said both ladies are one sided lover and it is not about eye lock, attraction etc, but love never happen in un-attractive way. Arjun talk very unattractive way with Saajh. For example "Naak ki baal" .He would not talk about hair of nose, if he would be attracted slightly. He see her like a pure friend. If not attraction, at list it should be a nutral relation. Arjun, even does not undertand soul of Saajh. He is extremely ignorant. He definitely does not love Saajh. By force nothing should happen.
Saajh is a clingy girl and no man will like the way she try to controle his all moves. He is a grown up man, and she should allow him to understand himself, his feelings.
A true love should set free. If he returns, he is yours. Sorry to say, Saajh was shown as a desparate lover, who does not even have a ground to tell Arjun, that she loves him. The way every time Arjun speak to her, she has no room to tell that she loves him.
On the other hand Maya is a psycho. So Arjun should marry a 3rd girl and teach two of them, freedom of his soul.
I love Aneri and Aneri herself choose the show. She is an extremely tallented actress. I completely love her as Saajh. Here we are discussing why so many people think Saajh is a one sided lover.
But she should be upfront and tell Arjun that she loves him. If she could not then , I would say, Arjun did not give her that position. He treat her, like a jigry dost, and it is very unusual to turn those type of friendship to a couple.
Arjun is attracted to Maya, so Maya could propose him. Arjun gave the ground to Maya UNKNOWINGLY.
But surely, at the end I personally will like , if a third girl, enter in Arjun's life, where love will be mutual.
I personally want Arjun bypass both desparate lady,( in their own way) and fall in love for some one else. If both ladies did not care about his feeling, then they are not true lovers. True love should be set free and trust me they return, if they actually loved you.
True love, come with lots of trust, even if it is one sided :) We saw Saajh is an extremely insecured girl.
She should let him go for few years. He would eventually return to her, if she would be that deep lover. So Arjun should be set free.
Edited by Taha0023 - 8 years ago