Why Maya...Why not Saanjh? - Page 6

Originally posted by: rbpll

I like every character in their own place especially Saanjh and Maya and I was looking forward to the tussle between Maya and Saanjh as initially I found Saanjh naive,innocent, intelligent and Compassionate and dealing with and dealing for Arjun can be a good boosting force for her character development. Because somewhere she understood Maya more than Arjun. But off late she is behaving like a clingy possessive girlfriend. I understand that Maya have only shown her beyadh or rather say sublte beyadhness to saanjh that's why she is worried about Arjun. But knowing the nature of both Arjun and Maya doesn't she approach towards the situation with brain instead of heart. She is about be a lawyer, doesn't she have a strategy and a good sense of understanding of human nature. Doing this constant nagging on Arjun , she is coming in a bad books of Arjun. If she give some space, then only Arjun will understand her value and Saanjh will understand her own self-worth that there is a life beyond Arjun. Here look at Maya how smartly she is playing her cards. She knows exactly what Arjun wants and triggers that part to lure him. May be not out of love but Arjun will fall for Maya sheer out of attraction, gratefulness and admiration.

Originally posted by: Taha0023

Dear , I think you did not read my post. I said both ladies are one sided lover and it is not about eye lock, attraction etc, but love never happen in un-attractive way. Arjun talk very unattractive way with Saajh. For example "Naak ki baal" .He would not talk about hair of nose, if he would be attracted slightly. He see her like a pure friend.

I would like to add something here , you said love can never happen in an unattractive way. I believe when people who have grown together . . In between love not necessarily stem out of attraction. If one see , any relation mother child or hubby wife . . . When people grow . . . They become care free . . Today if you see tarak mehta ka ulta chasma jetha is never shown attracted towards daya .The basis of love changes as people grow together.

If not attraction, at list it should be a nutral relation. Arjun, even does not undertand soul of Saajh. He is extremely ignorant. He definitely does not love Saajh. By force nothing should happen.

Saajh is a clingy girl and no man will like the way she try to controle his all moves. He is a grown up man, and she should allow him to understand himself, his feelings.

Arjun is never shown to be matured person . He is plain kiddish and it's has nothing to do with bonding . . What he considers her. . . He is someone who has always taken relationships for granted and all he can see fame and success. People do forgot in aim of getting something they forget to value what they have .

A true love should set free. If he returns, he is yours. Sorry to say, Saajh was shown as a desparate lover, who does not even have a ground to tell Arjun, that she loves him. The way every time Arjun speak to her, she has no room to tell that she loves him.

On the other hand Maya is a psycho. So Arjun should marry a 3rd girl and teach two of them, freedom of his soul.

I love Aneri and Aneri herself choose the show. She is an extremely tallented actress. I completely love her as Saajh. Here we are discussing why so many people think Saajh is a one sided lover.

But she should be upfront and tell Arjun that she loves him. If she could not then , I would say, Arjun did not give her that position. He treat her, like a jigry dost, and it is very unusual to turn those type of friendship to a couple.

Arjun is attracted to Maya, so Maya could propose him. Arjun gave the ground to Maya UNKNOWINGLY.

But surely, at the end I personally will like , if a third girl, enter in Arjun's life, where love will be mutual.

I personally want Arjun bypass both desparate lady,( in their own way) and fall in love for some one else. If both ladies did not care about his feeling, then they are not true lovers. True love should be set free and trust me they return, if they actually loved you.

True love, come with lots of trust, even if it is one sided :) We saw Saajh is an extremely insecured girl.

She should let him go for few years. He would eventually return to her, if she would be that deep lover. So Arjun should be set free.