I actually understand Zoya ..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I know on one hand it does feel like Zoya is being too nave in her understanding of Aditya's feelings ..but if we really break it down from her POV ..she's not entirely to blame.

Frankly IMO ..Zoya has neither experienced friendship NOR real love. Zoya loved Yash but it didn't seem like it was the other way round to a large extent - so while Zoya might know what she feels when she is in love ..she doesn't know what it feels when someone else loves her! ..That's a totally new experience for her to understand what it is like to be loved by someone else with all their heart and soul.

If Aditya was indeed Zoya's best friend - keeping her best interests in mind, he would advise her against a hasty marriage and to focus on her career etc. From Zoya's POV this doesn't come across as his romantic love for her ..it's more like a friend looking out for her and making sure she doesn't take the wrong path...When I first met a guy in college - many of my friends (girls and boys) had a lot of things to say about him - but I was crazy about him and I kept it going until I realized for myself that many aspects of his nature and character were not something I could live with!! ..But none of those boys who actually told me things about him were saying it because they loved me!! .it was just out of friendship and even today we are great friends!

Yash's love was all about giving zoya comfort, pampering her and not making her see the world for what it is!..in Zoya's opinion that is what is love, perhaps as she was completely happy with Yash! ..Like Arshad opening the car door and such chivalrous charms she's used to -

Also, given that Adi was so mad with Pooja and Yash, it's really hard for Zoya to imagine that he'd actually love her ..something needs to happen that makes her fall in love with him!

.she still needs to realize that Adi helping her stand up on her two feet and be an independent girl is not his friendship but his love! I just wish in this case Adi gives her the time and lets her decide on her own ..I don't want him forcing his love on her either ..

Perhaps in these 2 weeks Zoya will see parallels between Arshad and Yash and realize how the two of them kind of treat her like some delicate darling ..and then she'll realize how contrasting Adi is and she really cannot be with someone who doesn't think of her as an equally capable human ..

Let's see what CVs have in store ..but i'm quite liking the way things are going until now ..i'm traveling next week so won't be able to watch the epis ..so will binge watch on my return :))

We can be sure we'll be in for a very angsty and passion filled AdiYa confession ..if we don't get then then i'll do my share of ranting :)) Hopefully Arshad doesn't be the one to tell Zoya that Aditya loves her and that kind ..I want Zoya to realize it on her own ..just like Adi did!!



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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with your post but I still hate this 3rd angle track cvs brought in 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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That I agree too ..I am hating this third wheel too ..I never liked them ..I wish they'd shown both of them being friends and then realizing their love together and then landing up getting physical in some dire situation and then confessing ..they do it so nicely in American serials!!

Originally posted by: Cherryfairy

I agree with your post but I still hate this 3rd angle track cvs brought in 😆

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I so agree with u vandana...i have mentioned it before..even if aditya was not in.love with zoya he would have been doing the same asking her to speak to her dad ..tht action of his has got nothing to do with his romantic interest...aditya has always been open abt his opinions and always pushed zoya to stand up for herself..thts what makes him very special...and zoya is in a situation where she only feels happiness..she is not thinking much abt relationships..she is happy that all her loved ones are with her..her family..aditya..she is at peace..she has long before termed her relationship with aditya as friendship..and she is very happy with that feeling..she never gave it a second thought..she has never felt what its to get love..like u said..yash always made a fake tajmahal for her...that too using other peoples.money..for zoya..that was what she got in the name of love..and arshad is doing the same.thing ..only difference..without loan...😆..poor aditya is giving her real.love..and she feels the difference.too..but she termed it friendship...she will have to be nudged a little into.thinking again abt wht she feels for aditya..forget friendahip and love or any name we give for feelings...just think abt the feeling she has for aditya..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: vandana21

That I agree too ..I am hating this third wheel too ..I never liked them ..I wish they'd shown both of them being friends and then realizing their love together and then landing up getting physical in some dire situation and then confessing ..they do it so nicely in American serials!!




I would have loved to seen that. Idkw Hindi serials are so obsessed with 3rd angles/love triangles
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Posted: 7 years ago
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exactly my feelings! She really cannot sense that Aditya's attitude towards her is more than friendship ..I've had friends who did the same and I would do the same for a friend too ..so his actions don't necessarily convey romantic love ..and zoya has just shut romance out of her life .and is not even giving it a second thought!

Originally posted by: deeps07

I so agree with u vandana...i have mentioned it before..even if aditya was not in.love with zoya he would have been doing the same asking her to speak to her dad ..tht action of his has got nothing to do with his romantic interest..and zoya is in a situation where she only feels happiness..she is not thinking much abt relationships..she is happy that all her poved ones are with her..her family..aditya..she is at peace..she has long before termed her relationship with aditya as friendship..and she is very happy with that feeling..she never gave it a second thought..she has never felt what its to get love..like u said..yash always made a fake tajmahal for her...that too using other peoples.money..for zoya..that was what she got in the name of love..and arshad is doing the same.thing ..only difference..without loan...😆..poor aditya is giving her real.love..and she feels the difference.too..but she termed it friendship...she will have to be nudged a little into.thinking again abt wht she feels for aditya..forget friendahip and love or any name we give for feelings...just think abt the feeling she has for aditya..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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yeah I wish they'd actually show stuff that's progressive and natural!

Originally posted by: Cherryfairy



I would have loved to seen that. Idkw Hindi serials are so obsessed with 3rd angles/love triangles

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Originally posted by: vandana21

yeah I wish they'd actually show stuff that's progressive and natural!




Had this show been on Sony, maybe we could have gotten to see AdiYa having premarital sex coz the channel is chill about things like that and don't care much for TRP. But as it's colors on 9:30 slot they can't 🥱 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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hmm..that's crazy ..who are the ppl living in a fake world that still think that ppl don't do it before marriage!! ..it's alright if it's an arranged marriage ..but two ppl in love ..trusting each other and with contraceptives!! they need to show such things at least to open the eyes of the prudish adults in india :)

Originally posted by: Cherryfairy



Had this show been on Sony, maybe we could have gotten to see AdiYa having premarital sex coz the channel is chill about things like that and don't care much for TRP. But as it's colors on 9:30 slot they can't 🥱 😆

Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree. I have never said this out loud but I've always felt from the beginning what Zoya assumes to be true love is not exactly 'Love'. Zoya is shown to be in true love with Yash from the beginning & everyone has been agreeing to it too while Adi was more of friends with Pooja. Zoya hasn't exactly experienced that true & passionate love & it's more sensible to think of this track this way. Arshad is hell annoying but he's just here for a set of episodes, so I can tolerate him ROFL 😆😆

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