Is adultery crime or not

Originally posted by: Patharsitara

I m still pondering after watching this show . saying that we don't justify ema but asking for forgiveness from people who cheated that means people who cheat are not culprit but victim of treatment from their spouses.so I should support neighbour uncle who left his wife and child for love for younger girl.should I go to wife and advise her that she should ask for forgiveness from husband for not being beautiful and young that drive her husband to young girl.hmmm there are many cases where society blame spouse for cheating of his or her partner like that they are not good enough to hold relationship.bepannah is doing good job for showing perspective of cheaters that they should not be blamed alone for cheating ,so what if they lied to their partner and family ,so what if they spend money and time on outsider instead of family,so what if they instead of trying and understanding in marriage go and hang with other .

Hmmm quite interesting.divorce is option if you don't want to live with your partner.but that is tiresome and expensive and also bring lot of insult.so it's good to cheat .

So my question is cheating is crime or not 😛

Originally posted by: Patharsitara

I m still pondering after watching this show . saying that we don't justify ema but asking for forgiveness from people who cheated that means people who cheat are not culprit but victim of treatment from their spouses.so I should support neighbour uncle who left his wife and child for love for younger girl.should I go to wife and advise her that she should ask for forgiveness from husband for not being beautiful and young that drive her husband to young girl.hmmm there are many cases where society blame spouse for cheating of his or her partner like that they are not good enough to hold relationship.bepannah is doing good job for showing perspective of cheaters that they should not be blamed alone for cheating ,so what if they lied to their partner and family ,so what if they spend money and time on outsider instead of family,so what if they instead of trying and understanding in marriage go and hang with other .

Hmmm quite interesting.divorce is option if you don't want to live with your partner.but that is tiresome and expensive and also bring lot of insult.so it's good to cheat .

So my question is cheating is crime or not 😛

Originally posted by: dreamy.tiara

Technically, adultery is a crime in India for men.. not for women. Section 497, IPC.

See: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery_law_in_India

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

ugh I had this long message written out but here we go again! :)

so just like in real life, when discussions about cheating and marriage breakdown happens, it becomes a blame game. who is the victim? who is the bad person? but what the writer is attempting to show is that in some cases, (not necessarily all), a marriage breakdown isn't just about one person. there are two people in the relationship. rather than trying to figure out who is wrong, perhaps a better educational approach would be to ask the lessons we can take away and become better people.

in regards to the incident that you shared, another way to look at it is that many indian women fail to take care of themselves after marriage. now does that mean the husband was justified? NO. absolutely not. but when you hear of such stories, it is a reminder to other people to take care of themselves, to maintain emotional ties with your spouse even if you have been married for years etc etc... so being aware of issues does help perhaps.

please see my profile and previous posts but a theme that this drama covers but does not delve into deeply (and it should) is the impact of financial stress on a marriage. there should be discussion between the spouses on financial matters because that can break a marriage if not properly handled...

Originally posted by: Patharsitara

no one would argue that adultery is a good thing - it is not. but understanding the reasons or a breakdown in marriage can help others become wiser. for example, research indicates that financial stress is one of the top reasons for marriages breaking down the world over. Yash and Zoya's marriage breaking was initially strained by the financial stress and him not being able to share his burdens with her. Was he right in cheating? NO. but understanding that helps us viewers understand the impact of financial stress in relationships.

whether or not, one should forgive is a choice that everyone makes in all sorts of situations. however, we need to understand that forgiveness does not mean that the action becomes right and somehow whatever the person did is okay. actually forgiveness just means that we are no longer bound by hurt and anger towards that person or event and we learn to let go. sometimes there is reconciliation, sometimes there is no possibility for reconciliation. forgiveness only means letting go of the past and finding some measure of peace within ourselves.

Originally posted by: Patharsitara

Power of lust is much Stronger than power of loyalty.marriage and sacred vows hold deep meaning.adultry is considered bad because a person backstab his or partner ,keep lying and keep them in dark.will you forgive a perspm whom you rely and trust and care backstab you for another person?will you understand his or her betrayal?a person as third person very easily say that betrayal and cheating can be forgiven.but ask the victim who feel that their whole world get shattered and destroyed,who feel like dying ,who feel insecure to trust anyone.

This show has not depicted the victim point of view.not once it was declared that Pooja and Yash had done crime to betray their partner.but they are said to be human with fault.sorry if anyone is decent human he or she would not cheat their partner.if they don't want to live with their partner they should have cut off their relationship from respective partners before starting their affair.but cheating and betraying their partner andkeeping them in dark is something that a pathetic selfish person can do.

How could they play with unconditional trust that their partner had given them.my problem with this show is that they are showing betrayal in marriage lightly.

In real life case it is so heart wrenching that one could imagine.they did not highlighted the consequences of betrayal.its not easy in practical life.i have seen people living like dead after betrayal.so philosophy and theory is very good but in real life philosophy not always work.

Giving lifelong trauma and pain to other and starting own life happily is Sinister.

Karma does not listen to philosophy and theory.so if any person think that he or she will be easily forgiven for sin because they are human with fault then they should always remember that karma bite back and karma do not listen to philosophy and forgiveness theory.

My pov end here