I am not playing to win the battle

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Aditya is not playing to win. Really. Yes if you look from conventional point of view it looks correct. But Adi's goal is not conventional. He is mocking that society that undermines a woman. That society which tells the woman she cant. Tells her what she should do an she should not do. In that way denying her a level playing field and then mocks at her inefficiency.

He is giving a woman an oppourtunity. An oppourtunity to prove a man wrong. The way Virani speaks half the girls will run away thinking they cannot do it. That's the trick a man has employed for centuries. Women need to understand it is not easy for them at the word go because they have been conditioned a lot. So she needs to keep her confidence and try. She needs to have self belief.

Actually today's incident reminded me of my days as a plus two student. I was aspiring for engineering and like any student went for coaching. Our physics Sir was like Mr Virani. He will find oppourtunity somehow to belittle the girls in the class and praise the boys. He was a good teacher but we sat terrified in his class. I was his target student and he comes and stands when I solve problem making it difficult for me and then mock at me. Mostly it will be a demoralized me going after physics tuition that I cannot clear the entrance.

If Monday it was physics tuition, it was chemistry tuition for me on tuesday. Chemistry Sir as soon as he enters the class tells a line " Anybody can defeat anyone if you have self belief." He never differentiated on gender and gave oppourtunites to express yourself. So you felt motivated. So it was a cycle and Chemistry Sir kept me going, making me give my best for entrance. I worked hard. Just like Zoya today who decided a woman will out Mr Virani, I wanted to prove that physics Sir wrong. And I did it. When more than 80% of the girls in the physics class couldnt crack the entrance, I not only cracked it but my rank was ahead of so many of his pet boys.

I still remember standing in front of him with a smile showing my admit card to one of the top engineering colleges in Kerala.He didnt look directly at me.

What Zoya was denied was oppourtunity. Neither her father, nor Yash gave her that.Ability to take decision, ability to fail. Today Aditya not only gave her the oppourntiy, but when she fell he became her cushion. It shows he gives her the option to fail. He allows her to fly giving her wings, but if she falls in her need to prove herself he will catch her. Always. And he takes the beating if needed. And Virani will be out. The thoughts also will be out, though they are the catalyst, it will be done by a person belonging to that school of thought itself. Or rather they will self destroy. Rajveer actually belongs to Kalpesh team and he took the ball. That's what Adi will do. He will make old school of thought self destroy itself with Zoya.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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What I like about Aditya character he is a loving person, he gives freedom to his wife to do what ever she wants or go wherever she likes alone...he trusts her more than himself.

Hope one day Zoya realise she have met a real Gentleman

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yes adi is a gentleman. Even for hug he allowed her to come to him than go straight and hug her.he could have done that because as far as sagarika goes adi was zoya husband. And even the hug he kept it minimal touching.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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wow ur analysis are bang on .
i too feel adi always pushes zoya to the edge so that she learns to fly .
he has always motivated her .
airport scene was his first test then the hospital scene were she was going back to massorie .

adi always free spirited guy ..
he wanted his mom to be independent thats why he dislikes her now because she allowed mr hooda back in her life ..

he let pooja to be independent but she took advantage her mother too is not loyal to him .
but with zoya she is different she is naive, faithful and some what she needs a push and adi knows that .
he knows her so well by now that if he pushes her she would achieve the impossible .

why he is playing games with her because to make her live in this world on her own terms he puts her to so many test so that she get used to the test of life and even things around her are putting her to test ...

he in fact shows the reality of this world hope she gets to know real mahi one day through adi ..

zoya is lucky in fact to have adi in her life now ..

yash was busy in protecting her, pampering her so that he gives her the princess life but failed to give her true love in this process but adi will give her true love which she deserves and same with adi he will get trustworthy spouse in zoya were he will never look back in the past ..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ningal parayunathu pc thomas or brilliant tutorials or tandem ninde coaching classes ne patti anoo avoo😊? Vere oru mallu vine evide active ayyi kandathil santhosam.
Edited by maharathikarna - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Excellent analysis! 👏

Thank you for sharing your experience. In my case, I get a kick out of people telling me that as a girl I cannot do so and so thing. I take it as a challenge and test my skills... which is why ended up post-graduating with maths, apart from the fact that I like maths.

The way story is proceeding, I feel Zoya is growing stronger and stronger as a woman. The difficulties in her life are shaping it that way. And most importantly, how Adi supports her, sometimes in direct and indirect ways.




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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi Shruthi...

After reading your post, I always think whether CVs have a thought process like yours. You extract so many things from Adiyas action. It may get unnoticed from our vision but you catch and give it a different meaning. Hats off to you. 🤗

And these days I love Adi for what he has been doing, He is not giving a verbal answer to Mr.Virani when he demotivates women, though Adi wants too. He just answers with his action. 👏 He gives the opportunity to them to prove the old man wrong.

I loved the way he smiled at Mr. Virani when he spoke about him hitting six if women bowl. 😆
Edited by Sovereign_K - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: vj3072

What I like about Aditya character he is a loving person, he gives freedom to his wife to do what ever she wants or go wherever she likes alone...he trusts her more than himself.

Hope one day Zoya realise she have met a real Gentleman

Yeah right...Even I also see him in the same way...he is loving kind of husband which every lady wishes for...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Amazing analysis, yaar 👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nice analysis dear 👏

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