Is it just me..or ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ARandKJFan

I'm completely respect this post :)

I feel, at this point of time, Zain is immature and he doesn't understand the consequences. He usually doesn't think first, yet does it directly and regrets it later. This is a trait I've found in Zain.

Also, Aliya has gotten used to it, and she did declare he can do anything so Zain is taking drastic measures but she isn't as affected because Zain has already done this with her.

As the time goes on, he might soften up because Aliya isn't going to strong hearted throughout and will break down, like she did today. I did feel sorry for her to be frank because it wasn't her fault. Ifeel they will slowly mature the characters and are taking it slow but that's just my point of view :)

Originally posted by: .x-bumblebee-x.

I empathise with her..
I feel that Zain will fall in love with her
First.. & will tell her.. But she won't believe
Him as he's tried to be romantic twice to
Leave her humiliated and rejected..

Who knows maybe when zain falls in love
& she rejects him.. He would understand that
It hurts to play with someone's emotions.

Originally posted by: togepe30

Yes that dialogue was hurtful...
Afterall Suraiya ne sikhaya hai...toh galat cheez hi sikhayi hogi...
Issi liye abhi tak galat cheezo ko muh laga raha tha...

Originally posted by: Shiiya

I completely agree with you, they should mature zain up now.. I really didn't like the way zain did the photo thing, he wants to make her feel jelous why? He says he hates her and then does things like that and he keeps insulting her... But it guess they will mature his character up slowly

Aaliyah is a strong her she can put up with most of it like she is doing

agree with your post

U have described ol my feelings ditto..

Originally posted by: mik07

Zain's character is walking on a thin line between mature and immature. Ofcourse with time he will definitely be sensitive towards alya. Right now he purposely wants to hurt and break her but he never crosses the line (ok today was a bit much but he didn't take advantage of her helplessness )

I don't feel bad for aliya because in true terms she's sherni. She counter attacks all of zain's plans. She is strong. Though she feels bad but she definitely doesn't act like an abla naari and is headstrong to face all the challenges. Kudos to her character!!👏

Zain's a charmer and so one can't help to fall for his flirting. Alya falls too, only to realise that zain is just fooling around everytime. 😆

Zain and alya's relationship shud evolve slowly. If zain matures suddenly then all the fun element of the show will b gone. It wud b much more nice if he slowly and steadily realises alya's importance without loosing his fun loving, naughty nature!

I felt for Aliya, but not for reasons you state.

Firstly Thanks for making such a post. Its very rare these days to actually find a thread with the right amount of constructive criticism. I am glad you made one.

It's not just today's episode that I found Zain being shown immature and insensitive to Aliya. I would like to vent some of them in this post. So this might get a big long.

Starting from this week. I still don't understand what Zain was trying to accomplish by making his friends' girlfriends tease Aliya, speaking in Marathi. It seemed very silly to me. Was it an act of jealousy because she seemed to mingle with his friends more? Or that she adapted with them so soon? But lets just say, we can ignore that since it was not so very serious.

Even though their chemistry was awesome, I personally felt the dance moves were not right. I didnot want them to dance after the blouse rip. It should have happened after the dance. Him pinning it up later also would have looked good. And the dance moves itself, it seemed a little cruel towards Aliya. The way he caressed her face, why should he do that when clearly she is so angry with him? She is trying so hard to make the marriage work. One minute he caresses her, next minute pushes her away and insults her. The rest of the moves were good enough. but it was like playing with Aliya's vulnerable feelings. Wouldnt anyone be confused, one sec you are trying to insult me, in the next you rip my blouse, next you dance with me, then you touch me like you want to, then you push me away,...why so much contradictions?

Zain's dialogues about his room and her having no rights in there has become so repetitive. He is not a 5yr old to be grumpy about it all the time. Clearly she has established her fortress in the same room. Accept it and move on...Do whatever it is you wanna do next. And to top that he calls her immature as well.

And like you said, in today's episode. I understand why Aliya was trying to talk to her mother. Even though Zain was all macho about scaring her, she was actually gonna go into the intimacy willingly. Every girl questions her mother about it, or their mother talk to their daughters about it. She wanted to be a little courageous and prepared for what Zain had in mind. Because all said and done, she is the one struggling to keep the marriage and its vows intact. And deep down even though she is very hurt and upset by Zain, she sees him as her husband and she accept him because she wants to. And Zain's making it such a light matter, not appreciated.

I actually loved the fact she openly shared it with Osman. How she wants to make things work, how Zain is never willing to cooperate even a little. I understand why Aliya gets a little dazed when he gets close. She is a girl, and she accepts this situation more readily. He is her husband in the true sense for her.

Zain has so many shades to him. Inspite of listening to Suraiyya's manipulation, he has his own opinions in most matters. His telling his mom to not get involved and talk to phuphi about things happening here, his supporting aliya about the torn blouse, his marrying aliya on his dad's words. His hooking up Aliya's blouse, no big drama there. He simply tells her to stay put and hooks it up. There is so much potential to his character. I wish they explore those roles more, rather than showing him being grumpy and sulking about everything Aliya does.

PS: Phew! I am no way bashing Zain's character or faulting everything, but sometimes, I wish they could make him a character where in people dont point out his flaws more than his positives. Right now, his immature acts are over shadowing his other character aspects. I am sorry, I hope no one is offended by my post.

Originally posted by: edwebllalover9

i agree with u,today me too felt bad for aliya.but that behavious expect from zain.i feel that in upcoming epi when zain will be realise what aliya doing for him may be he will be more sensative and mature for her.i want him to fell for her first.