Is it just me..or ? - Page 4

i thought he was a jerk today in the bedroom scene >< I agree it was nice to see them together in a somewhat romantic setting and what not but what he was doing to Aaliya... that wasn't cool

She so obviously was not comfortable and didn't want this, but he kept pursuing it. And what he said after he pulled away when she was slightly accepting his advances was a total jerk move and extremely inconsiderate.

I don't care if they're technically married, if someone doesn't want such advances, it's a no. and to insult her like that? When she was convincing herself to be okay with a situation she was obviously not comfortable with, you go and insult her? That wasn't cool Zain. I agree with your post. I do hope he becomes a bit more considerate towards Aaliya.

One thing i have to say though is that he's not completely insensitive towards her. He did after all protect her at the party.

That was very humilating and hurtful dialogue but isn't Zain all about same. We have beginning to ponder in other topic of yours the reason behind softening up of Zain abit and I had even asked cvs to show proper reason how he mellowed down within a day but now we know it was not his sensitivity towards Aaliya but towards blouse fiasco which earned her so much humilation from everyone for mistake of Zain, it was his guilt maybe which made Zain side with her and we assumed that as mellowing down. This was same Zain who is immature, do not think before speaking or reacting and is always in opportunity to hurt Aaliya, to degrade her. For Aaliya and everyone SR might be one of the most beautiful experience of being married but for Zain, it could be just another night of making out. The man doesn't understand and respect the intitution of marriage so we cannot expect him about anything related to marriage.

Yes, Zain should be sensitive towards Aaliya but I think its too early now and would appear paced up. This process should be slow and gradual considering how much venom is there in Zain's mind for Aaliya and how Suriyya just keep feeding him more. I feel bad for Aaliya, she is head strong and knows how to fight back but for how long, she'll have a saturation point somewhere. Zain has always made her feel like a piece of thrash, she may not show but deep within all the feelings of being unwanted might have taken place. Thats why I want Zain to fall in love first and make Aaliya fall for him, he should mend for all the times he has hurt her, insulted her and only then they proceed further in relationship.

Great Post.
To be honest, I kind of agree with you. Especially the bit where a girl remembers her suhaag raat for the rest of her life and Zain should be a bit more mature.

I felt bad when zain said dat me aise waise cheezo ke muh nhi Lagta .. Dat was a bit over done ..!!

Hi Unnati,

I do second you completely. Yes, we somehow write and think similar..Zain acts Wierd! He's behaving like a 5 year old for whom focuss is all about winning or proving what the other thinks is wrong! While he knows she's much able, I think he feels he can make her weak is using awkwardness. Hence he's trying to touch her, caress her, try all the Suhag raat nonsense to just prove his Point!

Long way zayin Abdullah, you really have to go long way. Though monentarily, it looks bad I fee it's important to show character growth for zaiba when he realises what's Aliya for him..

Till then, we need to put up with their fights falls and again punches.

i agree wit u totally... i felt bad for Aaliya! ... actually that dialogue was very distasteful...

Zain's pranks are always like that if u see... it hits Aaliya on her heart... Aaliya gives it back... but she does not hit Zain on his heart with her fights or pranks... it just hits his mind...thats their difference currently...

i feel Zain cannot connect to anyone... he is good at heart n loves his family... but somehow he fails to conbect to someone emotionally n realize what others must be feeling or going through...

the day things start hitting on his heart, Zain changes completely... that growth of his character should be slow n sensible...

Also, i feel the day she breaks down completely his heart starts beating for her n he will think whst he has done to her...

Originally posted by: Taniya20

i agree wit u totally... i felt bad for Aaliya! ... actually that dialogue was very distasteful...

Zain's pranks are always like that if u see... it hits Aaliya on her heart... Aaliya gives it back... but she does not hit Zain on his heart with her fights or pranks... it just hits his mind...thats their difference currently...

i feel Zain cannot connect to anyone... he is good at heart n loves his family... but somehow he fails to conbect to someone emotionally n realize what others must be feeling or going through...

the day things start hitting on his heart, Zain changes completely... that growth of his character should be slow n sensible...

Also, i feel the day she breaks down completely his heart starts beating for her n he will think whst he has done to her...

Originally posted by: SunShine_A

That was very humilating and hurtful dialogue but isn't Zain all about same. We have beginning to ponder in other topic of yours the reason behind softening up of Zain abit and I had even asked cvs to show proper reason how he mellowed down within a day but now we know it was not his sensitivity towards Aaliya but towards blouse fiasco which earned her so much humilation from everyone for mistake of Zain, it was his guilt maybe which made Zain side with her and we assumed that as mellowing down. This was same Zain who is immature, do not think before speaking or reacting and is always in opportunity to hurt Aaliya, to degrade her. For Aaliya and everyone SR might be one of the most beautiful experience of being married but for Zain, it could be just another night of making out. The man doesn't understand and respect the intitution of marriage so we cannot expect him about anything related to marriage.

Yes, Zain should be sensitive towards Aaliya but I think its too early now and would appear paced up. This process should be slow and gradual considering how much venom is there in Zain's mind for Aaliya and how Suriyya just keep feeding him more. I feel bad for Aaliya, she is head strong and knows how to fight back but for how long, she'll have a saturation point somewhere. Zain has always made her feel like a piece of thrash, she may not show but deep within all the feelings of being unwanted might have taken place. Thats why I want Zain to fall in love first and make Aaliya fall for him, he should mend for all the times he has hurt her, insulted her and only then they proceed further in relationship.