What's your Beintehaa story ? - Page 3

Originally posted by: * Unnati *

I get you exactly !😆 Gosh it's crazy..

I've tried that to..infact took a whole year to ponder upon all the bad, crappy, weak points..

but it's kinda like the brain stops functioning, when the heart begins to! lol

Nothing works ya..haha

Originally posted by: Taniya20

interesting topic...

i had journey from beintehaa pyaar se beintehaa nafrat.. i loved one guy crazily n unconditonally.. he betrayed me n cheated on me n broke my heart badly... it took 6 months for me to forget it n move on... even after he started interfering in my life n tried to take out the peace out of my life...ofcourse i gave him the ultimatum...but i hate him like anything now... 😡 ... now i cant believe i once loved that guy crazily... 😆

Originally posted by: spicySugar..

*sigh*
Something we all can relate to 😆
I bitched about him to my friend, just to make it all go away! Talking about stuff does help. I keep assuring her that I am all moved on but it just doesn't go away...

Originally posted by: xxAqeelahxx

I've had a feeling for my cousin like ages back since childhood but times have changed he's changed so nothing that sort now but i still care for him but i'd prefer to stay far i don't want to get close and then make it harder for myself being nicey nicey lol

and this guy that used to walk in street me and my other cuz used to watch him walk around street from her bedroom window and scream loool 🤣 but that was crush i don't do stupid things like that anymore

but i think the longest that stayed in my head was my cousin

Originally posted by: * Unnati *

LOL!😆 haha!!!

whoever it was to have coined terms like "crush", "infactuation" ,"love" and brought them, into the conscious realm of human minds, must be smacked. Kiddin!😆

I relate this aspect to myself as well..😳 the guy I've been crushing on for soo many years, has also changed. But not sure why ain't I getting a change of heart! lol

So you now don't scream when you see him (😆)..but do you feel the same way when you, come face to face with him Aqeelah ? or is it that his presence doesn't bother you anymore ? just curious.

Originally posted by: * Unnati *

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Wow, that is intense.I think that fits into the "Beinteha" category, butyou probablythink of the word more intensely, which is perfectly fine.It's sad, but also in soo many ways endearing, everytimewhen Ihear stuff aboutpeople, still thinking, loving, feeling or wishing the best for people that were once a part of their romantic lives, or even if they weren't, yet were a part of someone's romantic self.

Because normally, people dislike confronting things or peoplewith whom,it doesn't turn out the way, they would have liked it too. That's when, we paint it up with colors of anger, distress, envy etc. We disguise the pain in those forms. We don't wanna look back & everytime we do cross paths with that person it becomes awkward. But I believe the best way to make peace with ourselves, past & the person we share a "Beinteha" bond with (specially of a romantic one), is just accepting like you said, that, that person is truly someone special, who's memories might never fade. We could yes move on, find love in someone else, but that portion of heart that belongs to that someone special from the past, will always remain safe in the heart, leaving one in peace. lol cause pushing someone out of one's heart, repelling them, is only gonna backfire, flooding us more with the same we're trying to repel. Instead, one has to just let them be inside of us, the way the always have. I liked the fact that you shared this Aly. Thank you ! And this is, in a way Beintehaa !😆

Originally posted by: xxAqeelahxx

You can guess why i watch this show 😆 The guy who i used to scream for was a randomer on a street who knew my cousin (the one i liked) i didn't scream for my cousins

we used to spend time together but then he changed gave importance most to his friends than me and i felt so hurt

I feel a connection somehow like when he';s sat in my house when he comes i just stare at him and my mom even asking me about our wedding but i said no because he i'm sure he's got a gf...

sometimes i feel it bothers me like i come properly dressed up when he comes at other times i can't be asked because he doesn't give a damn

Originally posted by: Aly.101

Haha wow. That was pretty deep and very well said. But I wish I was like the way you described lol. I had my moments of revenge,hatred and what not. I wanted him to break up with his present gf and my ex friend but that didn't really work out. I still regret at times not forgiving him because I wonder what would've happened if I didn't. He was never the one to let go. He made a mistake. We all do but idk at that time cheating was unacceptable to me. I just never could find anyone like him again. I got into another relationship after 3 years but that too ended up as a disaster(no cheating though thankfully lol)

Only a lucky few receive the amount of love they give.