What's your Beintehaa story ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Since nearly all of us,like this show and the concept of beintehaa/boundless love & hate, I'm curious if anyone has ever experienced something of that sort, in their lives ?

Have you ever boundlessly hated or loved someone ? It could be anyone. Needn't just be in the romantic get up or centered around a romantic partner, per say. Could be an annoying guy or girl in your college, a nagging teacher, an enemy, or some guy who's got his head in the wrong place, when he interacts with you 😆 so much so that, despite, you despising or loathing that person, he/she somehow manages to occupy a lot of space in you mind ?
Same, when coming to love.. have you ever loved someone, as feverishly and passionately ?😳 or ever crushed on someone to such a point ?😆
Like in my life, I think I've experienced the beintehaa feeling with just one person, I know I'd feverishly crushed on.lol. He was my first crush. It's been nine years now and people have come & gone, but that person's still on my mind, sticking on like a chewing gum, in bits and pieces. Like, when you try ripping the gum off ,of what to it's sticking to, there always are a few bits that get smudged onto it, that either are there to stay or leave a stain at most! Lol
I consider that Beintehaa craziness from my part !😆 wish I could help it!
Anddd, I'm curious to know, if anyone else has had such Beintehaa moments of love or hate or care and concern in your life, for anyone you know ! Do share!😳
p.s - The first person that pops up into your mind, when you think of the word "Beintehaa" is the one, you share a Beintehaa bond with! 😆 (of any kind be it!)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Like yourself, i've had a crush on a boy from primary school now thats a long time! But he is in love with another girl.

Mine is no longer crush but its love cuz i accepted the fact that he'll never be mine and he'll be happy with the other girl
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Thank you for making this post 🤗
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^^ You're welcome !🤗
And oh, that's the same with me. That's the same case with me lol
Just don't wanna term it love, cause it's sad when you don't get the person you love. But yeah, that's a beautiful form of love ain't it ?
And actually, the biggest..when you are to let go in love..cos, that's selfless.
You're amazing..! ;)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ohk i do hate someone and i like someone.
ok hate!! yess my cousin. he is irritating person i have ever come along! i really hate him. he is a playboy , most proud person on earth, most irritating person, and he always criticize me!! pride and prejudice words suit him!! he thinks i am bhenji kind of girl! becx i am not that social as he is or had any bf!! oh plzz and i am comfortable talking in my own lang! ferangi!! and he take me as immature girl and naive ! uhh i hate him!!😡

And like yes its been year that i am liking this guy!! its too much. i try myself to prove that its just infatuation. but my friend told me once that if you like some for more than 3 months its not a crush. i know i know hes good looking thats why i like him and try myslef not to like him and prove myself there are many good looking guy and find another crush or something cux hes engaged! and there many good looking guys and good guys find someone else. but i just can't get over with him. hes just a normal person but i don't know what is in him makes me feel stupid. like i shiver when hes around and i try my best not think of him so it has worked till now. i am not thinking of him that much and me wanting to see him. but after that i can't like someone!! i just can't!!


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Originally posted by: natasha995

ohk i do hate someone and i like someone.

ok hate!! yess my cousin. he is irritating person i have ever come along! i really hate him. he is a playboy , most proud person on earth, most irritating person, and he always criticize me!! pride and prejudice words suit him!! he thinks i am bhenji kind of girl! becx i am not that social as he is or had any bf!! oh plzz and i am comfortable talking in my own lang! ferangi!! and he take me as immature girl and naive ! uhh i hate him!!😡

And like yes its been year that i am liking this guy!! its too much. i try myself to prove that its just infatuation. but my friend told me once that if you like some for more than 3 months its not a crush. i know i know hes good looking thats why i like him and try myslef not to like him and prove myself there are many good looking guy and find another crush or something cux hes engaged! and there many good looking guys and good guys find someone else. but i just can't get over with him. hes just a normal person but i don't know what is in him makes me feel stupid. like i shiver when hes around and i try my best not think of him so it has worked till now. i am not thinking of him that much and me wanting to see him. but after that i can't like someone!! i just can't!!


awww Natasha ! That was soo cute to read ! I know lol that happens so much. The latter part which you talked about, the person you like so much..yes isn't it strange ? sometimes, when we know we can't get something or someone, that is when we desire or want it the most. The urge to have that person increases, whereas in reality, those are the kind of people we know, we need to let go off, objectively speaking. Lol But honestly, I haven't been able to myself, so who am I to say that ? haha
I don't even know if the Beintehaa kind of a love or hate, or stuff that comes inbetween, exists in people these days and in these times, but yeah I'm getting to realise they do. In some form or the other, emotions that have no bounds or limits, do exist..in the form of letting go, sacrificing, obsessing or some way or the other.
Lol your first para, I know! Such people can be annoying haha..but don't let him affect you lol tell him off if he annoys you again. But that's a nice example of beintehaa dislike or despise for someone. I'm yet to experience that with anyone, but we're obviously better off not being on the other end of the scale.
Thanks for sharing your Beintehaa experience! 🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
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awww Natasha ! That was soo cute to read ! I know lol that happens so much. The latter part which you talked about, the person you like so much..yes isn't it strange ? sometimes, when we know we can't get something or someone, that is when we desire or want it the most. The urge to have that person increases, whereas in reality, those are the kind of people we know, we need to let go off, objectively speaking. Lol But honestly, I haven't able to myself, so who am I to say that ? haha
I don't even know if the Beintehaa kind of a love or hate, or stuff that comes inbetween, exists in people these days and in these times, but yeah I'm getting to realise they do. In some form or the other, boundless emotions do exist..in the form of letting go, sacrificing or obsessing, some way or the other.
Lol your first para, I know! Such people can be annoying haha..but don't let him affect you lol tell him off if he annoys you again. But that's a nice example of beintehaa dislike or despise for someone. I'm yet to experience that with anyone, but we're obviously better off not being on the other end of the scale.
Thanks for sharing your Beintehaa experience! 🤗


aww thankyou for liking my experience. my beintehaa experience. yes emotions do exist. yes i do ignore my cousin but at times if need any help i do help him soo i do hate him the way he is but still hes my cousin!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: * Unnati *

^^ You're welcome !🤗

And oh, that's the same with me. That's the same case with me lol


Just don't wanna term it love, cause it's sad when you don't get the person you love. But yeah, that's a beautiful form of love ain't it?


And actually, the biggest..when you are to let go in love..cos, that's selfless.


You're amazing..! ;)



Awwrr!! Why thank you! And You're just as amazing 🤗

I agree with everything you said. It definitely is heartbreaking cuz he knew how much i fancied him yet he ignored me but would only talk to me when he was on bad terms with his gf and i felt that was just wrong, it made me feel like his "side chick" eventhough i've spoken to him only a couple of times and that too for a short while.

Everyday i try to get over him but even by hearing his name all those feelings come back. Sometimes i wish for the man of my dreams to love me beintehaan. Hahaha cheesy but its the truth! 😆


And i've never had beintehaan hatred for anyone but yes i do dislike this person who i've met this year. At first i thought hes a decent guy - didnt find him attractive so i knew i would not have feelings for him and i started confiding him but as it turns out he was just being fake all along and i felt betrayed but whats worse is his attitude towards everything i say. He tries to outsmart me in everything. Which i can tell you is sooo irritating.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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My bestiest friend pepever. Ive known him since we were 5. We fight like cats n dogs, worse then ben n jerry, he annoys me so much we both make fun of each other. I love him im not sure if its that way or not but all i know is we both wouldnt be happy if the other person isnt around!
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Awwrr!! Why thank you! And You're just as amazing 🤗

I agree with everything you said. It definitely is heartbreaking cuz he knew how much i fancied him yet he ignored me but would only talk to me when he was on bad terms with his gf and i felt that was just wrong, it made me feel like his "side chick" eventhough i've spoken to him only a couple of times and that too for a short while.

Everyday i try to get over him but even by hearing his name all those feelings come back. Sometimes i wish for the man of my dreams to love me beintehaan. Hahaha cheesy but its the truth! 😆


And i've never had beintehaan hatred for anyone but yes i do dislike this person who i've met this year. At first i thought hes a decent guy - didnt find him attractive so i knew i would not have feelings for him and i started confiding him but as it turns out he was just being fake all along and i felt betrayed but whats worse is his attitude towards everything i say. He tries to outsmart me in everything. Which i can tell you is sooo irritating.

Lana Xx

He knew it ? well, that's heartbreaking, yes. I mean this guy I've had a crush on, or maybe unconsciously was in love with, I know him quite well, but never gathered the courage to tell him the same, fearing the worst. i.e if he'd know my state and neither can do anything about it.
I think it's still as painful, when the guy doesn't have a clue. I don't know which is more painful.
But yeah, that's how life is. Fictions are beautiful to watch, cause even though things go wrong
in there, there's always the happy endings.lol But that's okay lol we shall find some sort of soothing in fictions till we meet the ones that love us Beintehaa ! lol I truly believe in that. I'm sure everyone gets allotted someone who loves them Beintehaa, before we're put into this world ..😆 I sound so silly right now..but I'm not givin that thought up !! 😆
yeah me too..not hated anyone really..a really strong word that.
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