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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: crazee.larki
My bestiest friend pepever. Ive known him since we were 5. We fight like cats n dogs, worse then ben n jerry, he annoys me so much we both make fun of each other. I love him im not sure if its that way or not but all i know is we both wouldnt be happy if the other person isnt around!

Lol ! That's cute !😆 I've always wished I had the Tom & Jerry kinda rapport with someone. Aaliya & Zain share chemistry similar to that!

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Aly.101

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I think beinteha is too strong of a word to fit any maniac in my life 😆

But there was this one guy. He was a friend at first and we dated for 3 years and then he cheated on me with a friend of mine. I broke up with him when I found out but he begged me for months to take him back. I didn't though. He moved on after a year or so and life became hell for me. It took me 3 further years to move on from him. I stopped talking to guys altogether. He was always there on my mind. I guess my first true love if that's a word. Its been 5 years now since we broke up,but I will never feel for anyone the way I felt for him. I've moved on but he will always be my best memory.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

a few years ago.. i had a huge crush on this guy.. he's the first to come to my mind when i hear the word beintehaa... but now i've gotten over but he still has a special spot in my heart 😊

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Aly.101
I think beinteha is too strong of a word to fit any maniac in my life 😆

But there was this one guy. He was a friend at first and we dated for 3 years and then he cheated on me with a friend of mine. I broke up with him when I found out but he begged me for months to take him back. I didn't though. He moved on after a year or so and life became hell for me. It took me 3 further years to move on from him. I stopped talking to guys altogether. He was always there on my mind. I guess my first true love if that's a word. Its been 5 years now since we broke up,but I will never feel for anyone the way I felt for him. I've moved on but he will always be my best memory.

Wow, that is intense. I think that fits into the "Beinteha" category, but you probably think of the word more intensely, which is perfectly fine. It's sad, but also in soo many ways endearing, everytime when I hear stuff about people, still thinking, loving, feeling or wishing the best for people that were once a part of their romantic lives, or even if they weren't, yet were a part of someone's romantic self.

Because normally, people dislike confronting things or people with whom, it doesn't turn out the way, they would have liked it too. That's when, we paint it up with colors of anger, distress, envy etc. We disguise the pain in those forms. We don't wanna look back & everytime we do cross paths with that person it becomes awkward. But I believe the best way to make peace with ourselves, past & the person we share a "Beinteha" bond with (specially of a romantic one), is just accepting like you said, that, that person is truly someone special, who's memories might never fade. We could yes move on, find love in someone else, but that portion of heart that belongs to that someone special from the past, will always remain safe in the heart, leaving one in peace. lol cause pushing someone out of one's heart, repelling them, is only gonna backfire, flooding us more with the same we're trying to repel. Instead, one has to just let them be inside of us, the way the always have. I liked the fact that you shared this Aly. Thank you ! And this is, in a way Beintehaa !😆

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Wahian4lyf
a few years ago.. i had a huge crush on this guy.. he's the first to come to my mind when i hear the word beintehaa... but now i've gotten over but he still has a special spot in my heart 😊

So endearing everytime I hear such stuff! ❤️ i.e someone who unconditionally holds a special spot, in someone's heart.

Thanks for sharing! 😳

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I've been crushing on and hating the same person for...8 years now 😆

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: spicySugar..
I've been crushing on and hating the same person for...8 years now 😆

Crushing and hating, simultaneously ?! so it's a love-hate kinda thing, minus the love..that's interesting!😆

It happens rarely I guess, that we hate the same person, we crush on. It usually happens when

the attraction levels are real high! 😳😆 haha

8 years is long btw, wow..so it automatically earns it's way into the

Beintehaaish mode ! ❤️

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sourmisery

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: * Unnati *

Crushing and hating, simultaneously ?! so it's a love-hate kinda thing, minus the love..that's interesting!😆

It happens rarely I guess, that we hate the same person, we crush on. It usually happens when

we're attracted levels are real high! 😳😆 haha

8 years is long, wow..so it automatically earns it's way into the

Beintehaaish mode ! ❤️

It's crazy! Well, the "hate" came in later..kind of like a defense mode from my side to stop that ridiculous crush on him! God! He ain't even worth it! But gadha dil..skips a beat from time to time 😆

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Taniya20

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Posted: 11 years ago

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interesting topic...

i had journey from beintehaa pyaar se beintehaa nafrat.. i loved one guy crazily n unconditonally.. he betrayed me n cheated on me n broke my heart badly... it took 6 months for me to forget it n move on... even after he started interfering in my life n tried to take out the peace out of my life...ofcourse i gave him the ultimatum...but i hate him like anything now... 😡 ... now i cant believe i once loved that guy crazily... 😆

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: spicySugar..

It's crazy! Well, the "hate" came in later..kind of like a defense mode from my side to stop that ridiculous crush on him! God! He ain't even worth it! But gadha dil..skips a beat from time to time 😆

I get you exactly !😆 Gosh it's crazy..

I've tried that to..infact took a whole year to ponder upon all the bad, crappy, weak points..

but it's kinda like the brain stops functioning, when the heart begins to! lol

Nothing works ya..haha