What's your Beintehaa story ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: crazee.larki

Honestly its amazing to have such kind of friend, cause u constantly have someone to annoy, fight with and you know no matter what they will be by urside. I see ppl writing about their behintehaa nafraat. well i am gonna share mine too.

i started dating a guy around 2 and half years ago. my bestfriend and i were in a fight when i started dating him because his ex created misunderstandings between us, so eventually my bestfriend and i cleared up our misunderstandings but then my boyfriend started having issues with my bestfriend and those two ended up in a fight. I sided with my boyfriend (worst thing i have prolly done) and stopped talking to my bestfriend because when his girlfriend created misunderstandings between us he was on his girlfriends side so i guess i took my revenge.

I thought lost my bestfriend ever, because my exboyfriend wouldn't let me talk to him or chill with him. my relationship with my ex boyfriend for 1 year 10 months. in those 1 year 10 months, my ex cheated on me 3 times, and i caught him all three times, he owes me $5000 (we live in canada), and he started swearing at my family, and he started hitting me after i told him i don't wanna be with him anymore.

the first time he hit me i stayed quiet and the 2nd time i hit him back and then jumped out of his driving car cuz i was scared he was going to crash the car. i was standing on the busiest highway, with just my phone and my wallet, (taxis aren't allowed on the highway) on the other side of toronto) when i messaged my bestfriend. even though i didn't speak to him in over a year, he came right away and drove me home. he was mad at me so he didn't talk to me but atleast now i know no matter what never to give up on my bestfriend. and then after i told him everything that happened, i realized no matter how much we fight he will always be my side and support me. Despite all the craziness my ex boyfriend does to get me back, i know my bestfriend is the reason why i am still standing strong.

so my ex boyfriend is my beintehaa nafraat story!

Originally posted by: --epiPhobia--

I met this guy over FB ages ago...and then we got really close since we literally chatted all the time non-stop for about 3 years...and then he wanted to meet up and i was not too sure...and then there was issues in my life so we stooped chatting.

after i stopped chatting to him i missed him so much and just couldnt handle it so started to chat again and thats when i realised i love him and since other guys came in my life too but i refused as i couldnt get him out of my head..and that it was not infatuation

i hope to get him back in my life as i really love him but dont know if it will happen...cause i wont be able to forget him.

Originally posted by: Mahiii

Yes... I have Beintehaa level of Hate and Love ...

Firstly there was this guy in my office whom i had hated so much that if given a chance to kill someone, i wouldnt have hesitated a bit to kill him... Dont ask me why ... but he was cheap and disgusting... I have cried enough... This was although past... I do not wish to hate anybody... At present i am glad that there is no person to hate...

Beintehaa love has always been my first love my boyfriend... who will be my life partner too...Our journey started with a friendship and then we became best friends...Aur fir pyar toh hona hi tha...We both have loved eachother immensely since 7 years now... Our bond is very strong... he is my support my guide my best friend... Everything! 😳☺️

Hell ! Seven years of togetherness, that too not by marriage, but togetherness in a relationship, without any break ups? that is awesomeness! what a strong bond would that be ya ! shucks..mujhe kyun nahi milta aisa koi ?!😕😆😆 I find it so endearing when two people progress into falling in love with each other, after they started their bond from friendship ! 've a personal experience, cos my crush was my friend first..so I'm a bit biased towards that concept!😆

Originally posted by: * Unnati *

Hell ! Seven years of togetherness, that too not by marriage, but togetherness in a relationship, without any break ups? that is awesomeness! 😳 what a strong bond would that be ya ! shucks..mujhe kyun nahi milta aisa koi ?!😕😆😆 I find it so endearing when two people progress into falling in love with each other, after they started their bond from friendship ! 've a personal experience, cos my crush was my friend first..so I'm a bit biased towards that concept!😳😆

Beintehaa love and nafrat does exist in today's world too. wow !

I'm even surprised, so many of you've responded so positively to this topic, sharing your precious beintehaa experiences!

Originally posted by: * Unnati *

Wow. That was such an interesting read, but I can't begin to think just how complicated it could have been for you to live it out 😳 I mean, seriously the best friend vs boyfriend scenario, whenever that crops out is a sad one.. Especially if the BF is worth all the commitment the girl shows to him.

You are so lucky to have a person like your best friend, in your life. I mean, I found that so cute and endearing when, despite all that happened, he came right away to pick you up from the highway. So that shows, that people might come and go in both of your lives, but you guys share an unconditional, beintehaa bond of care and concern for each other. 😳 Haww, I've always wanted a friend and a friendship like that! You're so lucky!

Plus your ex-BF was such a creep ! He cheated on you & especially tried to physically abuse you. I wish you'd have filed a report against him for doing that ! I'm sure the law there is a lot better & stricter. What a pain must he have been..great, you've called it off with him. Yep, that's beintehaa nafrat like you said and that, he brought upon himself.

p.s - I hope your bestie and you are talking well again now ? 😳

Originally posted by: Mahiii

Thank you my dear...It always takes 2 people to make a relationship stronger... Touchwood his support has been immense and more than anything his love has been immense... So there's nothing and absolutely nothing for us to fight or get separated... He has got such a clean heart! I can trust him for my life! And i mean it cos i know him that well...

About my hatred thing i couldnt open up anywhere but ur post made me do it...Honestly even i was surprised by this post cos people responded to it so well.. something that u dont expect... But sometimes its better to open heart in front of strangers...You will let ur heart out easily... its so nice.. you dont know people here... you are safe and yet you have expressed... Not a Bad deal you see! 😉

Originally posted by: Butterfly003

I can totally understand you!!
9years :O Wow! You're a strong girl I should say😆

I had/still have a crush on a guy at university and no matter how much I say I'm over him now, every little thing happens which would remind me of him.
The day I learned he has a GF I said I'll stop 'loving' him... (I don't know if love is the appropriate word.)
But no matter how hard I try to forget about him, I can't forget everything. There's still something which would never leave...

I guess this is my story! Crazy story I'd say too! :P😆

Coming to family (Beintehaa love)- I love my family a lot and can do anything for 'em and also my pets. I adore them and love them more than I love my life. <3


Beintehaa nafrat- No such feelings. Yeah I do dislike some people but hating causes so much negativity inside one person and I don't want to have negative vibes due to such people.
(I hope I won't have to hate someone to such an extent- like,Beintehaa extent. )