Sorry but I feel Hiten is too Rude... - Page 6

Originally posted by: _angel_

oh god guys, can we pls stop it, stop this attacking, bashing and sarcastic comments and get back to our lovely and friendly way that we used to be pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee guys.....all that we are watching is not real but reel (I HOPE)

*Viewbie Note*

This thread has become very sore and members are requested to put forth their points of view in a civil and polite manner without getting personal against other forum members and making personal attacks.

Every one is entitled to their point of view but at the same time everyone has to be mindful of how it is put across.

The DM-Santu and Hiten-Khemi scenarios have be discussed, analysed and countered from every which way and angle. It seems the writers have achieved what they set out to do and that is to keep the viewers on edge. They had to create this drama to keep the story moving forward. If Khemi quietly got married to Shambhu and Hiten moved back to his life in the haveli, neither Hiten nor Khemi would much scope to take their character forward. Maybe the writers deem it necessary to create a rift between the sisters and also keep DM and Hiten at opposite ends of the spectrum.

All members are requested to take a step back and see what comes out of the raaz related to Taru's past. Both DM and Hiten worshipped Subhadra in their own way and it is most likely that both these men are going to be shattered when the raaz comes out. And, with the raaz coming out, the maasi-bhanja scenario may also be resolved.

This thread is being left open for now. However, if the soreness continues here or in any of the other threads, they will be locked.

Originally posted by: tvrasika

Mods,

Please do something and restrain this person Payal from getting personal and attacking members and being sarcastic. There is a big majority here that enjoys Bandini as a story, a fictional account. Those who do not, are free to start their own website or blog or whatever and air their views. I find Payal's views extremely aggressive and offensive. Please moderators, kindly do something. She is making it difficult for others to take part.

In an earlier post, this person suggests that the character of DM would have married 13-yr old Moongi if that suited him. Is that not an accusation of paedophilia? How can such an accusation be made about a TV show played by professionals, and watched by families across India? Is this responsible viewership?

No one from Bandini ever said this show is about reforming society. There are shows on other channels which make that claim explicitly. Bandini does not.

We all have some characters we like in a story, and some we do not. But that does not mean we can insult the characters we do not like. If we only had characters we like, a show will have just 3 or 4 actors.

If we cannot judge fairly, we should not air our views. Just accept our biased view and keep it to ourselves. We all have a right to our opinion, but none of us have a right to infringe on other people's sensibilities and hurt, upset and threaten and make a public forum like IF an unwelcome space. Payal is in serious danger of doing that.

Originally posted by: Opti

That is your view which many of us here do not share. I would say most characters in the show have shown different digrees of selfishness. DM is selfish too which is why he married Santu in the first place (in to ensure that his business does not suffer. Did he bother about how his children would take it? He tried to stash away his new bride and hoped after he ties the knot, the girl would just be banished into oblivion and he does not have to face the consequences). No wonder Hiten does not miss an opportunity to rub it in to DM. Of course he understands Santu's plight. Was he not one of the first to point it out to his father that he has married a naive girl who is young enough to be his daughter, only for his selfish purposes? Why was he rude to Santo then? Because she was being interfering and preventing him from telling his father the truth about him and Khemi. She was trying to play mother to him which he does not like or care. She was telling him what he has to do which obviously he did not like.

As to falling at his father's feet, Hiten is not the character to fall at anyone's feet if he is not convinced that he is wrong. As far as he is concerned he has done no wrong in loving Khemi or wanting to marry him. He has an ego as big as his father. His father treated Santo so badly so many times. Did we see him apologise directly for all of them when he realised his mistake?

Yes, Hiten is rough in his dealings with people but he is also a guy who has a sensitive heart. He cares a lot for his father and has defended him in the presence of his father's enemies. But this is his life and he does not want anyone (including his father) to interfere with that. Why did he wait for so long? Yes, this was a mistake. He should have confessed his love earlier and not wait for Khemi to confess first but better late than never.

As to this marriage, if Khemi marries Shambu, three lives would be affected. I think 'honour' an take a back seat when so many lives are at stake. Shambu himself is not willing for this alliance, knowing about Khiten.

As to stupidity, Hiten is not the only stupid one in the show. I think all the adults in the show have acted stupidly at some point or other (except may be Champakali).

Originally posted by: rakun 4eva

i agree hiten is very rude especially towards his father nd also khemi is very selfish i think santu is diong right by stoppin her