Re: Anandi has two set of rules

When Anandi stops nimbuli from going to jhalra. I would like nimbuli to ask her why are you stopping me when you are sitting in your own bal sasural. You were treated so badly by this dokri and her ladeswar but now they are goddess n God for you and you comfortably stays with them saying this is your maika. You have lost me and I was raised in jhalra. Kundan Ji is bad to me disa is no one to me but like you I will reform Kundan Ji n make disa my dadisa n jhalra my maika so chill maa I am following your footsteps like you I will only come to see you on your death bed.
When dadisa n Jagya talks about legal rights to mangla mangla should ask on what legal rights you request Anandi to stay in this house. On what social ties you are clinging to her. So i am following your footsteps all her life I willl cling to nimbuli like dadisa and Kundan can have number of wives but nimbuli will always be at his service and friends forever like Jaan.
Badi haveli people n Anandi are hypocrit n double standard people they should first apply rules to themselves n then preach others. Anandi is bh s servant all her life so let her not give artificial lectures.

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Anandi was not kidnapped by Bhairon Singh and was married off to his son.

I agree. Anandi has double standards and practices hypocrisy.

People say the serial is against bal vivah but they show A getting everything thru Bal Vivah, that means they are supporting Bal Vivah

I disagee, the serial showed Bal Vivah is wrong. Thru A and others they showed how it effected Anandi and and others and took away every thing from her.

But they also showed this system is prevailing mostly because those people are ignorant, illiterate.

Thru Singhs, Anandi's parents they showed they did this Bal Vivah because they were ignorant. But they are not evil . When they realised how it effected the kids they they done everything to compensate as much as they can.

It has been clearly showed the system is bad. But what Singhs are doing for Anandi is because they are actually good human beings.

So there is no relation between what Bal Vivah took away from her and what she got from Singhs

That evil system took away everything from her

But the people are good who did that because of their ignorance realized that and proved that they are actually good at heart.

That means if parents marry their child, it is acceptable. But if the child is kidnapped and married then it is not??

Originally posted by: Shinya

That means if parents marry their child, it is acceptable. But if the child is kidnapped and married then it is not??

The emotional bond formation with the child husband and his family will be accepted and approved only if the child was married off by parents, but if such a bond is formed in a kidnapped-child-marriage, then the emotional bond is invalid? 😕

Emotions are emotions, they dont care about how the marriage happened... why should nimboli be deprived of her love for her husband's family?

why are her feelings for her teesa or kamli less important than her mother's feelings for sugna or dadisa ?

Well said.

Originally posted by: hisusmita

People say the serial is against bal vivah but they show A getting everything thru Bal Vivah, that means they are supporting Bal Vivah

I disagee, the serial showed Bal Vivah is wrong. Thru A and others they showed how it effected Anandi and and others and took away every thing from her.

But they also showed this system is prevailing mostly because those people are ignorant, illiterate.

Thru Singhs, Anandi's parents they showed they did this Bal Vivah because they were ignorant. But they are not evil . When they realised how it effected the kids they they done everything to compensate as much as they can.

It has been clearly showed the system is bad. But what Singhs are doing for Anandi is because they are actually good human beings.

So there is no relation between what Bal Vivah took away from her and what she got from Singhs

That evil system took away everything from her

But the people are good who did that because of their ignorance realized that and proved that they are actually good at heart.

They failed to show that bal vivah is wrong through Anandi's story. She gained so much from that relationship that she is sticking with only her balak var and his family. Every other relationships are forgotten. What she lost in bal vivah was just some unfortunate events that women face even if they marry after attaining legal age of marriage (education is not complete till 18 and mostly girls stop education even if they marry at 18, household work, cheating and abandoned bride none is a bad effect of bal vivah).

Anandi's Balak Var even in his worst form was nothing like Kundan.The first and foremost thing.