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Posted: 9 years ago
#81
If Anandi would rather have her daughter hate her then why hiding the truth till now and watch both of her kids suffer? So, the only thing which can force her to make a move is to see her daughter as a child bride of Kundan? Which is really horrible but is Nimboli's current despair, suffering, living with no identity, guilt that all bad things happen because of her, putting up with Shivam's anger and insults not knowing the cause of it any better ? Suffering and growing hatred between her own children are not enough for her to finally disclose the truth?
But then ,throwing Mangala in jail, just like that, it means Anandi again does not consider her daughter's feelings.Just like she did with Urmi. She fulfills her goal without even asking the victims how they feel about it.
Btw one horrible thought constantly cross my mind . What if Shivam and Nimboli are fourteen or 15-year-olds( in fact they are not really not much younger) so instead of hatred some teenage infatuation happens? What would she do then? Still crying in front of Shiv's photo? Still waiting for the right time ?


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Posted: 9 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: Stephi


Btw one horrible thought constantly cross my mind . What if Shivam and Nimboli are fourteen or 15-year-olds( in fact they are not really not much younger) so instead of hatred some teenage infatuation happens? What would she do then? Still crying in front of Shiv's photo? Still waiting for the right time ?


@bold yes she will be still crying in front of shiv's photo and torturing his soul What else she can do? Btw it was such pathetic scene when she was crying in front of shiv's photo saying to him our both kids hate each other i wanted shiv's ghost to appear from somewhere ask from Anandi do our kids even know they are related with each other ? which mahurat are you waiting to tell the truth to kids?

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Posted: 9 years ago
#83
Which mother wants her daughter calling her chudail and another lady as mother?
Anandi is only buying time and let Nimboli adjust to her and the new environment. It's taking too long but she has to wait because it's about undoing the whole twelve years. Can't be done overnight.

Moreover that young mind has been through hell. Much more hell than Anandi can imagine. Actually still going through torture and poisoning due to Mangala. And this abuse is totally hidden from everyone.

She is on a path to correct her child's life and there's no way she is allowing her to go through the same horrid path again. Mangala mah not have a problem with it because that's the limit to her thoughts. Nimboli may not have objection but she's a child. Anandi has to take control and if need be she will take legal help and police help. She helps lots of girls so how will she see her own daughter suffering?
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Posted: 9 years ago
#84
Wow nice way to adjust Nimboli in the new environment Making her constantly face insults by her own brother who has these issues who is this girl? why she is given the place which belongs to his sister ? The girl is carving for her identity and each day suffering because of having no identity of her own and Anandi is waiting so that Nimboli can adjust in this new environment ? Anandi is so called undoing Nimboli's past suffering by making her suffer more ? What a nice strategy Kudos 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nimboli's current sufferings even if she doesn't get to know that she is Nandini are far less than what she went through under the watchful eye of the greatest mother on earth Mangala.
Only problem is that Shivam is acting out of insecurity.All he needs is an assurance from his mother that nothing would diminish her love for him and he will be fine and he will put up with the girl,

So even as an orphan she has a better life with Anandi.

Identity as Kundan's beendini and Mangala's daughter didn't do her any good.

She calls Shivam Shivam Bhaiji so it is clear that she considers him as brother.

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With Anandi even if the girl is really an orphan with the kid of life Anandi is giving her she will be able to carve her own identity. Here the child is Anandi's daughter and she is already getting everything and her knowing that she is the daughter is only matter of time

So the child as long as she is with Anandi she has a much better future and if she doesn't have an identity because she indeed is an orphan even then a much better life.

For Mangala child marriage is nothing.If Kundan pretends to have changed she would happily make the child Kundan's beendini again and will close her ears to all the screams that come out of Kundan and his Beendin's room night after night telling herself that she has given a safe future to her chhori.😛

Anandi would rather have the child hate her and refuse to accept her as a mother than see the child go through all this as a child bride of Kundan.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja


@bold is correct.

Not all NGOs get government grants. Government gives grants to NGOs for specific projects - no NGO gets continuous grants and no NGO gets 100% grants for any project. NGOs have to be working in the specific fields for a few years before they become eligible to be considered for Government grants. There is mid term evaluation of the project and also when the project completes - there is another evaluation.

and i think Anandi's NGO also gets funds from government for specific projects only and here she is helped by Jagya Remember she came to him in his hospital with the project file and he went to CM to have a meeting with him on it Other than that the NGO is financed by Singhs because Dadisaa is the chief administrative of NGO or may be she uses Shiv's share from shekhar's property too With Khajan's property she can do nothing because Khajan was a poor man He cannot afford these expensive budgets Anandi has never earned a single penny of her own This is Singhs and Shekhars property and for Jagya gets Government funds assigned to her
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sibling rivalry is any day a healthier thing than locking up in dark rooms without food.
Only difference is she doesn't know it's her brother. But she will soon. Doesn't mean after that she won't have any fights with her brother.

Identity suffering can wait no problems. There's other things to get corrected here first of all to throw the unwanted weed Mangala from her life that's poisoning her young mind
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Posted: 9 years ago
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How Nimboli's this suffering is far less ?The emotional torture Nimboli is going through is no less Just because she gets expensive frocks to wear , gets toys and is not asked to clean the house , wash clothes etc does not mean she is living a happy life now Having no identity of your own and constantly been questioned on that is no less suffering She is crying even now where she is happy and satisfied ?
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Posted: 9 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: SPuja


@bold is correct.

Not all NGOs get government grants. Government gives grants to NGOs for specific projects - no NGO gets continuous grants and no NGO gets 100% grants for any project. NGOs have to be working in the specific fields for a few years before they become eligible to be considered for Government grants. There is mid term evaluation of the project and also when the project completes - there is another evaluation.


Thank you. Just now read some information regarding NGO funding by government. It says

In order to be eligible for assistance, a Voluntary Organization should have been registered for a period of at least two years and should have been actively working in its sector for a period of two years.The NGO would be required to maintain its level of contribution at least at the level of expenses that were being incurred by it before assistance from the Ministry commenced. It would be expected to raise resources through donations from general public, business houses etc. beyond initial requirement contributed by itself so that the activities of the project become self sustainable and grants from the Ministry can be tapered off through a cut of around 15% every year after the first five years. The Ministry would release grant in aid for a project at a particular location for a maximum period of 10 years.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Actually, very few projects get 10 years funding. It is mostly target based - and for a few years only.

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