Re: Anandi s third marraige

First Previous

Page

Next Last

Poll

Will Dr Anant and Anandi marriage happen ?

Frequent Posters

aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Missesha
No sorry - may be the message didn't come across clear. Rather sometimes in an extended discussion we end up discussion on some points leaving out others. So this is what I see of Anandi post Shiv.
Her current career is nowhere termed as success. I doubt if SN generates any disposable income for Anandi. Financial funding is very necessary especially if you have two kids to raise. The funds left by Shiv and Daddu will not last forever in this fast paced economy.

But I wonder if Anandi ever wonders about her finances like most single mothers would do.

Her decision to come back to BH and stay there forever makes her failure.

She always and regularly needs Dsa's shoulder and protection. She cant manage even simple problems of hers.

Both her kids and the lives they are living - the less said about that the better. Poor parenting is reflected.

Is Anandi living this kind of life due to fate or due to poor decision making? Except for Shiv's death, every mess in her life, post Shiv, is her own creation.

She really can't control her life. Having a partner might help. Even if she doesn't remarry it's ok... but it is proven that she can't live her day to day without Dsa and Jagya's protection and now Anant's while all the others can manage themselves without Anandi

Income is obviously coming from what her husband and Shekhars have given her.

She is running an NGO for her own satisfaction which gives her a platform to do what she really wants to do withe her life.

Why CVs don't bring in tracks to show that aspect is another issue altogether.

A woman who knows how to raise money for her organisation build an organisation and manage an organisation will she not know how to handle her personal finances?

What was the reason for her staying on there in BH for 11 years? Is it because she wanted to stay on or is it because of Dsa?Weren't there conversations between Anandi and Dsa about how Anandi wanted to leave and how Dsa would bring in Daddu's name and make her stay on?

Anandi is someone who married a man just to fulfill a promise made to her mothe, and the kidn of person who let go of education as a child just to keep a promise made to Dsa.How different is her staying on in BH for the sake of Daddu and Dsa?

It is her character trait.She is weak before her loved ones.

Handling brutes like Akheraj is not everyone can do but she doesn't fear those brutes.She doesn't fear death while standing up for what she believes in and not many people are capable of it.

She can face bullets but she can't bear the thought of hurting the feelings of her loved ones. So why should she be criticised for that?

Quote

libsrocks

@libsrocks

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#32

I don't support Anandi's third marriage because:

1) I'm done with remarriages of BV! Marriage is not the solution of all problems! Marriage might give Anandi some guidance to make sensible decisions but it certainly won't make teach her to make her own sensible decisions! So what happens when Anant dies or leaves? Back to square one for Anandi? How many Jagya(s), Shiv(s) and Anant(s) will BV need to make Anandi sensible enough to take her own decisions

2)This will encourage BV to go on and on with same repetitive story!

3) BV will again start saas-bahu drama or stupid household problems like they did with Shekhars! Third marriage won't force the writers to try something new! Only husband changes, not the story writer! While Anandi might not have done a great job when it comes to handling Nandini but she still made much better progress in her life as a single mother than she did as a wife and bahu! There she had a NGO, IAS husband and freedom but still got stuck in house drama! Here at least she does something in her professional life! Anandi is a type of character than shines only when she is single! She became a sarpanch and helped Singh in managing their hospital when Jagya left her and now she has become a principle of her own school, opened a successful NGO and seems to have a good career when she became a widow!

4) Deep within my heart, i'm a biased fan of Shiv!

I don't mind Singhs and Jagya in Anandi's life! I rather mind the absence of other relatives (specially Shekhars)! Not only does it look insensible, it also promotes Bal Vivah in it's own twisted way!

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

1013962

Suspended

Posted: 9 years ago

#33

Anandi now has Dadisa shoulder to cry. But how long. So she will need one shoulder. And Anantji suit the bill. No hangups.

He is better than shiv - he is a perfect cook and manage home alone. Good spouse for working woman with no family. So Anandi can do her work.

He has kids so he will help Anandi to manage Nandini and Shivam.

He is well off - so no problem with money.

He has a chilly job and being jagya the boss he can have felxible work timing. He does not have the pressure of a thankless job of an IAS officer. So they can spent quality time.

Anandi cannot be the right example of an empowered woman. That way Bimla was better off.

Wished Anant would have been a IPS who could have helped Aji to fight Akhi and we could have taken his heroism.

Quote

aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#34

It is obvious that they wanted to show a single woman/mother with a supportive family.leading a fairly successful life.They wanted to show how a single mother can rebuild her life with the help of a family which is supportive.

For CVs of BV it is all about Anandi and Singhs.

Dsa and J are more like representatives of Shekhar family now rather than the family that had come to her thanks to child marriage.They are actually playing the role that should have been played by Shekhar family The role that Jagya is playing in Anandi's life is more like a role Mahi would have played in Anandi's life in the absence of Shiv.

They wanted Singhs to take over the role of Shekhars in Anandi's life.

There is a reason why they used Daddu the head of Shekhar family to make this move acceptable,

If Shekhars had been there the story would have been the same stale story of saas and widowed bahu.With Anandi sifting to Jaitser they had a fresh story to tell through the exes who became friends who stand by each other no matter what and share a relationship where there are no expectations but only giving what they can to the relationship.

Anandi summarised her relationship with Jagya very beautifully.They have forgotten the fact that they have been married to each other once upon a time over the years the bitterness gave way to a deep friendship based on mutual respect trust and understanding.They will go to any extent to help each other and will stand by each other.

They wanted to show rehabilitation of an abandoned Balika Vadhu and they have chosen Dsa and Singhs tor that story and completely sidelined Khazan and Bhago.

Khazan and Bhago also would have done what Singhs have done for Anandi.They may not have been well off like Singhs but they have learnt their lesson and would have ensured that Anandi attained her full potential with the help of Sandhya teacher. Had Anandi gone back to Bilaria she would have ended up as Sarpanch of Bilaria and Shiv would have gone there instead of Jaitser and who knows instead of Dsa Bhago would have manipulated Anandi into meeting Shiv.😛😆

Quote

Vidya

@Shinya

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#35

I dont think CVs wanted to show anything of that sort... this is not an educational program nor is it conveying right social message.

This show has been running for over 7 yrs, not because of social message. But because of the spice and twists they add from time to time.

Quote

Vidya

@Shinya

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: fast trak
It is so wrong if Anandi loves dadisa as her own and needs her help emotionally. Anandi has lost her husband and her inlaws are away. She has found her lost child but equal to not found her yet. Such a turbulence in her life but she can't have dadisa to hug. It is termed as ex Sasural.
If dadisa and Jagya Ganga are okay with it I wonder why others are bothered so much. I don't see anyone in BH bothered about Anandi staying there. In fact none of them will let her go. Is it because Jagya still looks at her as his ex wife or is it because Ganga loves to see an ex of her husband living there.
BH is based in jaitsar which is a small conservative village but it has shown progressive thinking so why can't viewers? Where are they showing Anandi and Jagya sharing romantic feelings for each other? Both have moved on ages ago but viewers haven't 😆

Moral of the story is anandi constantly needs moral support. Without the support, she is a big zero.

Anant can definitely fill up this position in her life... There is no need for them to get married. And as I wrote when he was just introduced, he is brought in as her companion... This is becoming very clear to all now.

Edited by Shinya - 9 years ago

Quote

SPuja

@SPuja

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Shinya
I dont think CVs wanted to show anything of that sort... this is not an educational program nor is it conveying right social message.

This show has been running for over 7 yrs, not because of social message. But because of the spice and twists they add from time to time.

Social message is just a facade - a false aura created by VO and initial articles. There is hardly any social message in what they show. They do take up relevant issues and then make it into usual serial stuff with unbelievable situations and characters.

Quote

libsrocks

@libsrocks

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: Nandini30
Anandi now has Dadisa shoulder to cry. But how long. So she will need one shoulder. And Anantji suit the bill. No hangups.

He is better than shiv - he is a perfect cook and manage home alone. Good spouse for working woman with no family. So Anandi can do her work.

He has kids so he will help Anandi to manage Nandini and Shivam.

He is well off - so no problem with money.

He has a chilly job and being jagya the boss he can have felxible work timing. He does not have the pressure of a thankless job of an IAS officer. So they can spent quality time.

Anandi cannot be the right example of an empowered woman. That way Bimla was better off.

Wished Anant would have been a IPS who could have helped Aji to fight Akhi and we could have taken his heroism.

Just because Anant knows how to cook does not mean he is better than Shiv!
How can you compare a newly introduced character which someone who has shown his worth and goodness at every point of time!
Whatever difference of attitude we see in Anandi today has been there because of Shiv! Shiv made Anandi optimistic towards life and relationships! He gave a rise to her self-esteem! He gave her time to accept the change in her life!
What exactly has Anant done except stupidly follow and praise Anandi? At least Shiv has the sense to use his own brain, concentrate on his own work and guts to call spade a spade! If he thought Anandi was wrong, he would call out to her for that! Not praise her foolishly for nothing! This Anant could not even save Anandi properly! Shiv used his brain and acted smartly!

Edited by libsrocks - 9 years ago

Quote

1013962

Suspended

Posted: 9 years ago

#39

Nowadays single man/woman are looking for relationship off marraige. No marraige but they meet spent time share their problems.

This concept will not be enough for serials. Unless they tie the knot serial is incomplete. Theyeither make love story or devdas story.

Quote

saba113

@saba113

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#40

Lols Jagya Ganga's marriage got complicated it was because of their own problems ?Anandi had nothing to do it ?

Can someone please enlighten what sort of problem Jagya Ganga were having that their marriage got complicated and where these problems which suddenly came up before when Anandi was In udaipur ? The problem was Anandi not anything else and this problem came only with Anandi coming to jaitsar and all the time interfering in Jagya and Ganga's matters , lecturing them every now and then , commenting on their upbringing for their kids , making decisions of their kids without asking them like she did with Mannu in Ratan's case and in home she was lecturing them Ganga was suffocated with Anandi's these kind of acts and she was pouring her frustration on Jagya for which she apologized to him later He was never at fault for this Jagya and Ganga's marriage got complicated due to Anandi suffocating Ganga to the core with her non stop interferences and Jagya bore the burnt of it then how can anyone say it had nothing to do with Anandi?Creatives have never shown any realization on Jagya's part Although Jagya is not Anandi who cvs let go scott free without making realize his mistake but here they did not because he was never at fault and this they made Ganga accept too she was so so wrong to him Ganga is pouring anger of Anandi on Jagya She has shown her irritation so many times at Anandi's bhashans so who is at fault for this ? Anandi who complicated Jagya's marital life by not staying in limits , Dadisaa who keeps comparing Ganga with Anandi and Ganga ( whose character was actually butchered because she is not so dumb ) who was pouring her anger of this on Jagya Ganga was justified in her anger but not justified pouring that on Jagya and hurting him there she became guilty

All someone's self created problems that cvs have never shown and false blames on Jagya have been proved false Let me put down some one's theories here the so called problems that were invented here by someone to cover up Anandi

1. it was said Jagya and Ganga marriage got complicated because of their busy life ? Lols show me in which exactly scene cvs showed that Don't make your own theories but prove them through serial One dialogue , one word , one gesture where cvs actually showed the problem was this ?. Jagya and Ganga are still busy with their lives and living fine so this was never a problem so someone's this theory Failed

2 . A theory was invented Jagya has never moved on from Anandi so the problems are created because of it ? I think same person now accepting Jagya has moved on from Anandi long long ago is itself a proof this theory was wrong

3 Another false theory was invented Jagya was comparing Ganga with Anandi ...It was never shown Another theory failed

so how the problem came Anandi non stop interferences and lectures to Jagya and Ganga Any wife will get suffocated with her husband's ex so much talking in their matters but Ganga was pouring her anger on Jagya which was wrong very wrong However Ganga was not wrong to Anandi

Quote

1 2 3 4 5

Re: Anandi s third marraige - Page 4

Poll

Related Topics

Explore Topics