Re: Anandi s third marraige

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Will Dr Anant and Anandi marriage happen ?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Mangala Nandini relationship was never compared with Ja An it was compared with Singhs and Anandi.

Nandini shares a bond with Kamili Urmi and Mangala if that is respected why is Anandi's relationship with Singhs questioned all the time?

Ja An relationship and Anandi's relationship with Singhs have always been two different entities right from the begining.Ja An friendship has always been much stronger than their marriage.It is their friendship the mutual respect and trust they had for each other has helped them put the painful past behind.

So why does it become a problem if Anandi stays with her Dsa?That house happens to be Dadisa's and not Jagya's in legal terms.

Anandi and her children are not financially dependent on Singhs.

Anandi runs set up her ShivNiketan on her own.Do we see Jagya helping her there?

If Dsa is part of SN that is because she wants to occupy herself make herself useful to the society?

Anandi has an identity of her own now and that is head of her own NGO.

She is not identified as so and so's wife.

Was she ever shown running to Jagya for help in all the episodes post leap?

Only time Jagya was with her all the way was when they were all over the place chasing Mangala.

After that did she ever run to him for help?

When Jagya rang up to tell her that Akheraj escaped from Jail did she call anyone for help? She just rushed to Jhalra to take her daughter away from there.If Anant dicthed his work and accompanied her on his own accord.

Nobody who is sensible rejects a help that comes in their way.

When did she call Jagya? Only when she spotted Akheraj in the rear view mirror.That too because that person is a convict on the run and he needed to be caught by the police.

In what way did Jagya help her?

When he found out that Nimboli is none other than Nandini he was not on Nandini finding mission but he was doing his own work as a people's elected representative.He was trying to help an orphan called Nimboli and Anandi ended up being beneficiary.

Only real help was when he was firmly by her side when they were searching for Mangala.

Other than that Akheraj was a threat to his life and family too and not just Anandi.

In what way did he help her?

Anandi runs an NGO and political establishment does support NGOs.

If at all any support came from Jagya it was as a politician to a social worker.

Did he spend all his time consoling Anandi? Was Anandi weeping and crying for his support?

She was living with Dsa whom she considers as family and J happens to be a family member of Dsa who is also her best friend.

If JG marriage got complicated it was because of their own problems. Anandi had nothing to do with it.

It was them who brought Anandi into the middle of their disagreements to score points with each other.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

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So what if Anandi messes up her life? It is her life.It is between her and her children.

From what we have seen of Shivam does he look like he has lacked for something in her care?

He is quite happy with the way his mother is bringing him up and quite content with what he has in life.

If he is behaving the way he is right now it is not because his mother has stopped caring for him but she is treating some random girl also the same way she treats him.He is quite happy to share all that he has with his sister.

She is quite a good mother takes care of her son very well and at the same time she has an identity of her own.

Her ShivNiketan is also making a name for itself.In fact Nidhi came specifically to SN because SN has been making news.She made a collage of all the news clippings on SN activities.

If that is not a succesful life I don't know what it is.

Yes she lost her daughte and failed to find her but does that take away everything from her?

If Singhs support her it is because they want to be of help to her and support to her.It is their genuine love and affection they feel for her.

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Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: aparnauma
So what if Anandi messes up her life? It is her life.It is between her and her children.
From what we have seen of Shivam does he look like he has lacked for something in her care?
He is quite happy with the way his mother is bringing him up and quite content with what he has in life.
If he is behaving the way he is right now it is not because his mother has stopped caring for him but she is treating some random girl also the same way she treats him.He is quite happy to share all that he has with his sister.
She is quite a good mother takes care of her son very well and at the same time she has an identity of her own.

Her ShivNiketan is also making a name for itself.In fact Nidhi came specifically to SN because SN has been making news.She made a collage of all the news clippings on SN activities.

If that is not a succesful life I don't know what it is.

Yes she lost her daughte and failed to find her but does that take away everything from her?

If Singhs support her it is because they want to be of help to her and support to her.It is their genuine love and affection they feel for her.

Shivam feeling outraged now is also Anandi's failure.

In the past, lot of times Shiv corrected or questioned Anandi's thought process and that stopped Anandi from taking unwanted steps. Before Shiv, Bhairon also questioned Anandi's thought process and that formed a good guide line for Anandi to take decisions.

Now that is being done by dadisa and sometimes jagya.

All this shows Anandi needs support - nothing wrong with it. But at the same time it also shows that Anandi cannot be on her own and cannot control her own life.

It is not just about losing Nandini or not finding her, but it is about foresight.

If she was foresighted, she would questioned herself if it is right to take baby nandini to balvivah venue

if she was foresighted, she would have wondered is it right to live in her ex-husbands house for almost forever? She should think if this will it have any impact on his and hers respective children?

If she was foresighted, Shivam's current pain would be evident to her. And So would be Nandini's future.

But no, she can't process possible implications of her decisions before hand.

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I heavily miss Shiv's presence in Anandi's life. He would have put his foot down by now for various things that Anandi lets lose.

She is just all over the place and has wayward thought process.

I don't care if she doesn't re-marry. But I certainly can't appreciate her current life and it's impact on her loved ones.

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@ bold: It is not ok and not right if Anandi messes her life. Her children are heavily impacted due to that. It is NOT OK in any sense. if she was unable to control that situation, or misjudged, it is pardonable, but not introspecting and sitting on it forever cannot be excused.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

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If Shivam is behaving this way is her failure then what about Mannu's behaviour during that phase? What was the basis for Mannu's irrational behaviour? Wasn't it his parents approach to the problem the main reason?

Ganga and Jagya were the parents and how is that they couldn't handle the problem between the two of them?

What stopped Ganga and Jagya from telling Mannu about Ratan?

Then how is it not being said that they were not in control of their life and their marriage?

Didn't they have problems with Abhi?

Did anyone say that Jagya Ganga were major failures and can['t run their life?

Yes Shivam is currently facing problem but do onnly single parents kids face problems?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Problems come in every parent's life be they single parents or married couple with children.

Sometimes problems with kids are due to circumstances and sometimes because the kids create them and hadled by the parents in a not a very appropriate manner and that is no reason for a single parent to get married again.

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Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Failed parenting is also one of the issues among many in Anandi's messed up life.

Here we are talking about Anandi and Anandi's possible third marriage. Or rather how she couldn't do much for herself.

Don't see why Jagya Ganga's parenting is being brought in. Post leap Anandi's life is more messed up and directly or indirectly, she continues to be the cause of troubles in the life of her loved ones.

Proving JaGan wrong in their parenting strategy doesn't make Anandi's decisions for her kid's lives right.

I never supported JaGan's ways of handling Mannu regarding Ratan singh but that's altogether a seperate issue which has nothing to do how poorly Anandi manages her life.

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jayshree1942

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

I think cvs r not in the mood of mother daughter reunion so to kill time they have brought track of anandi and anant love story.

this track will give them food for atleast 2-3 months. this will increase no of episode.

Well what will be the result of this track, time will tell that.

And yes i think now jagya and ganga dont have there own story. they r lost somewhere and there children also. CVS have kept there character for namesake.

Overdose of Anandi , mangala and nimboli. Need some fresh air

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Jagya Ganga parenting has been brought out simply to illustrate that Anandi is not the sole person who is facing parenting problems.

For that matter Nidhi was a problem child to her parents so is Pooja to her mother.

Having parenting problems doesn't necessarily mean that one is a failure in life.

Jagya Ganga prenting problems were brought out because it is being said that Anandi needs to get married because she can't handle her children and her single status is being given as a reason.😛

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Fully agreed, they do not have any more strength to drag Mangala s story, Akhiraj hot and miss. If Akhiraj gets caught it is end of AKHI. and they have to think about new concepts.

So to bring in some curosity they will put controversial scenes of Dr A and Ms A, so people gets curiosity. And if this brings them trp they will drag with Shivam behaving like Nandu, Nimbuli supporting CC and CD. Mangala insticating shivam your mother has forgotten you and her new found interest is Nimbuli and Dr A.

In between Pushpa can come in and add fuel to the fire. There may be a sekhar 2 family I do not know Anant s surname, with another Sanchi.

And another maha vivah chance to pull trps. Badi Haveli people can be used in this track. And finally Anant can shift to BH because both the staff quarters are very small.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Nidhi when she first came in she was an underaged kid who used to resort to boozing to escape from problems.

If Nidhi is a well behaved kid today it is all thanks to Anandi's supportive care combined with stern no nonsense handling by her.Because Anandi made it clear that if she stays in her institution under her care and protection booze will not be allowed.

But Anandi will be criticised for being harsh to Nidhi when all the time it was because of Anandi's no nonsense attitude that helped her.

People blame Anandi for Pooja's fate when Pooja had always been under her mother's care and came to Anandi's school as a day scholar but why such reluctance to give credit to Anandi for the way how Nidhi turned out to be? Didn't she chose to stay in Anandi's institution over her parents abode?

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