Re: Anandi s third marraige

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Will Dr Anant and Anandi marriage happen ?

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Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#21

No no... she should get married because she needs support anyways... and instead of taking support from her ex always for herself or her children, let her spare him and move on with someone else or learn to control her own life.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#22

What may come Anandi even after ten marraiges cannot be free from ex husband and ex in law pull. BH and Jagya is the back bone of BV. If they have plans for Anandi separated from Jagya, then Shakti Anand would not have come.

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Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#23

It's a bad message in that case.

A woman living her life only with the help of her exsasural overlooking every other relationship is not a great message.

There is no reason to keep interlinking Anandi and Jagya so closely. It doesn't even create drama points.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#24

First Anandi is termed as failure - when it is pointed out that she has a successful career in her chosen field and has an identity of her own then it is said that she is a failure as a parent.

She lost her child she couldn't find her child but that does happen to many parents in real world too but they are not called as failures.

Jagya found her child while he was going about doing his own work

The child whom she is raising looks up to her for all his needs because she is there for him as a parent and he doesn't look upto Dsa or J for his needs although he loves them as a family so where is the question of failure as a parent?

Is Anandi asking for help or it it coming to her out of it's own free will?

When did she ever run to Jagya with her problems?

Why only Anandi? Didn't much in love married couple need family support at times like when their under aged kid eloped with another under aged kid?

Is there anyone in the world who doesn't need support from family and friends?

Didn't Jagya go to SN to have a talk with Anandi when he was worried about Mannu?Did he go to her because she was his ex wife or did he go there because she is his friend from childhood?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#25

Well the tagline of the show itself is Kacchi umar ki pakke rishte😛

Obviously the only rishte that can be pakki in Kacchi umar is friendship and family relationships and not marital relationships.The marital relationship broke because it is an unnatural relationship at that age the other relationships between Anandi and Jagya as well as Anandi and Singhs survived because kids of that age only understand two relationships friendship .

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Vidya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#26

Jagya visiting SN once in a while to discuss a nagging problem is same as anandi living permanently in BH ?

Without crying over dadisa's shoulder, she cannot end her day and she cannot start her day without taking anant's help, be it driving her car or getting psychologist for her daughter.

What has she done on her own? Ok, she started her school Even there she took dadisa's help.

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Vidya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#27

Whether she remarries or not, she certainly needs a constant shoulder to cry upon, which of course anant can lend her.

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fast trak

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Posted: 9 years ago

#28

It is so wrong if Anandi loves dadisa as her own and needs her help emotionally. Anandi has lost her husband and her inlaws are away. She has found her lost child but equal to not found her yet. Such a turbulence in her life but she can't have dadisa to hug. It is termed as ex Sasural.

If dadisa and Jagya Ganga are okay with it I wonder why others are bothered so much. I don't see anyone in BH bothered about Anandi staying there. In fact none of them will let her go. Is it because Jagya still looks at her as his ex wife or is it because Ganga loves to see an ex of her husband living there.

BH is based in jaitsar which is a small conservative village but it has shown progressive thinking so why can't viewers? Where are they showing Anandi and Jagya sharing romantic feelings for each other? Both have moved on ages ago but viewers haven't 😆

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Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: aparnauma
First Anandi is termed as failure - when it is pointed out that she has a successful career in her chosen field and has an identity of her own then it is said that she is a failure as a parent.
She lost her child she couldn't find her child but that does happen to many parents in real world too but they are not called as failures.
Jagya found her child while he was going about doing his own work

The child whom she is raising looks up to her for all his needs because she is there for him as a parent and he doesn't look upto Dsa or J for his needs although he loves them as a family so where is the question of failure as a parent?

Is Anandi asking for help or it it coming to her out of it's own free will?

When did she ever run to Jagya with her problems?

Why only Anandi? Didn't much in love married couple need family support at times like when their under aged kid eloped with another under aged kid?

Is there anyone in the world who doesn't need support from family and friends?

Didn't Jagya go to SN to have a talk with Anandi when he was worried about Mannu?Did he go to her because she was his ex wife or did he go there because she is his friend from childhood?

No sorry - may be the message didn't come across clear. Rather sometimes in an extended discussion we end up discussion on some points leaving out others. So this is what I see of Anandi post Shiv.

Her current career is nowhere termed as success. I doubt if SN generates any disposable income for Anandi. Financial funding is very necessary especially if you have two kids to raise. The funds left by Shiv and Daddu will not last forever in this fast paced economy.

But I wonder if Anandi ever wonders about her finances like most single mothers would do.

Her decision to come back to BH and stay there forever makes her failure.

She always and regularly needs Dsa's shoulder and protection. She cant manage even simple problems of hers.

Both her kids and the lives they are living - the less said about that the better. Poor parenting is reflected.

Is Anandi living this kind of life due to fate or due to poor decision making? Except for Shiv's death, every mess in her life, post Shiv, is her own creation.

She really can't control her life. Having a partner might help. Even if she doesn't remarry it's ok... but it is proven that she can't live her day to day without Dsa and Jagya's protection and now Anant's while all the others can manage themselves without Anandi

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Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: fast trak
It is so wrong if Anandi loves dadisa as her own and needs her help emotionally. Anandi has lost her husband and her inlaws are away. She has found her lost child but equal to not found her yet. Such a turbulence in her life but she can't have dadisa to hug. It is termed as ex Sasural.
If dadisa and Jagya Ganga are okay with it I wonder why others are bothered so much. I don't see anyone in BH bothered about Anandi staying there. In fact none of them will let her go. Is it because Jagya still looks at her as his ex wife or is it because Ganga loves to see an ex of her husband living there.
BH is based in jaitsar which is a small conservative village but it has shown progressive thinking so why can't viewers? Where are they showing Anandi and Jagya sharing romantic feelings for each other? Both have moved on ages ago but viewers haven't 😆

Simple... why does a woman need a constant shoulder to cry in if she is so empowered.

And if indeed she needs one, what's wrong with third marriage?