Why doesn't she admit it was her mistake

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Till now I've never seen Anandi admit it was her fault because of which she lost a precious thing her daughter.

In yesterday's precap also, Anandi said to Jagya 'what wrong my daughter has done that Devi Maa is giving her such a big punishment?' Really!? How Devi Maa is responsible for all that happened to your daughter? Why blame god instead of realizing the mistakes you have done?

She took her sick baby to a dangerous place, couldn't wait for the police, simply didn't listen to their advice and stood near the firing. She ran into an unknown place and finally lost her daughter. Since 12 years there was no active search to find her and now Devi Maa is responsible for all this. Why!?...because she got to know about Nandini without any effort of hers?

Did she realize it was her mistake? or she realized but doesn't want to admit!?




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree. She should have said 'Nandini suffered a lot because of my mistake only.' or request 'Devi Maa punish me for my mistake but don't let my daughter suffer.'
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Posted: 10 years ago
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During Jyoti child marriage Shiv scolded her for being foolish & irresponsible. But Anandi never agreed that she shouldn't have done like that. Instead she kept arguing with him rudely supporting her foolish act.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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She already accepted that she is responsible for what happened on that day.

When Alok Ira Meenu where scolding her she did say that she is not angry with them becaise it was her fault and she lost the baby.

Everyone including Daddu Khazan SIngh and Dsa held her responsible for that she accepted it is her fault.

She holds herself responsible for Nandini's kidnap.She admitted it is her fault that she took the baby there.

But the only thing she will not accept is it is not wrong on her part to go and stop a child marriage and she did no wrong in wanting to help a woman save her daughter.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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If Anandi accepted her fault years ago, it was all because everyone repeatedly and logically pointed out that it's her fault. Of course, she can't deny the fact that she was plain foolish and irresponsible towards the little girl.

If she had not taken ownership of her act, the people who were angry with her would be more angry with her for all valid reasons which a person like Anandi who WANTS to be good books of everyone can't afford!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: divyababu

If Anandi accepted her fault years ago, it was all because everyone repeatedly and logically pointed out that it's her fault. Of course, she can't deny the fact that she was plain foolish and irresponsible towards the little girl.

If she had not taken ownership of her act, the people who were angry with her would be more angry with her for all valid reasons which a person like Anandi who WANTS to be good books of everyone can't afford!



Exactly. She accepted because everyone was angry with her and pointed out that it was her fault NOT because she realized it was her mistake. Had she, there would have been an active search for Nandini instead of some meaningless work in name of social service from ex-sasural. Pooja's child marriage was stopped thanks to police but Nandini became a child bride. It was like pulling a hand out of fire and putting another into it or damage more than that.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes anandi herself wanted to be kidnapp her daughter by akhiraj .please anandi accept ur mistake .please tell ur daughter when u will meet her that i take u wedding venue intensinally so that akhiraj can snactch u away from me. and give u miserable life ..it is my conspirancy to take u to wedding .i want u get rid of u that is why take u to wedding venue
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Stalwart.




Exactly. She accepted because everyone was angry with her and pointed out that it was her fault NOT because she realized it was her mistake. Had she, there would have been an active search for Nandini instead of some meaningless work in name of social service from ex-sasural. Pooja's child marriage was stopped thanks to police but Nandini became a child bride. It was like pulling a hand out of fire and putting another into it or damage more than that.

thing is Aji never realized that she can ever do any mistake & wenever she apologizes it was never genuinely bcoz she has the tendency 2 "know-it-all" and "i-m-always-rite" thing.she always apologized either 2 make oders agreed 2 her points or 2 remain in their gud books,
all the oder females in BV wenever did/does mistakes they apologize genuinely & try 2 rectify their mistakes but not Aji.she never has the thots that she cud b wrong in her approach & its not essential shes rite.
and now shes worrying abt her daughter wen shes safe wid the woman who she knows luvs her a lot & won't let her any harm.but wen akhi kidnapped N she spent 12 yrs sitting coolly at BH & getting involved in oders maters widout asking them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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thank god anandi does not have kerosene oil that wedding time otherwise anandi would have herself put kerosene oil on nandini ,devi maa should save nandini from dangerous mother like anandi
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Posted: 10 years ago
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enough now admit mistake admit mistake,. past is past ,now think of future.
all committed mistake in past, dadisa jagya everyone but now all got clean chit so why anandi is still targeted .

and yes anandi is fool to help pooja but she is foolish that is why still she is helping kamli mangala ,otherwise she can tell jagya bhad mein jaye mangala and kamli , just think how can we get nandini.

But i think now anandi has to be like this only, just get back daughter and fly to singapure with both the kinds. Bhad mein jaye Rajasthan and Balvivah. she has spend her half life for educating people against balvivah now she should think of herself.

and now i will say once she get her daughter she should teach them - no need to bother for others, just forget India and country people and there problem , think of yourself , we have enough money to live lavish and stylish life. no more ghagara choli . wahi sadi hui life , wahi balvivah . lets go abroad , no need to waste time over here. i was foolish who spend my life here, but now u should not follow my footstep.

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