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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lols why to use the helicopter Use the car Drop the child at home then go to stop child marriage I believe Hindu marriages all rituals take time to be performed if marriage would have happened could be annulled later but if Anandi would have dropped the baby at home then go Today nandini would be with her Or even there if she would have followed what the cop told her Stay away from the area since she has a baby with her even that would have saved her daughter but no why she will do that She will first be careless then blame devi maa but yes if anyone else would have been there in place of Anandi then Anandi would have given him./her a bhashan on his/ her carelessness 😛This is how the great inspirational character Anandi is Never look into own mistakes but be the first one to blame others even when they don't any mistake still she finds it important to blame them you did not handle the situation rightly
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Without Sumi and Bhairon's support Anandi's life in BH would have been a little better than what Nandini had been leading in Akheraj's house.
As for without Singhs's support she would have found things difficult just like Nandini is finding life difficult in Akheraj's place.
But lack of support and lack of education did it stop Nandini from saying and doing what she felt is right?

But it is not correct to say without Singhs she is nothing. If Singhs kicked her out when their son dumpd his wife she would have gone back to her parents place and would have started doing what she had been doing in Jaitser. People keep forgetting the fact that there has been Sandhya teacher and also her parents despite being poor and iliiterate they love her a lot they would have been standing firmly with her.She would have made Bilaria Bilaria district and Shivraj Shekhar would have come to Bilaria instead of Jaitser.Like Shiv admitted he fell in love with her the first time he saw her.Anandi and Shiv would have met.😛😆


Anandi's mind was shaped by her parents' loving upbringing and her teacher. In case she was married into some other family and they kicked her out or got another beendini she would have come back home and would have stand up on her two feet with the help of her parents and teacher.

Sumi and Bhairon supported her because they thought she is doing right things and not because she was their daughter in law.

Good things will always get support from people if Sumi and Bhairon were not there some progressive minded villagers would have supported her social work.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dadisa is a millstone around anandi's neck? How ? since when ?
As per what is shown in the show, anandi is what she is because of dadisa... how else would she get shiv as a husband ? How would she start her shiv niketan ?

Calling dadisa and teesa a millstone is being ungrateful to their kindness.

I never feel proud of dadisa. To me she is nothing less than a criminal . But she is/was not a millstone around anandi's neck.

Coming to mangala, I know that people want her to get away from anandi's daughter's life... what surprises me is how people can not acknowledge someone's kindness? All that they see is why she could not do this and not do that ??

Anandi is lucky that she will get to see her daughter alive.
Edited by Shinya - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Singhs's support did not make Anandi what she is. It is she who made her life what it is with her own decisions and hard work.

There is a vast difference in saying that she is nothing without Singh's support and saying she should have found the going difficult without Singh's suppport

She didn't start school in Jaitser because she had Singh's support. She did it despite opposition from Dsa She didn't take on Heth Singh because of Singh's support. She took on Heth Singh despite Dsa's opposition.

Anandi's personal life was screwed up by two people. But when it came to standing up for what is right she did it no matter whether she had help and support.

If she saw something wrong happening she didn't sit and wait for that person's Paap ka gadaa to fill up nor did she wait for support nor did she use some mask she did what ever she could using her own means right from the time she was barely literate teenager.

She did not become Sarpanch because she was BH beendini. The villagers liked her dedication and work done for betterment of the village and that is the reason she became Sarpanch.Shiv met her much before he met Dsa and even without Dsa's help Shiv would have found ways to meet her and married her.

He hinself said he came up with a lot of excuses to meet her.So even without Dsa and Singhs he would have married her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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...anandi's own life was a hard drive as far as her loneliness is concerned...dadisaa's help came when jagya deserted her for gauri...so anandi deserves our sympothies.
now nandini of the same nature is unaware of her own true situation...mangla has to realise that she cant hide herself with nandini while harki is also after her... now little girlN decides in favour of A as her mother and she is not deserted by her mother is the reality she has to know... lets see what cv's are upto
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Singhs support did not make Anandi what she is today ? it was she who made her own life with her hard work🤣
Singhs made her stand up in life otherwise she would be nothing today They gave her all moral , emotional , even financial support for her maqsads In her own father's house she would not be even educated because like someone has said Khajan would have got her married anyway and all inlaws would be not like Singhs who would be standing as strong pillar of support all her life Bhairon and Sumi Gehna were standing with her since childhood Later Dadisaa too joined and till now is with her Whenever Anandi felt lost , weak and down in her life Singhs supported her and made her strong enough to move on in life so don't discredit Singhs by saying they did not make Anandi
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dadisaa's support came later but what about Mr Bhairon Dharmveer Singh and his wife Sumitra who never did so much for their own daughter sugna how much they supported Anandi ?what did Bhairon and Sumi do for their daughter when Dadisaa was making her life a hell after she became widow but for Anandi Bhairon was ready to leave the house because Dadisaa tried to marry Jagya to Gauri ?and Dadisaa for such a long time has been standing with her This family has done more Anandi jaap than cared for their own children so at least don't discredit for what they did for Anandi Anandi would be nothing without them
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi would have found things difficult without Singhs it is NOT correct to say that she is nothing without them.
Khazan Singh is no Akheraj Singh. Khazan Singh wanted to take his daughter back after Jagya dumped her.

She would have been what she is with the help of her parents and her teacher if she left BH with her parents.When Jagya dumped her her parents realised their mistake in doing child marriage. So they would have done what Singhs have done for her. Khazan Singh may not be rich but he loved his daughter.She woul have gotten herself educated and become sarpanch of Bilaria.

It would have been difficult .A person has to have abilities.WITHOUT ABILITIES SUPPORT IS USELESS.Anandi had abilities and capabilities.If Anandi is a duffer or content being illiterate woman doing cooking sharing her husband with sauten happy being used and abused by the men of the house and happy with saris and jewellry no amount of support would have made life different for her.

A person with abilities will make it with or without support. Wise person accepts the support that he or she gets. Anandi didn't ask for support it came her way because she was right in doing what she was doing.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes Mangala will make Nandini a beggar , she will keep Nandini at mercy of others but what to do poor woman is not rich like Anandi and Anandi's all richness not one single penny she earned all her life because her all work 😛All Singhs and Shekhars property if Mangala would be so lucky to have Singhs like sasural cum maika and Shekhars like second sasural then even she could give Nandini same what Anandi can give
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Posted: 10 years ago
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People can keep shouting writing in caps , in bold , pink green blue whatever
Serial only Anandi fankas have not seen we too have seen and Anandi herself has accepted many times how lucky she has been to have Singhs in her life Even when she heard Ganga's story she has said how much lucky she has been . Anandi herself accepts this so no point of arguing Anandi has made no life of her without Singhs They have been always with her and no amount lame excuses can prove Anandi did everything on her own

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