Will you accept it?! DT NOTE PG 8 - Page 4

Originally posted by: Shinya

red - that was the case in her first 2 marriages, out of which one was a child marriage. In the second, she got unnecessarily involved in family matters rather than continuing her social work... Her in-laws would not have gone against her had she chosen to be a career woman... But it was her choice to prove as an ideal bahu. She wasted her time behind sanchi, then finding shiv's real mother, then dadibua, and so on. She alone is responsible if she put her own life on the back seat.

The same may not happen with anant. Here, he is not required to give her strength. She is already strong. I dont find her lost also. She is very confident and carries herself well.

This marriage will be for companionship and to share good moments with each, where both will have equal status. She will not be the housewife and he will not be the bread winner. They will have one purpose before them to serve the society and to find her daughter.

Originally posted by: hisusmita

But same DS told something different to Anandi after Shiv's demise

Originally posted by: anshurg5

@ Shinya,

When Shiv came in her life he too was alone but as soon as marriage fixed his whole family appeared. Same can happen with Anant . If there will be a marriage , his family will also appear from no where who might have been driven away by his wife but whom Anandi will accept with open arms.

With Shiv too her marriage was looking like a marriage of equals at first. What could have been better than union of a collector and a sarpunch while both were committed to the betterment of society. We all expected to see there growth in their carriers while cooperating each other. But for Anandi there was no growth rather she went back from being sarpunch to a wife who did not even have her own household to govern. Her 'Bhaili' never looked her fore most propriety.

So do not have much hopes from CVs for an equal marriage for Anandi.

I do not expect Anandi thinking of marriage when her daughter is still missing. Once Nandini is found and Anandi and Anant spend few years working for the benefit of their place ,knowing each other while doing that . Then if they think that it will be better that they convert their friendship into marriage, I will not mind .

At the mature age of 40s and when both of them are already settled in their life ( Anant too is now settling to his liking ) I do not think they are in need of taking any decision regarding marriage in hurry. They can well afford time to know their own mind and of course each other.

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Btw I do not think that Hiten is here for a long time so CVs might be planning to use his presence for a short track. Once track finishes, Anant may get a job in any other hospital which might be in dire need of his services. 😉

Originally posted by: Missesha

There was a scene I cleary remember. Just before Shiv's death, AnSh were celebrating a romantic evening where they suggested names for their babies Shivam and Nandini.

At that time in one of their converstation Shiv said ' aur humare dono bachhe' . Anandi corrected him saying 'dono nahi teeno bache'

Shiv was embarrased and hit on his head apologising that he forgot Amol.

At the point it was evident that for Shiv this adoption was more for Anandi's happiness over his own. He was over the moon when he figured out A's pregnancy but not exactly that excited on receiving Amol.

He took a good care of Amol as a father. Loved him too - but yes adopting Amol was Anandi's desire which happened at a cost of Shiv's dream.

Nothing wrong if two people can adjust to one another's choice and live happily.

But instances like Shiv waiting for Anandi to come out of Jagya phase despite of enough courtship time, or accepting an adopted baby etc reflected that AnSh was not a marriage between two equals.

Shiv gave more and in return he got Anandi - which is all he wanted.