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Will you accept if, by some chance, Anandi remarries Anant?

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Rashmi

@goofyCat

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#11

I definitely don't want Anandi getting married for the THIRD time. Anandi is not an object of experimentation who will have all possible kind of marriages in the world, one child marriage, one young age marriage, and one old age marriage!!

CVs have already made a joke of her life by killing Shiv, snatching Nandini and every other relation and her own home from her. Now after 11 years she has created her own small world in which she is finding solace. Don't want to see that breaking too.

More ever, I don't feel only a husband is needed for emotional support and strength. Support can be found from other relations too, like a brother or a friend.

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

I don't think anyone is saying that companionship will fill the void of motherhood. These are two different things

Anandi has to find her daughter regardless of whether she finds a companion or not.

But while she is still holding the sorrows of losing her daughter and also doesn't have anyone to share her internal mind (not J or Ds), and if she comes across someone who sort of gives her a strength, motivates her and share her sorrows, what's wrong?

Why should a woman who once had a happy marriage cannot find a company or support in another man? By that standard, even she should not have accepted any support from J for all these many years.

J was her friend, a father-like figure to Shivam for 11 odd years and even today if she was in real trouble she would contact J (and Ds) to help her out. If that doesn't make Anandi weak, then why would being Anant's friend make her weak?

With J things were a little different: One - he always knew about past and present of A's life, Two - J was her ex so there was no question of going back to him and she loved Shiv and Three - there was no vacancy

With Anant things are different: He doesn't know anything about A's life so they can be companion / friends to begin with. There is vacancy so later on, things may or may not materialise. However if it materialises, it doesn't mean she did not love Shiv.

Her finding a company or not has got nothing to do with her missing / not missing her daughter. She can find a companion in Anant before finding Nandini or even after finding Nandini. Motherhood and companionship are not parallels.

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: russhmeSS
I definitely don't want Anandi getting married for the THIRD time. Anandi is not an object of experimentation who will have all possible kind of marriages in the world, one child marriage, one young age marriage, and one old age marriage!!

CVs have already made a joke of her life by killing Shiv, snatching Nandini and every other relation and her own home from her. Now after 11 years she has created her own small world in which she is finding solace. Don't want to see that breaking too.

More ever, I don't feel only a husband is needed for emotional support and strength. Support can be found from other relations too, like a brother or a friend.

Cvs have indeed made a joke of Anandi's life, but it is not a mandate that a woman cannot marry for the third time.

She can find a companion and stop at it, or marry him, or just mind her own life as it is right now. Everything is fine for me but it has be her choice.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Singhs have filled the place of her mother father as well as Shekhars minus Shiv.

Yes she contacts them if she needs help and mostly it has been about her work.

She doesn't go to them also if she is in need of emotional support.

Only when they get to know that she is down and needs some morale booster that they console her.

They know her and understand her well enough.

Even when Nandini was kidnapped she was at her lowest at that time she didn't call them to share that news.

Dsa called her as a routine paractice and that's when Anandi told her about kidnap and also it was Jagya who called her to express his support.

Even then when she had a request for him it was asking him to help Sarita.

When her nature is such that why would she share anything with anyone?

It is not in her nature to share her pain with anyone.She never did that till Shiv came along and she never did that after Shiv left.

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The need right now for her is her daughter.

At present she doesn't want anything other than her children with her.

She doesn't feel the need for a companion or the need to look for a support has never been part of her nature.Support is something she accepts but doesn't go around looking for it.

There are people who don't go around looking for support it is their inherent nature.

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1013962

Suspended

Posted: 10 years ago

#15

It is not necessary that just because my husband has died I will need to marry bcz I need companionship. Leave shiv apart anandi is contended in her own world. Nandini s loss cannot be compensated by any new companion. And Dr Anant he is always blaming Pushpa for his broken marriage he is always look how sad my marriage was. Now he is too much of anandi Ji n thank you. It is third time he is cribbing about his marriage and expressing his obligation to anandi Ji. Yesterday I found pushing into anandi s life to find his next wife. He could have easily asked Jagan to allow nidhi Rakhi to abhi but he already investigated about Shivam. Planned approach to get close to anandi using Nidhi. And as anandi has accepted he is putting his next step getting into personal life.
And his dialogue you brighten my life is so much liine Maroying type. I found him quite cheap n pushy. It is simple he is falling for anandi and wants her to reciprocate. Anandi does not deserve someone who is so womanly if she marries let some man in her life.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

In Anandi's case I will prefer to see her single now as her main comfort zone is her social work where she finds joy in helping others. When she happens to be in a relationship she has to mold herself to fulfill the needs of that relationship thus her social work , even her own life takes a back seat and she becomes busy in solving never ending problems associated with that relationship.

Moreover CVs has ended her blissful marriage with Shiv by snatching him from her in the name of empowering her due to their weird logic that only a single women could represent an empowered woman.🤢 It is another matter that what they did with with Anandi after Shiv's death in the name of empowerment was nothing short of a cruel joke. 😡 So they can not bring another partner for giving strength to Anandi , it will defeat their own logic.

But at last it should be only Anandi who has to decide whether she wants to share her life with anyone again or not. She should not be judged on the basis of whatever choice she makes.

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In general I will not find fault in a woman if she chooses to share her life again with a man even if she had a very satisfying blissful marriage before. Her love for her late husband will not become any less if she comes to care and respect someone again and choose to spend her life with him neither it will be a disrespect for the memories of her late husband.

In the end of day memories are what they are, only memories.

Edited by anshurg5 - 10 years ago

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rohini55

@rohini55

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Remember DS telling Gehna her love and regard for Basant will not lessen by her agreeing to marry musicsa

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1013962

Suspended

Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Please gehna n anandi no comparison at all. Gehna always had complaint about Basant she was raped by him n then accepted. After his death she was all I cannot dress up I can't eat good food I can't f**k because I am a widow. Anandi does not crib like that
And Niranjan was far better than Dr Anant he was never pushing him in anandi s life. But this Aashiqui doctor is ready to fall on anandi Ji s lap right now. He will be a very good mrs anandi shiv raj Sekhar or anandi Singh.
Anandi can remarry but this Dr Anant does not fit the bill.

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begumparaa

@begumparaa

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Anandi desrves someone mature and caring like Dr Anant. Yesterday Nidhi tied a rakhi to Shivam - this is important symbolically. Now they are siblings tied by a rakhi bond - Nidhi needs a caring mom in her life and Shivam needs a father's guidance. So it makes sense for Anandi and Dr Anant to get together and live as a happy familly with Nidhi, Shivam and Nandini (and maybe their own child soon)