Will you accept it?! DT NOTE PG 8 - Page 3

Originally posted by: hisusmita

But same DS told something different to Anandi after Shiv's demise

Originally posted by: anshurg5

In Anandi's case I will prefer to see her single now as her main comfort zone is her social work where she finds joy in helping others. When she happens to be in a relationship she has to mold herself to fulfill the needs of that relationship thus her social work , even her own life takes a back seat and she becomes busy in solving never ending problems associated with that relationship.

Moreover CVs has ended her blissful marriage with Shiv by snatching him from her in the name of empowering her due to their weird logic that only a single women could represent an empowered woman.🤢 It is another matter that what they did with with Anandi after Shiv's death in the name of empowerment was nothing short of a cruel joke. 😡 So they can not bring another partner for giving strength to Anandi , it will defeat their own logic.

But at last it should be only Anandi who has to decide whether she wants to share her life with anyone again or not. She should not be judged on the basis of whatever choice she makes.

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In general I will not find fault in a woman if she chooses to share her life again with a man even if she had a very satisfying blissful marriage before. Her love for her late husband will not become any less if she comes to care and respect someone again and choose to spend her life with him neither it will be a disrespect for the memories of her late husband.

In the end of day memories are what they are, only memories.

Originally posted by: anshurg5

In Anandi's case I will prefer to see her single now as her main comfort zone is her social work where she finds joy in helping others. When she happens to be in a relationship she has to mold herself to fulfill the needs of that relationship thus her social work , even her own life takes a back seat and she becomes busy in solving never ending problems associated with that relationship.

Moreover CVs has ended her blissful marriage with Shiv by snatching him from her in the name of empowering her due to their weird logic that only a single women could represent an empowered woman.🤢 It is another matter that what they did with with Anandi after Shiv's death in the name of empowerment was nothing short of a cruel joke. 😡 So they can not bring another partner for giving strength to Anandi , it will defeat their own logic.

But at last it should be only Anandi who has to decide whether she wants to share her life with anyone again or not. She should not be judged on the basis of whatever choice she makes.

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In general I will not find fault in a woman if she chooses to share her life again with a man even if she had a very satisfying blissful marriage before. Her love for her late husband will not become any less if she comes to care and respect someone again and choose to spend her life with him neither it will be a disrespect for the memories of her late husband.

In the end of day memories are what they are, only memories.

Originally posted by: Shinya

red - that was the case in her first 2 marriages, out of which one was a child marriage. In the second, she got unnecessarily involved in family matters rather than continuing her social work... Her in-laws would not have gone against her had she chosen to be a career woman... But it was her choice to prove as an ideal bahu. She wasted her time behind sanchi, then finding shiv's real mother, then dadibua, and so on. She alone is responsible if she put her own life on the back seat.

The same may not happen with anant. Here, he is not required to give her strength. She is already strong. I dont find her lost also. She is very confident and carries herself well.

This marriage will be for companionship and to share good moments with each, where both will have equal status. She will not be the housewife and he will not be the bread winner. They will have one purpose before them to serve the society and to find her daughter.