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Who is making comparisons? Anandi or Ganga's husband?

I really don't understand on which basis people to defend Anandi are putting blame on Jagya he was never clearly moved on from Anandi He finds Anandi's good traits in every woman , his constant comparisons ?

Jagya when met Ganga he has feelings for Anandi I accept he did have but when he met her he was in state of introspection , his guilt in him , he considered himself the most bad person on earth that's what made him compare himself to Ratan and Ganga's situation to Anandi though neither Anandi suffered as equal to Ganga neither he was Ratan but at that moment he was not seeing objectively , reasonably He was just in his guilt beating himself

It was Bhairon and Dadisaa who started comparing Ganga to Anandi seeing her good traits Jagya never did that not even in his mind when she was his beneficiary He never even remembered Anandi seeing her

Under bhang effect losing his senses totally , control over his feelings he hugged Ganga visualling her as Anandi and Ganga got angry at him for it but Jagya realized it and apologized to Ganga and promised to her he will kill his feelings for Anandi in him and move on and Ganga accepted his apology because she understood its difficult for him he needs time and Jagya stood by his words

From then on never for once he remembered Anandi neither saw Anandi in Ganga ., neither compared her any of good traits with Anandi not even in his mind and same people who are telling us here Jagya never clearly moved on from Anandi at that time were saying why Jagya has moved on from Anandi ? He does not remember her at all not even teej ritual he had memory any memory of her

Jagya unlike Anandi stood by his words what he promised what he said while Anandi lied to Shiv she has moved on from Jagya before her marriage to shiv while she had never She was having Jagya's sweet memories even after marriage with Shiv Jagya killed those memories in him and killed the feelings for Anandi in him as well and showed spirit to move on

Never he remembered Anandi in any of his proposals or compared any lady with Anandi Be it with Kanchan , Urmi devi's daughter or even Sanchi He was only less confident he can be good husband for anyone after having 2 failed marriages but he never remembered Anandi or compared any of these ladies with Anandi

Even when he started realizing his feelings for Ganga he was mentally remembering Ganga only never compared her to Anandi at all Not even in one scene

In mangalore he only once compared Ganga to Anandi and that was irritating habit of both ladies They argue a lot even when other person is giving them right suggestion They will argue and force their suggestion

He married Ganga Did love marriage with her unlike Anandi who did marriage with Shiv only because she wanted to fulfill mother's wish

After that when did Jagya remembered Anandi He never did

Only once he said to Ganga your thinking is like Anandi in the scene when he remembered Gauri shouting at him even when he did not compare Gauri with Anandi there neither mentioned Anandi anywhere he only a brought a gift for Gauri Kamarbandh which all women in his family wear but Gauri misunderstood him and took it to Anandi

Jagya after then on did not even took Anandi's name or did so called constant comparisons of Ganga with Anandi I challenge this show me one such scene when he remembered Anandi seeing Ganga or told Anandi she is like Anandi , even mentally compared to Anandi It was Dadisaa who was doing so on which basis people are saying Ganga always knew he has never clearly moved on from Anandi Tell me show me such scene where Jagya has shown he has never moved on from Anandi ? Clearly moved on from Anandi or finding Anandi in Ganga ?

It is Anandi who has never clearly moved on She was in sweet memories of Jagya even after her marriage with Shiv and pushing Shiv away and that guy with tears in his eyes said I know it is difficult for you to give me place of your ex husband but I will wait when you will move on It was Anandi constantly interfering in Jagya's life even after marriage with Shiv even after she fell for Shiv still she was pushing her leg in Jagya's life , still thinks she has some right on him she can interfere in his life and lecture him around Gauri was 100 percent right when she said Anandi still talks to Jagya like and interfere in his life like she still owns him Still have rights on him Otherwise with which right she lectures him , with which right she can interfere in his matters? Only because she has not clearly moved on still thinks she can interfere in his life even though she has no right on him to do so . Did Jagya ever interfered like that In Anandi's personal life , the way Anandi does ?Never

In that particular scene have said 1000 times he was not comparing Ganga to Anandi he simply said what she said even though I don't know why Ganga said Anandi is her role model? She could say she is like her elder sister but Jagya only repeated that what Ganga said Only said same what she said so He only gave Anandi's example it was an act of encouraging her not comparision He encouraged her giving example of woman whom she herself called her role model so on which basis this blame is put on Jagya's head he was has never clearly moved on from Anandi , constantly comparing her to Anandi , seeing Anandi in her Amazing I really don't know why to go out of serial to defend Anandi and blame Jagya ?

Originally posted by: aparnauma

If her son compares himself with Anandi's son and feels inferior who is to be blamed? Shivam or Abhi and his mother who doesn't tell him not to compare himself with anyone?

amazing Then why shivam himself compare himself to Abhi ? O is that no comparison what he says my choice of ice cream best and eww pista is so bad which Abhi had

Originally posted by: kikyo

I really don't understand on which basis people to defend Anandi are putting blame on Jagya he was never clearly moved on from Anandi He finds Anandi's good traits in every woman , his constant comparisons ?

Jagya when met Ganga he has feelings for Anandi I accept he did have but when he met her he was in state of introspection , his guilt in him , he considered himself the most bad person on earth that's what made him compare himself to Ratan and Ganga's situation to Anandi though neither Anandi suffered as equal to Ganga neither he was Ratan but at that moment he was not seeing objectively He was just in his guilt beating himself

It was Bhairon and Dadisaa who started comparing Ganga to Anandi seeing her good traits Jagya never did that not even in his mind when she was his beneficiary He never even remembered Anandi seeing her

Under bhang effect losing his senses totally , control over his feelings he hugged Ganga thinking her as Anandi and Ganga got angry at him for it but Jagya realized it and apologized to Ganga and promised to her he will kill his feelings in him and move on and Ganga accepted his apology because she understood its difficult for him he needs time but Jagya stood by his words

From then on never for once he remembered Anandi neither saw Anandi in Ganga ., neither compared her any of good traits with Anandi not even in his mind and same people who are telling us here Jagya never clearly moved on from Anandi at that time were saying why Jagya has moved on ? He does not remember her at all not even teej ritual he had memory any memory of her

Jagya unlike Anandi stood by his words what he promised while Anandi lied to Shiv she has moved on before her marriage to shiv from Jagya while she had never She was having Jagya's sweet memories even after marriage with Shiv Jagya killed those memories in him and killed the feelings him as well and showed spirit to move on

Never he remembered Anandi in any of his proposals or compared any lady with Anandi Be it with Kanchan , Urmi devi's daughter or even Sanchi He was only less confident he can be good husband for anyone after having 2 failed marriages but he never remembered Anandi or compared any of these ladies with Anandi

Even when he started realizing his feelings for Ganga he was mentally remembering Ganga only never compared her to Anandi at all Not even in one scene

In mangalore he only once compared Ganga to Anandi and that was irritating habit of both ladies The argue a lot even when other person is giving them right suggestion They will argue and force their suggestion

He married Ganga Did love marriage with her unlike Anandi who did marriage with Shiv only because she wanted to fulfill mother's wish

After that when did Jagya remembered Anandi He never did

Only once he said to Ganga your thinking is like Anandi in the scene when he remembered Gauri shouting at him even when he did not compare Gauri with Anandi there but Gauri misunderstood him Jagya after than on did not even took Anandi's name or did so called constant comparisons of Ganga with Anandi I challenge this show me one such scene when he remembered Anandi seeing Ganga or told Anandi she is like Anandi , even mentally compared to Anandi It was Dadisaa who was doing so on which basis people are Ganga always knew he has never clearly moved on from Anandi Tell me show me such scene where Jagya has shown he has never moved on from Anandi ? Clearly moved on from Anandi or finding Anandi in Ganga ?

It is Anandi who has never clearly moved on She was in sweet memories of Jagya even after her marriage with Shiv and pushing Shiv away and that guy with tears his eyes said I know it is difficult for you give me place of your ex husband but I will wait when you will move on It was Anandi constantly interfering in Jagya's life even after marriage with Shiv even after she fell for Shiv still she was pushing her leg in Jagya's life , still thinks she has some right on him she can interfere in his life and lecture him around Gauri was 100 percent right when she said Anandi still talks to Jagya like and interfere in his life like she still owns him Still have rights on him Otherwise with which right she lectures him , with which right she can interfere in his matters? Only because she has not clearly moved on still thinks she can interfere in his life even though she has no right on him to do so . Did Jagya ever interfered like that In Anandi's personal life , the way Anandi does ?Never

In that particular scene have said 1000 times he was not comparing Ganga to Anandi he simply said what she said even though I don't know why Ganga said Anandi is her role model? She could say she is like her elder sister but Jagya only repeated that what Ganga said Only said same what she said so He only gave Anandi's example so on which basis this blame is put on Jagya's head he was has never clearly moved on from Anandi , constantly comparing her to Anandi , seeing Anandi in her Amazing I really don't why to go out of serial to defend Anandi and blame Jagya ?

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Originally posted by: kikyo

amazing Then why shivam himself compare himself to Abhi ? O is that no comparison what he says my choice of ice cream eww pista is so bad which Abhi had

Dadisaa see my report card i got this much marks Hehe Abhi he did not even come in top ten

I believe even thats Abhi or Abhi's mother 's fault who should tell him Shivam is just cutie pie just being energetic 🤪not making a kid inferior to him always

jia i agree wid u. don't u know shivam is sweet bully.

@ Why does her husband make comparisons? Why does he make Anandi a yard stick for comparison?

To answer on that question, I would have to know all the situations when he made the comparison . So If you would be so kind to list all cases, I will respond.
If you talk about that FB, I never consider it as a comparison, more like his encouragement to take such a huge step to tell her son what a terrible man was his father, everything he' s done , and I think it is not necessary to say how Mannu would feel when he finds out the truth .

When I was talking about these constant comparisons, my comment was related to the people who mention them all the time and wonder how come Ganga used to love them at the beginning but not anymore.

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If her husband compares her with his first wife and make her feel bad who is it to be blamed

Honestly, I do not know when he ever said Anandi is more beautiful than you, she's smarter, more successful, a better mother, a better daughter in law, a better wife ... I loved her more than you, you'll never be like her... So sorry .it must be my mistake,obviously, I do not watch this serial properly.

@If her son compares himself with Anandi's son and feels inferior who is to be blamed? Shivam or Abhi and his mother who doesn't tell him not to compare himself with anyone?

I need your help again . Was it Abhi who said my ice cream is better than yours, I'm the favorite of this house, I 'm the good boy , Shivam is not punished enough... Was it Abhi who's talking about Shivam's marks on his behalf or it is Shivam who praises himself, pointing out his success in relation to Abhi's. You know what. When someone says my ice cream is better , I'm No.1 but he's not even among the top 10, that 's what we call bragging and comparing with the others and not just innocently talking about its own success. So who should tell to whom not to compare with anyone? In the name of justifying one favorite character, the facts simply can not be skewed. and attempted to be shown the way as they actually are not.

Originally posted by: Stephi

@ Why does her husband make comparisons? Why does he make Anandi a yard stick for comparison?

To answer on that question, I would have to know all the situations when he made the comparison . So If you would be so kind to list all cases, I will respond.
If you talk about that FB, I never consider it as a comparison, more like his encouragement to take such a huge step to tell her son what a terrible man was his father, everything he' s done , and I think it is not necessary to say how Mannu would feel when he finds out the truth .

When I was talking about these constant comparisons, my comment was related to the people who mention them all the time and wonder how come Ganga used to love them at the beginning but not anymore.

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If her husband compares her with his first wife and make her feel bad who is it to be blamed

Honestly, I do not know when he ever said Anandi is more beautiful than you, she's smarter, more successful, a better mother, a better daughter in law, a better wife ... I loved her more than you, you'll never be like her... So sorry .it must be my mistake,obviously, I do not watch this serial properly.

@If her son compares himself with Anandi's son and feels inferior who is to be blamed? Shivam or Abhi and his mother who doesn't tell him not to compare himself with anyone?

I need your help again . Was it Abhi who said my ice cream is better than yours, I'm the favorite of this house, I 'm the good boy , Shivam is not punished enough... Was it Abhi who's talking about Shivam's marks on his behalf or it is Shivam who praises himself, pointing out his success in relation to Abhi's. You know what. When someone says my ice cream is better , I'm No.1 but he's not even among the top 10, that 's what we call bragging and comparing with the others and not just innocently talking about its own success. So who should tell to whom not to compare with anyone? In the name of justifying one favorite character, the facts simply can not be skewed. and attempted to be shown the way as they actually are not.

stephi bang on

Then what was all that scene between Ganga and Jagya all about when she didn;t want Mannu to know about his father?
In all these eleven years a lot of times these things must have happened for her to resent comparisons.

He repeated her own words what she considers Anandi of It was act of encouraging her not comparison Please

Originally posted by: aparnauma

In all these eleven years a lot of times these things must have happened for her to resent comparisons.

In these 11 years this could happen as well Anandi lecturing Jagya Interfering in his personal life like something is coming up