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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

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Posted: 10 years ago

#51

Bang on stephi and Jia

People writing he was constantly comparing Ganga to his first wife He never did that In that FB scene it was his encouragement to her take a huge step and face reality following the woman 's steps of woman whom she considers her role model If Ganga would not have said that herself ( though i don;t know why she said that herself but since she did )it cannot blamed on Jagya he was constantly comparing her to his first wife Rest people tell us where he did compare her to Anandi

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mahi12

@mahi12

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Posted: 10 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Why did he bring in Anandi at that time ? Why did he bring in Anandi to make a point about something related to their work regarding the purchase of equipment?What was all that about?

He was indirectly using situation to tell Ganga taking a second opinion is better What wrong he did there Where it was comparisons ?😕

and why Anandi is interfering in husband wife issue in what is coming up next?

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Stephi

@Stephi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#53

@ tiny but it luks like we need oder definition of comparison which suits A her kids. her kids play dangerous pranks but still called as sweet bully wid cute naughtiness while whos victim of all this is called jealous.

Yes, tiny, I know . Shivam is just a sweet bully full of energy and he just has to bullies Abhi to spend this huge energy which seems to be inexhaustible. And it's not his fault nor his mom's . It is Abhi 's fault because he's not willing to be Shivam's victim. 😆

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: Stephi
@ tiny but it luks like we need oder definition of comparison which suits A her kids. her kids play dangerous pranks but still called as sweet bully wid cute naughtiness while whos victim of all this is called jealous.

Yes, tiny, I know . Shivam is just a sweet bully full of energy and he just has to bullies Abhi to spend this huge energy which seems to be inexhaustible. And it's not his fault nor his mom's . It is Abhi 's fault because he's not willing to be Shivam's victim. 😆

@bold not just abhi but his mom's fault also whos boosting insecurity in abhi by trying 2 encourage him saying she "ll bring better vid game if he gets gud marks in future despite clearly seeing shivam's needling 2 abhi.

i never thot that encouraging by saying that "she"ll bring better vid game if he brings gud marks in future" is booting insecurity or feeling insecurity herself!!😲bcoz i'd heard & seen this so many times around myself whether it b my relatives, frnds or sum strangers .

but if same things were said by A then it wud b encouraging her sweet bully son.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Then what was all that scene between Ganga and Jagya all about when she didn;t want Mannu to know about his father?

Didn't he compare her with Anandi and put her down and didn't she say that there have been comparisons all along?

Yes Ganga was not right about not wanting to tell Mannu about his father then why bring in Anandi into the conversation there implying that had she been like Anandi she would not have said this etc

Why did he bring in Anandi at that time ? Why did he bring in Anandi to make a point about something related to their work regarding the purchase of equipment?What was all that about?

In all these eleven years a lot of times these things must have happened for her to resent comparisons.

Lol... I had completely forgotten about this scene.😆

Jagya telling anandi no harm in taking second opinion and looking sideways at ganga. So apt to the situation.😆

Even anandi got confused for a second, err, what was happening ? And dadisa telling them she knows how to use internet .😆

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jdfan

@jdfan

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Posted: 10 years ago

#56

I don't understand this constant comparisons theory of Jagya of Ganga with Anandi I mean he did not do it before for a long time did not do that when Anandi came in BH he started doing This is what people are saying on the basis of that one FB 😆😆Amazing 😆

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jdfan

@jdfan

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Posted: 10 years ago

#57

Twisting facts to defend Aanndi has become so common here i am not attacking anyone but could not hold on after reader one post in support of Anandi Unfortunately that thread is closed for me to respond but i read someone saying that there

Jagya got his share in Singhs property and his hospital because of Anandi... its a fact

😆 Complete false

if Dadisaa has given Anandi some share in her property Made her a legal heir too this does not mean she has made her owner of the house and property as well This property of Singhs BH and Jaitsar hospital is not owned by Anandi Jagya is legal heir of Singhs property by birth and no one can snatch his share in property from him

The family reunion happened with him because of Dadisaa She saw his goodness in his act when he corrected his mistake and saved shiv from railway fraud It was Dadisaa who gave Bhairon and Sumitra some sense when they were still busy cursing him She asked them stop cursing him and open your eyes and go hug your son Today your son has completly returned to you and Bhairon and Sumitra realized and entire family went and hugged him Anandi did nothing in this family union so Jagya is accepted back by Singhs themselves Anandi did nothing in that so how Jagya got his share in BH and Singhs property because of Anandi😆

The hospital was given to him It was suggestion of Bhairon He suggested to everyone and discussed with everyone even Lal and Lal had no problems because even he knows Jagya is more qualified more capable doctor than him so he was happy at that and welcomed Jagya with a garland

Anandi and Shiv were invited by Singhs there and they were later discussing among them Jagdish will be best MD of this hospital so how Jagya got his hospital because of Anandi?😆

Second time when Dadisaa asked him to leave the hous after JaGan marriage and snatched the hospital from him

It was Jaitsar people as well as Lal Singh who asked DS not to do this Lal Singh said to DS i won't talk about your other personal matter thats your personal matter but snatching hospital from Jagya you are doing damage of not only Hospital but of entire Jaitsar village He did a lot for this hospital Its a huge loss for Jaitsar hospital and Jaitsar if you take away the hospital from him Bhairon and Basant supported Lal in this and Dadisaa had to give him hospital not because he needed the hospital They needed him for hospital

Dadisaa and Sumitra after seeing Sanchi's true face and they got some good slaps of truth their eyes got opened and they asked forgiveness from him and accepted him back Bhairon . Basant and Gehna were always in support of him so Jagya and Ganga came back to BH

Now some one please tell me what did Anandi do in this that it is said Jagya got his share in BH and Singhs property and hospital because of Anandi that credit is given to her and calling it a fact too While the actual facts i have mentioned anyone have doubt please watch Balika Vadhu serial for clarification😆

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Stephi

@Stephi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#58

@ Then what was all that scene between Ganga and Jagya all about when she didn;t want Mannu to know about his father?

I knew this scene will be named as a comparison, so I already largely answered on it. For me it was not a comparison, I understood it as an encouragement. Ganga was afraid that her son has to hear the terrible truth of what kind of man his real father is. Anandi lost her own child due to her own fault and has to live with that terrible truth . In such difficult situations it is possible and common for people to make a comparison, ( if someone wants to call it as a comparison) but not in the sense that Anandi has done something better,on the contrary, she's done something much worse, still she lives with her guilt. Manu's father is a criminal, its not easy to live with such a bitter truth, but Anandi's truth is much worse than that. Manu is not responsible for his father's actions, but she is responsible for the loss of her child .

As I see still there's no other example for comparisons except this one.

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didn't she say that there have been comparisons all along?

Yes, she said that and she was right. Dadisa has always done that and still does . She gives credit to Anandi she did good by making Jagya understand . That was more than rude and inappropriate. But that does not mean that he is the one who compares.Ganga said that to Jagya, but then again to whom a women should talk about things that bother her if not to her husband.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: Stephi
@ Then what was all that scene between Ganga and Jagya all about when she didn;t want Mannu to know about his father?

I knew this scene will be named as a comparison, so I already largely answered on it. For me it was not a comparison, I understood it as an encouragement. Ganga was afraid that her son has to hear the terrible truth of what kind of man his real father is. Anandi lost her own child due to her own fault and has to live with that terrible truth . In such difficult situations it is possible and common for people to make a comparison, ( if someone wants to call it as a comparison) but not in the sense that Anandi has done something better,on the contrary, she's done something much worse, still she lives with her guilt. Manu's father is a criminal, its not easy to live with such a bitter truth, but Anandi's truth is much worse than that. Manu is not responsible for his father's actions, but she is responsible for the loss of her child .

As I see still there's no other example for comparisons except this one.

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didn't she say that there have been comparisons all along?

Yes, she said that and she was right. Dadisa has always done that and still does . She gives credit to Anandi she did good by making Jagya understand . That was more than rude and inappropriate. But that does not mean that he is the one who compares.Ganga said that to Jagya, but then again to whom a women should talk about things that bother her if not to her husband.

stephi i agree. DS is doing this & wneever A interfering/butting J is going away it was shown in pre-cap that he left angrily even after A said that we shud asked abt it him in eveng. and DS said that A made him understood. i was thinking how cum J is calmed down by A wen he left angrily even after A's so-called great advice?? does calming down means getting up angrily going a w ay from the place. 2 me J luked irritated wid A's butting in.

and J can't say anything 2 A bcoz of obvious reasons an d ganga felt bad and she said 2 J which is natural as like u said hes her husband & she"ll tell him abt the things bothering her not 2 DS or even if she thinks A as sis or adviser.

and again twisting of facts. J @ dinner table .i think we all agreed that he did that 2 tell ganga that it was not bad 2 hav 2nd opinion a s he was MUing her that she want the deal done on her own & shud'd asked sum1 oderwise both wudn't'd apologised 2 each oder later on in the room.

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 10 years ago

#60

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Didn't he compare her with Anandi and put her down and didn't she say that there have been comparisons all along?

put her down ? i believe you heard him saying Anandi is better than you You Can't face reality ? This what is putting down i believe

How more twisting facts Jagya will put Ganga down ? He is one the who made her stand up why he will put her down for sake of any Anandi?

When he put her down He said i dislike your this habit Can't he say that to his wife which things he dislike about her ?

Later he said what she said People have quoted Ganga's that statement nth time It was an act of encouragement

Yes but Dadisaa did Ganga's constant comparisons with Anandi even put her down in front of Shekhars telling Ganga finally learnt to make tea like Anandi which you were defending then ? Dadisaa was totally right in that because we argued on it ?

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