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Originally posted by: hisusmita
It has lifted my spirits too.I hope Anji is not joking ,But why not , Anandi can definitely do that.But we are saying all these that why she is shown so helpless.I want to ask all the moms out here, just put yourself in place of her.The lady has lost her husband and now she has lost her little princess, that too she is in guilt mode that it could have avoided if she would have not taken the risk.Can anyone be strong immediately after this. The mother will be devastated, she dont have that shoulder also to cry, dont have those broad arms who will give her support.She will feel like this only.Now she will be strong
Sus,
First of all why we need to put ourselves in her place?
We are ordinary ppl , no one will want to watch our ordinary stories on TV.
It is the extra ordinariness of Anandi and for that matter Shiv too for which viewers keep hooking on TV.
We toh neither can have selflessness like them nor they can be allowed to bow down in adverse situations like us.
Anandi has been an inspirational character for many women of rural area and CVs pretend to send a social message by their VOs in the end. What message they want to send by their leading lady bowing down in front an stupid order passed by her elders?
Yes, Anandi has suffered great losses due to fate as well as her own wrong judgement but she still can not afford to wallow in self pity or in guilt as she still has to take care two of her other kids and has to keep their best interest in mind while taking any decision.
Not only Anandi but kids also lost their father and now their sister why they have to loose their home and their independence too. And who should be most concerned about their emotions and welfare?
Definitely their mom not Daddu who did not even bother to reconsider his decision of going to Singapore for their sake or DSa who did not choose to ask Anandi's opinion before passing this order.
A woman can be weak or strong according to the situation and can leave decision of her fate on others in the moments of her weakness but a mother can never be weak when it comes to the welfare of her children. And for this a woman does not need to be extra ordinary , each and every normal mom fights for her children.
Even a weak woman turns into a fighter when it comes to her children. Have not we seen that a woman like Sarita who had nothing in her favour tried to explore every mean to reach to her daughter to stop ruining her future.
I have recently heard a line in a promo..
( not remember the beginning )...par baat jab bachchon per aati hai toh hirni bhi sherni ban jaati hai.
So true it is. A small frail woman can turn into a lioness for her children sake. Then why a fighter like Ajee can not do that ? Why her never dying spirit which never bowed in adverse situations before took order from Daddu and Dsa when she herself was not in favour of that?
Now please do not say that for her , her children welfare lies in shifting in BH. If she thinks so then it is again a bad judgement . She may consider BH as her home but for her children it can never be their home as it will be for Jagya's children. They will have no right on anything in it neither on the affection of DS and family as J's or Basant children will have.
J in his whitewashed avtar and Ganga as his understanding wife may try to make them comfortable when they are under their roof but slowly when child will interact with other children of neighborhood, children like Gopal will try to belittle them on this account.
Even searching Nandini was also more possible near Udaipur where she was kidnapped or in Jaitser ? Should she not keep this in mind before leaving the place?
Now CVs will shift that Akhira Baghira family in Jaitser but Aanadi toh was not knowing it.
After Shiv nor once CVs have shown Anandi trying to become financially independent for her and her children's self respect what women usually do in such situation . This eradication of social evils is all good but first financially empower yourself if you can. Why only depend on Shiv's pension or Shekhars or DSa's mercy if you have education and physical strength to do that? Shiv's pension can not be always sufficient for the growing needs of her children.
Moreover Shiv must have taken loans to make that palatial house , who is going to repay that?
It was always said by many other fan groups that whatever Anandi could do was because of support of Singhs and then later by Shiv.
By going back to Singhs when there is no Shiv , CVs are proving that right.
Sorry Sus for my rant , do not want to spoil you girls jolly mood after days here but you asked a pointed question and I have to put my points.
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