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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually I am happy all this happen...it will be good learning experience for AnSh esp Anandi

when day before yesterday she said she won't able trust anyone now on... It will be good if CV writers show Anandi more practical rational than Emotional Shiv too whom family is weak link like Anandi.

Both will be more strong in family matters too

after this if writers show Anandi comes out being more strong try to be more rational practical respective family matter or Bhaili matters.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: blushing

Actually I am happy all this happen...it will be good learning experience for AnSh esp Anandi

when day before yesterday she said she won't able trust anyone now on... It will be good if CV writers show Anandi more practical rational than Emotional Shiv too whom family is weak link like Anandi.

Both will be more strong in family matters too

after this if writers show Anandi comes out being more strong try to be more rational practical respective family matter or Bhaili matters.




Aditi, it is a very very costly way to gain experience.

Anandi had many such experience in the past but till date she hasn't realised that keeping quiet does more harm than good.

She kept quiet in Saja, even hid secrets about Sa-Sau despite being warned by the Mali, kept quiet regarding JaGa, and now not exposing DB.

We often feel like questioning, had Anandi told the truth/ facts earlier instead of trying to solve matters on her own, would things be any different and less painful? In my opinion - YES.

The lead of the show is very impractical person and a very slow learner of life and reality. She is good, kind-hearted, principled and genuine, but her ways of dealing with life is costly dearly, and causes lot of pain to her loved ones even when she does not want to hurt them.

But I do agree, that if this incident does not make Anandi practical and rational, then nothing ever will.

Hopefully CVs show her in a different light from now onwards, and do not glorify that 'keeping quiet' is a good principle.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@ anshu alok Ira surely won't blame Shiv ... obviously they knew Shiv been trapped by Anup
Alok Ira being true parent of Shiv accept all but will be hurt seeing Shiv...they won't be sad hurt for themselves but for their son been torn both can't do anything about it...

Wish Meneu shd gave hard time to Anup...😆 Meenu has more power before Anup return back...wish Meenu said this to Anup realized him his return cause her so much...she was more happy content before

its again realistic people who are more powerful as Professional are bit looser in family matters..😆

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i think its complexity of joint family ...like web... psychology behavior pattern of people in different situation...

all this led to Shiv vs Anup showdown...hopefully...

now days KB turn out to be real family even in their fights.. Professional life of AnSh now shown properly

this is best way...family involves in AnSh in professional life too ..Anandi's Bhaili suffer due to Anup ...soon Anup will interfere in DC Shiv matter too.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

Aditi, it is a very very costly way to gain experience.


Anandi had many such experience in the past but till date she hasn't realised that keeping quiet does more harm than good.

She kept quiet in Saja, even hid secrets about Sa-Sau despite being warned by the Mali, kept quiet regarding JaGa, and now not exposing DB.

We often feel like questioning, had Anandi told the truth/ facts earlier instead of trying to solve matters on her own, would things be any different and less painful? In my opinion - YES.

The lead of the show is very impractical person and a very slow learner of life and reality. She is good, kind-hearted, principled and genuine, but her ways of dealing with life is costly dearly, and causes lot of pain to her loved ones even when she does not want to hurt them.

But I do agree, that if this incident does not make Anandi practical and rational, then nothing ever will.

Hopefully CVs show her in a different light from now onwards, and do not glorify that 'keeping quiet' is a good principle.


hope Writers also realized this 😆

lets see hoping against hope ...but when Anandi said that line I was sad hurt but maha happy too 😆

if now Anandi finds out its DB who keep Anup's mind fueling against all ...
Wish that time also Anandi realized her goodness cause KB division somewhere...i so wanted to see this...

I don't mind even Anandi blame herself...😛 if Anandi acts more smartly it will be ⭐️
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Posted: 10 years ago
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To say that Daddu would have forgiven DB is no reason not to expose her. You do something because it is the right thing to do. Police can't stop their work saying it doesn't bring down crime. If all of us say "what use?" we will never accomplish anything.

This way there is no solution for DB. Even after A finds DB is with Anoop, she won't let Shiv tell the family because daddu will be shattered more.

Assuming Ansh brings this to the family's notice -- which is unlikely-- DB will again do nataak.


So is the solution to stand by and watch while she destroys the family. I agree with those who say that problems should be nipped in the bud.

Shiv did the same thing as A and he will suffer and pay for it. Anoop would have returned after getting a few hard knocks.

Finally, DB's part in Anoop's villainy cannot be overlooked. Kaikeyi who loved Ram turned against him on the instigation of Mantara.

Perhaps we should see this as a necessary step for the story to move ahead. Without Mantara, there can be no Ramayana:))

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes Esha agree with you, Anandi should have told DB's truth to her family irrespective of that if it would make a difference or not. Family specially daddu had a right to know the real face of his dear Shubhi who did not hesitate to harm his DIL's health to achieve her goal. Keeping things from the family only create misunderstandings. Cvs want these misunderstandings to create drama around it.

But as for Shekhars treating DB more consciously I do not have much hope from them as they have come to know Sanchi's true face many times but instead of treating her strictly and logically they were too eager to buy her excuses and to believe on her fake reforms. They would have done same with DB . Daddu is not completely unaware to her vile nature but he did nothing except glaring her few times.

Hardik was a different case all together, mature for his age and firm where he thought himself right .And he had more experience regarding DB.


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Aditi, Ira may have said that she is only hurt on the account of Shiv but it will not lessen her pain instead of showing her love for her son.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@ Anshu...as u rhtly pointed out even truth was out even then DB surely fool all ...
yes that doesn't mean Anandi was right hiding DB's truth from Daddu and rest

but I think same scenario would happen ...Anup's own insecurity plus his hatred towards Alok nothing to do with DB...

yes DB only made him hurt Anandi her Bhaili...but rest is Anup's own attitude... that won't have change...

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may be Writer's wanted to show AnSh like this

hopefully end of the day AnSh will have more power 😆 dealing with family and profession
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shiv might have agreed to fit for that particular situation. He does things calmly. In Rasika case as well he kept silent and did things properly and correctly to prove his innocence. This situation as well he will wait and do things in such a way to make realise Anoop that he's 100%wrong and going and doing things against Family interest.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I've a question:
Why is it considered correct to tolerate or cover-up a crime to "keep the family intact"? I agree completely with Esha, even if Anandi couldn't prove the real intentions behind DB's administering of drugs, she should've brought it out in the open and let Daddu deal with it.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't think Shiv was wrong in accepting Anoop's demand.

He had to take the decision at that very moment.Few minutes back he had seen daddu collapsing on seeing his son leaving the house.He promised him that he won't allow the family to break and went upstairs to talk with Anoop.He tried stopping him by saying that he can't live without his chote papa and choti ma but Anoop didn't listen.When Shiv realised that the main problem with Anoop is that he wants his son back and would stop if Shiv starts calling him "Papa",he agreed.
So,Shiv had only two options at that moment-
1) To let Anoop go.That would've broken Daddu completely and who knows he might have died.
2) To accept Anoop's demand.
In reality he had only one option left and that us the former one.

By taking this decision,Shiv Is the one who'll suffer the most
Talking about Ira and Alok- the saner and more matured ones are always expected to compromise in joint families.That's the reality

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