Why not Shiv?

Why was Sumitra and Bhairon praising Anandi only for adoption?...adoption is always a combined decision of couple so wasn't Shiv to praised for his open thinking also...they were making it look as if only becoz of Anandi uch great job was done...Anandi had needed upport and many permissions so i think even Shekhars can be given credit or atleat Shiv for agreeing for this adoption...their Anandi is not the only unique mahaan soul to have different thinking 😡 😛

last may bola na... shiv is happy so it mns he is supporting... wah wah... he he he...

With that statement, I don't think they were praising Anandi. 😆😆

Sumitra mostly looked appalled to me.😆 It was Bhairon who was happy and proud. Bhairon did balance it well by saying Shiv was with Anandi and as long as they were together, there was nothing to worry.

Seeing Sumitra's horrified face I wanted to slap her!😡 She should have controlled herself at least in front of the child! I am glad the child did not notice all this, or I hope he did not.

I think Shiv acted a little wrong today. Amol was not a gift or surprise. He is a human. You're adopting him. He's your kid. He should have told Anandi about it and latter should have told Singhs. Or he should have told Singhs and Shekhars so that their reactions were a little more appropriate to the situation.

CVs are great. How come adoption agency agreed so soon? How did their reservations go? And they also brought Amol as a gift? Wasn't it wrong to bring along other ashram kids but hand over Amol? Wouldn't other kids feel bad? Which adoption agency or ashram behaves in such insensitive manner?

Anyway, Anandi praise does not seem unwarranted to me. She's the one who took this initiative and was most excited for it. Commendable that Shiv supported her and Alok-Meenu-Daddu were so open minded. But she's the one who pined for Amol almost like a real mother. So I do not mind her being praised. And Singhs are her maika. If they will not praise her, then who will?

I feel or think that SHiv is very gentle and mature character in bv ... And it seems that all was a pre planned by him to make A anandi happy by surprising that kid as a gift. Every man can go to hell or heaven to please her wife ... So shiv did not commit anything wrong

The agency/anathashram should not have brought other kids - they will certainly feel jealous seeing such a big home their friend is going to live (young children cannot judge details like how will he live with Sanchi- for them Amol is one lucky boy) and even feel unwanted - children at that age can understand that now Amol is with his adopted parents, whereas they will continue to live in anath ashram.

Originally posted by: SPuja

The agency/anathashram should not have brought other kids - they will certainly feel jealous seeing such a big home their friend is going to live (young children cannot judge details like how will he live with Sanchi- for them Amol is one lucky boy) and even feel unwanted - children at that age can understand that now Amol is with his adopted parents, whereas they will continue to live in anath ashram.

well its on human nature... or how dey r... ofcourse dey can feel jealous that dere frend is going to get such good parents... n wid dis dey can also learn to aspire bug so dat sum day sum one will too cum in dere lives...

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think difference in perspectives is so interesting!

It never occurred to me that the other kids would be jealous. I thought that rather it would inspire them to dream new dreams. Like "oh wow, I too have a chance of getting adopted." I thought it would give the kids a new jolt of energy.